Kiwi123

Yes, we emailed the Choice of agent to NVCInquiry from my parents email accounts. I think it is easier & quicker to send it by email versus by mail.

You have pretty bad attitude for Asian countries and Asian women. Are you married one of us?
well, I already wrote a long reply but I decided to delete all.. and make it short..
My life is better in term of the never-ending happiness in our marriage.
My life is worse.. the worst, in term of my own earning. I left a job that paid me triple more than I am making here.. and I'm from one of the "POOR" countries you mentioned.
Reading your post made me feel sick!

All the best for Justagirl24 and Ella and Mark, for your interview tomorrow.
Pls comeback here and share your interview experience. Hope you guys rock the interview tomorrow

Try to help me understand this too. My coworker is over 40 years old. She and her bf dated for 10 years. He had tenure job, really loved her and took good care of her. He helped her partly with credit card bills and mortgage payments. Every year, he booked 1-2 expensive vacations to go with her. His mom loveeeed her and really hoped for a marriage. On her 40th birthday, he wanted to give a surprise by buying her a nice new car. She wasn't suprised nor happy. She told him she wanted them to get married. He was shocked. Why? they had a lot of funs together and were enjoying the life.
She said "c'm on, I'm already 40, I need to settle down. I want a family with you. And I want children."
A few days after that, he bought her 2 puppies, hoped that she would be busy enough to forget about marriage idea. They dated for long time and my coworker made him really happy. He didn't want to lose her at all but he didn't want a marriage either?!
She still desired a baby. She planned to adopt a child. You know how hard it is to adopt a child here! (especially when she's single) She asked for his support and asked him to cosign with her. But he coldly said no. Soon after that they broke up...
My point is: If some can date for a loooong time without thinking about getting married, some can get married without dating too. They can do whatever they want. Who else can be responsible for their lives except themselves. Who are we to judge others?

Try to help me understand this too. My coworker is over 40 years old. She and her bf dated for 10 years. He had tenure job, really loved her and took good care of her. He helped her partly with credit card bills and mortgage payments. Every year, he booked 1-2 expensive vacations to go with her. His mom loveeeed her and really hoped for a marriage. On her 40th birthday, he wanted to give a surprise by buying her a nice new car. She wasn't suprised nor happy. She told him she wanted them to get married. He was shocked. Why? they had a lot of funs together and were enjoying the life.
She said "c'm on, I'm already 40, I need to settle down. I want a family with you. And I want children."
A few days after that, he bought her 2 puppies, hoped that she would be busy enough to forget about marriage idea. They dated for long time and my coworker made him really happy. He didn't want to lose her at all but he didn't want a marriage either?!
She still desired a baby. She planned to adopt a child. You know how hard it is to adopt a child here! (especially when she's single) She asked for his support and asked him to cosign with her. But he coldly said no. Soon after that they broke up...
My point is: If some can date for a loooong time without thinking about getting married, some can get married without dating too. They can do whatever they want. Who else can be responsible for their lives except themselves. Who are we to judge others?

Try to help me understand this too. My coworker is over 40 years old. She and her bf dated for 10 years. He had tenure job, really loved her and took good care of her. He helped her partly with credit card bills and mortgage payments. Every year, he booked 1-2 expensive vacations to go with her. His mom loveeeed her and really hoped for a marriage. On her 40th birthday, he wanted to give a surprise by buying her a nice new car. She wasn't suprised nor happy. She told him she wanted them to get married. He was shocked. Why? they had a lot of funs together and were enjoying the life.
She said "c'm on, I'm already 40, I need to settle down. I want a family with you. And I want children."
A few days after that, he bought her 2 puppies, hoped that she would be busy enough to forget about marriage idea. They dated for long time and my coworker made him really happy. He didn't want to lose her at all but he didn't want a marriage either?!
She still desired a baby. She planned to adopt a child. You know how hard it is to adopt a child here! (especially when she's single) She asked for his support and asked him to cosign with her. But he coldly said no. Soon after that they broke up...
My point is: If some can date for a loooong time without thinking about getting married, some can get married without dating too. They can do whatever they want. Who else can be responsible for their lives except themselves. Who are we to judge others?

Try to help me understand this too. My coworker is over 40 years old. She and her bf dated for 10 years. He had tenure job, really loved her and took good care of her. He helped her partly with credit card bills and mortgage payments. Every year, he booked 1-2 expensive vacations to go with her. His mom loveeeed her and really hoped for a marriage. On her 40th birthday, he wanted to give a surprise by buying her a nice new car. She wasn't suprised nor happy. She told him she wanted them to get married. He was shocked. Why? they had a lot of funs together and were enjoying the life.
She said "c'm on, I'm already 40, I need to settle down. I want a family with you. And I want children."
A few days after that, he bought her 2 puppies, hoped that she would be busy enough to forget about marriage idea. They dated for long time and my coworker made him really happy. He didn't want to lose her at all but he didn't want a marriage either?!
She still desired a baby. She planned to adopt a child. You know how hard it is to adopt a child here! (especially when she's single) She asked for his support and asked him to cosign with her. But he coldly said no. Soon after that they broke up...
My point is: If some can date for a loooong time without thinking about getting married, some can get married without dating too. They can do whatever they want. Who else can be responsible for their lives except themselves. Who are we to judge others?

WaitinginSeattle, Please enlighten me and the others on VJ as to what USCIS has done wrong in this case?????????

Immigration attorneys are very rarely experts on immigration.
When a person is so clearly ignorant or the process and the instructions, the best thing they can do is read the instructions before doing anything else. Some people cannot understand instructions or are unable to do what is necessary themselves (perhaps deployed military for example) and for them it is better to pay someone that knows what they are doing. Those are the facts.
It seems to be OK for someone to go on a rant, accusing USCIS of being callous and foolish and heartless and stupid, when in fact nothing they are ranting about is correct, but it is not OK to point out that the person doing that needs to learn something about the process which will benefit himself and his family. Too bad.
Post such as above give no advice or answers and only serve to criticize real advice and answers. Very easy to do. Post Police.
Having friends in the USCIS has been of benefit to the members here and had the OP read the pinned topic at the top of the forum first he may not have had the problem he does. I have no better advice for anyone than to read what is available here at VJ

I don't think anyone here is trying to shoot personal attacks. People are helping in different ways. To be honest, I like JustBob. His replies always go straight to the point and they are true. USCIS officers probably think the same JustBob does. That's the reality.
And the OP threw her problem out there and invited ppl to come and discuss. You can't insist to hear only what you WANT to hear. So I think you should be thankful for any comments. At least you weren't ignored, ppl concerned and spent their time for you.

The proof of miscarriages ins't necessary and is in fact a bit morbid.
How is USCIS "being a knob", the OP failed to provide sufficient evidence so USCIS sent him a form letter stating such and listing recommendations for evidence that could help them get the approval they seek. So tell me what did USCIS do wrong in this case?

You did not get a denial, you got an RFE. You did not go to an interview, you went to a biometrics appointment.
You do not understand the process and have no clue what you are doing so it is no surprise you have not submitted what they need. Stop now and read the guides here and the instructions before answering the RFE because that will be very important. If you are not capable of understanding this, then I suggest you pay someone who does.
Children are not a requirement in any way. That is a suggested type of evidence. Read, study, or get help.

So that's a RFE, request for evidence; not a denial letter.
So that wasn't an interview, but the biometric appointment where they do nothing but take a photo, fingerprints and a signature.
All snark withheld for now, I know this is stressful, but do try to read the instructions and the letter, as well as trillium's excellent advice.
In addition to what she's listing, we also had screenshots of ebay and PayPal accounts, showing clearly that one man and one woman are using both, also envelopes from friends, family, business and junk mail addressed to one, or the other, or both of us, at the same address, collected over many months; also, bank statements showing both of us having salary deposited there, and both of us spending from there.
Think "Office Space": If you think the bare minimum is enough, then ok. But some people choose to wear more pieces of flair and we encourage that, ok?

You didn't get a denial, you got an RFE, that's a big difference. Your "interview" you went to was not an interview at all, it was your biometrics appointment. All they ever do is photo and fingerprints.
They need more evidence from you, send it to them. It's not about whether you have kids or not. We don't, and we got approved without RFE.

Well fordchev,
The Initial Post was not too nice actually, Stating that USCIS were Inconsiderate Bastards and Had Denied them ROC.
I hope he flies those Multi Billion Dollar aircraft and Keeps Secrets better than he does at Filing Forms.
You will see that Gary and Alla will Help Anyone with the Right Attitude.

I don't think anyone here is trying to shoot personal attacks. People are helping in different ways. To be honest, I like JustBob. His replies always go straight to the point and they are true. USCIS officers probably think the same JustBob does. That's the reality.
And the OP threw her problem out there and invited ppl to come and discuss. You can't insist to hear only what you WANT to hear. So I think you should be thankful for any comments. At least you weren't ignored, ppl concerned and spent their time for you.

I don't think anyone here is trying to shoot personal attacks. People are helping in different ways. To be honest, I like JustBob. His replies always go straight to the point and they are true. USCIS officers probably think the same JustBob does. That's the reality.
And the OP threw her problem out there and invited ppl to come and discuss. You can't insist to hear only what you WANT to hear. So I think you should be thankful for any comments. At least you weren't ignored, ppl concerned and spent their time for you.

I don't think anyone here is trying to shoot personal attacks. People are helping in different ways. To be honest, I like JustBob. His replies always go straight to the point and they are true. USCIS officers probably think the same JustBob does. That's the reality.
And the OP threw her problem out there and invited ppl to come and discuss. You can't insist to hear only what you WANT to hear. So I think you should be thankful for any comments. At least you weren't ignored, ppl concerned and spent their time for you.