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Fellow members , pleased kindly help with this question about my friend in Chicago , his wife and her family are dictating on him just like slavery and treating to deport him if he did not always obey them .

 

Please are his wife parents have a saying on their married , because she took him to her parents house to stayed with him there , instead of the house she already told him belong to her for their stay.

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So he thought he was going to live in one place and ended up living elsewhere.


“If you know the enemy and know yourself, you need not fear the result of a hundred battles. If you know yourself but not the enemy, for every victory gained you will also suffer a defeat. If you know neither the enemy nor yourself, you will succumb in every battle.”

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Move out from his parent-in-laws' house.   Problem solved.

 

Divorce his wife.  Problem solved.  

 

Her parents shouldn't have a say on their marriage, but as long as he is staying in their house, he's going to have to deal with it.  Move out and he solves his problem.  

 

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1 hour ago, aaron2020 said:

Move out from his parent-in-laws' house.   Problem solved.

 

Divorce his wife.  Problem solved.  

 

Her parents shouldn't have a say on their marriage, but as long as he is staying in their house, he's going to have to deal with it.  Move out and he solves his problem.  

 

They are treating him , if he try to change a place from that actual place, they will put him in problem and always whatever he discuss with her , she out and tell them.

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2 minutes ago, Nash Kumasi said:

They are treating him , if he try to change a place from that actual place, they will put him in problem and always whatever he discuss with her , she out and tell them.

Tell him to be a man.  If he doesn't like living in someone else's house, then he should move out and divorce.  

 

What are they going to do when he moves?

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14 minutes ago, aaron2020 said:

Tell him to be a man.  If he doesn't like living in someone else's house, then he should move out and divorce.  

 

What are they going to do when he moves?

I don't know , but he told me she beat him before and told him she spend a lot on him , that she want him to pay her back and he promised to work and pay her back but still they keep on treating him like slave in that house , washing plate's , etc. That they will deport him if he didn't take care .

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10 minutes ago, Nash Kumasi said:

I don't know , but he told me she beat him before and told him she spend a lot on him , that she want him to pay her back and he promised to work and pay her back but still they keep on treating him like slave in that house , washing plate's , etc. That they will deport him if he didn't take care .

They can't deport him.  There is no legal way for them to do this.  

 

If she is beating him, then he might want to consider calling the police and then MOVE OUT.

 

Why is it so hard for him to move out? 

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7 minutes ago, aaron2020 said:

They can't deport him.  There is no legal way for them to do this.  

 

If she is beating him, then he might want to consider calling the police and then MOVE OUT.

 

Why is it so hard for him to move out? 

They seems to live in a place where they are no public transportation for him to get his way out and they are also treating him with gun .

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He does something about  or he does not, sounds like he needs a shelter.


“If you know the enemy and know yourself, you need not fear the result of a hundred battles. If you know yourself but not the enemy, for every victory gained you will also suffer a defeat. If you know neither the enemy nor yourself, you will succumb in every battle.”

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A shelter should be able to help him work with Police to get his stuff back.


“If you know the enemy and know yourself, you need not fear the result of a hundred battles. If you know yourself but not the enemy, for every victory gained you will also suffer a defeat. If you know neither the enemy nor yourself, you will succumb in every battle.”

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4 minutes ago, Nash Kumasi said:

He told me they once seized his documents and scattered all things in his bag , also took his phone not be able to call nobody .

Does he not have legs?  Can he not walk?   If someone is pointing a gun at him, why doesn't he just leave without his stuff?  

 

Seems like there are lots of excuses as to why he can't solve his problem.

 

What advice are you looking for on VisaJourney?  What magic would you like us to work?  

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