Help Needed Re. Uncooperative Spouse

[lonely_girl 0]

Hi every one!,I need your help.I have a friend who's living now in Boston she wants to know how she can get the tax return copies of her husband,this is really horrible,her hubby doesn't want to do all the paperworks,he said to her that's not his responsibility anymore since she's already with him.She couldn't even buy her own deodorant coz she is like a prison.She used to be a teacher in the Philippines and now she is Jobless coz she needs her paperworks to be done,she quit her job back home and decided to live with him in US.She is not happy with him coz he has an attitude problem.Pls can anyone give an advice of what she needs to do.? I really feel sorry about her i wanna help but i don't know how!..Thanks!>.

[nane1104 146]

I have no question for this, but I am wondering, why he would not want to support her with her papers now that they are married!?

Maybe give us some more information, but to me it sounds very strange.

[lonely_girl 0]

Coz he said that's not his responsibility anymore,he abused her mentaly using verbal words..Look she used to be a teacher for 16 years in the Philippines,pretty,slender ,professional and has a good heart and why he treats her like that?. He took everything from her,her job,freedom ,peace of mind and happiness.She doesn't understand his attitude.This is really strange!...

[Yodrak 7]

Posts split from the sending the AOS and I-765 applications separately thread - totally different topic.

Yodrak

Edited May 30, 2007 by Yodrak

[Nancy2015 2]

Your friend needs to go to a battered women's shelter. There's hardly anything else I can think about. If what you're saying is true, this husband sounds like a typical abuser who married a foreigner and refused to file any paperwork, because he thinks it makes it easier to manipulate his foreign spouse. Your friend needs to get out, and leave this nutcase for good. If she's interested in staying in the U.S., she may very well have a shot at it if she can prove abuse. There are people at her local shelter who may be able to help.