evidence..s enough?

[dora_david 0]

Hi all..i have a question..is enough for evidence that we meet in last 2 years just copy after visa and pictures? i dont have other evidenes..can u give me a ideea what else can i give as evidence? it would be enough just those? i dont thin i can fin dother evidences..thank u all (sorry for my poor english)

[reach449 2]

Hello,

Is April 2006 the only time you guys have met? That is ok. You will need passport stamps, a copy of your visa, as many photos as you can find of you and him together, and anything else that might help. Such as airplane boarding passes, hotel receipts, anything that shows you were together when you visited. In my opinion the main things are the passport stamps and your visa and photos of you together. I hope I was some help.

reach449

[AUBGER 0]

Hi all..i have a question..is enough for evidence that we meet in last 2 years just copy after visa and pictures? i dont have other evidenes..can u give me a ideea what else can i give as evidence? it would be enough just those? i dont thin i can fin dother evidences..thank u all (sorry for my poor english)

I was thinking about the same thing when they ask for my RFE(if they will) U said u went on a J-1 visa...That's accompanied by the DS form...there is an american adress of where u lived and all. I dont know if you had paychecks or not but if you did the paycheck slips should be an evidence of the fact that u lived in the same city or whatever. But yeah...any stamps and pictures are very important. also flight itineraries and all that...Think of anything at all that is possible to send it ok?

[LookyWhatIFound 38]

Hi all..i have a question..is enough for evidence that we meet in last 2 years just copy after visa and pictures? i dont have other evidenes..can u give me a ideea what else can i give as evidence? it would be enough just those? i dont thin i can fin dother evidences..thank u all (sorry for my poor english)

You mentioned, in your signature, he has proposed to you 3 times! Did he write you a letter proposing, or maybe he should, and then you could respond to his proposal in a letter to him, through postal mail. Did he send you flowers, and do you have proof of this? If he gives you an engagement ring, the receipt would be very good evidence also. Email letters work also but regular mail seems like better evidence to me.

Do you ever talk on the phone? Phone records are good. For the pictures you have make sure most of these pictures have both of you in them together, dated ones are even better, but you can write the date on the back of them.

Edited March 18, 2007 by LookyWhatIFound

[dora_david 0]

he propsed me there in States..not since im here...we have evidence of keeping our relationship since i moved back but im kinda worried about the evidences that we had relationship..i have only my visa and pictures..that would be enough?

[dora_david 0]

Hello,

Is April 2006 the only time you guys have met? That is ok. You will need passport stamps, a copy of your visa, as many photos as you can find of you and him together, and anything else that might help. Such as airplane boarding passes, hotel receipts, anything that shows you were together when you visited. In my opinion the main things are the passport stamps and your visa and photos of you together. I hope I was some help.

reach449

No..we meet in april..that's when our relationship started..we actualy lived together but i dont know how to prove that cuz he dididnt had that adress on mail..he had a diferite one..im not sure how i can do that.,..to prove that we also lived together

[mybackpages 0]

he propsed me there in States..not since im here...we have evidence of keeping our relationship since i moved back but im kinda worried about the evidences that we had relationship..i have only my visa and pictures..that would be enough?

Since you were living in the US at the time of your meeting, what about afidavits from friends who knew the two of you together. The evidence you subit needs to compliment the explaination of how you met on question 18 as well as meet the burden of proof that you have met in person within the last 2 years.

All other evidence can be used to prove the validity of your relationship at the interview.

Good luck!

[LookyWhatIFound 38]

he propsed me there in States..not since im here...we have evidence of keeping our relationship since i moved back but im kinda worried about the evidences that we had relationship..i have only my visa and pictures..that would be enough?

Honestly I think you need to get him to come to Romania and make the relationship look legit without a doubt in USCISs mind. I think the USC needs to be the one in charge here. He needs to come over there and sweep you off your feet, and get all the evidence for the 129F work. Otherwise it may end up looking like just anothe girl wanting to get into the country.

Good Luck!

[dora_david 0]

he propsed me there in States..not since im here...we have evidence of keeping our relationship since i moved back but im kinda worried about the evidences that we had relationship..i have only my visa and pictures..that would be enough?

Honestly I think you need to get him to come to Romania and make the relationship look legit without a doubt in USCISs mind. I think the USC needs to be the one in charge here. He needs to come over there and sweep you off your feet, and get all the evidence for the 129F work. Otherwise it may end up looking like just anothe girl wanting to get into the country.

Good Luck!

We have like hundrets of pitures with us made in all year...and he paid for my books when i was in school..can i give that as evidence? i have the receipt from his credit card...will that be evidence?

[dora_david 0]

Hello,

Is April 2006 the only time you guys have met? That is ok. You will need passport stamps, a copy of your visa, as many photos as you can find of you and him together, and anything else that might help. Such as airplane boarding passes, hotel receipts, anything that shows you were together when you visited. In my opinion the main things are the passport stamps and your visa and photos of you together. I hope I was some help.

reach449

No..in april we started our relationship...airplane boarding passes, hotel receipts..we dont have...maby the visa and pics will be enough ..but im scared..maby is not enough for them

[GrenadianCrix 2]

My evidence is similar but in reverse. I am the USC, but live in his country. we do not have joint accounts in anything or receipts that say both our names. I sent in lot's of things that showed I was in his country, but not necessarily together. Rent receipts in my name, my work permit, my passport stamps, flight itinerary, boarding passes. I even have a letter from the organization I work for saying that I was in this country working during this time. We had 9 pictures of us from around his country showing us together in front of well known landmarks and together with other people. Since we didn't have a lot of records that showed us prucharsing things together we decided to write a more in depth explanaition of how we met. I typed it up and added it as an attachment to the I-129F. There are instructions on how to do that on this site.

I think your receipt for books is a good one. It shows a common interection. Anything that shows proof of you living in the states should be good, especially documentation of your visa, rent receipts, work pay stubs, that sort of thing. Sometimes proof isn't what we would traditionally expect. It just needs to show that you were in the same place at the same time and you considered it part of you courtship.

Good Luck

Sue

[LookyWhatIFound 38]

he propsed me there in States..not since im here...we have evidence of keeping our relationship since i moved back but im kinda worried about the evidences that we had relationship..i have only my visa and pictures..that would be enough?

Honestly I think you need to get him to come to Romania and make the relationship look legit without a doubt in USCISs mind. I think the USC needs to be the one in charge here. He needs to come over there and sweep you off your feet, and get all the evidence for the 129F work. Otherwise it may end up looking like just anothe girl wanting to get into the country.

Good Luck!

We have like hundrets of pitures with us made in all year...and he paid for my books when i was in school..can i give that as evidence? i have the receipt from his credit card...will that be evidence?

I don't know I guess it depends on how long you were together, in the U.S. I suppose there's a posssibility but remember this evidence has to be very convincing to the consulate, even if it somehow gets approved by USCIS, or you will have ended up getting yourselves some experience in pure frustration dealing with the Government.

[dora_david 0]

My evidence is similar but in reverse. I am the USC, but live in his country. we do not have joint accounts in anything or receipts that say both our names. I sent in lot's of things that showed I was in his country, but not necessarily together. Rent receipts in my name, my work permit, my passport stamps, flight itinerary, boarding passes. I even have a letter from the organization I work for saying that I was in this country working during this time. We had 9 pictures of us from around his country showing us together in front of well known landmarks and together with other people. Since we didn't have a lot of records that showed us prucharsing things together we decided to write a more in depth explanaition of how we met. I typed it up and added it as an attachment to the I-129F. There are instructions on how to do that on this site.

I think your receipt for books is a good one. It shows a common interection. Anything that shows proof of you living in the states should be good, especially documentation of your visa, rent receipts, work pay stubs, that sort of thing. Sometimes proof isn't what we would traditionally expect. It just needs to show that you were in the same place at the same time and you considered it part of you courtship.

Good Luck

Sue

Thank you for your mesaage..i have one more question..we also lived together but i dont know how to prove that...the rent was on my roomate's name,and he dididnt get any mail on the adress where we stayed..how can we prove that we also lived together? he received his mail in another place, but afeter i moved alone he stayed with me

[GrenadianCrix 2]

My evidence is similar but in reverse. I am the USC, but live in his country. we do not have joint accounts in anything or receipts that say both our names. I sent in lot's of things that showed I was in his country, but not necessarily together. Rent receipts in my name, my work permit, my passport stamps, flight itinerary, boarding passes. I even have a letter from the organization I work for saying that I was in this country working during this time. We had 9 pictures of us from around his country showing us together in front of well known landmarks and together with other people. Since we didn't have a lot of records that showed us prucharsing things together we decided to write a more in depth explanaition of how we met. I typed it up and added it as an attachment to the I-129F. There are instructions on how to do that on this site.

I think your receipt for books is a good one. It shows a common interection. Anything that shows proof of you living in the states should be good, especially documentation of your visa, rent receipts, work pay stubs, that sort of thing. Sometimes proof isn't what we would traditionally expect. It just needs to show that you were in the same place at the same time and you considered it part of you courtship.

Good Luck

Sue

Thank you for your mesaage..i have one more question..we also lived together but i dont know how to prove that...the rent was on my roomate's name,and he dididnt get any mail on the adress where we stayed..how can we prove that we also lived together? he received his mail in another place, but afeter i moved alone he stayed with me

I had a similar problem, I just said that we were together. I don't know how useful it would be to get a signed statement by the roommate saying your fiance was there as well? I've heard people talk about these kind of statements from thrid parties, but I don't know if they are needed. But it could be worth a try. Your room mate would have to write up a statement, take it to a bank or to a place where there is a notary public and sign it in front of them. This just certifies that the statement is indeed made by the person signing it. Do you have any pictures in the apartment? or standing in front of it? the pics could really tell a big part of the story too.

However, that being said, The USCIS doesn't really care if you lived together or not. Lot's of people don't live together before they marry, they just want to see that you are in a valid relationship. So focus on things that show that and you'll be fine. Worse comes to worse, you get an RFE. That is not a refusal, just a request for more information. It will delay things, but not stop them entirely. Do as much as you can now and look at your packet as if you were looking at the information as a stranger, would it show something that looks like a relationship?

One more thought, if you are concerned about the same place same time thing...does your finace have any of these same things (receipts, bills, etc) from the same time? even if they only have his name. Even cancelled checks, credit card receipts from an engagement dinner, etc.

I'm sure you will get everything you will need.

Sue

[dora_david 0]

My evidence is similar but in reverse. I am the USC, but live in his country. we do not have joint accounts in anything or receipts that say both our names. I sent in lot's of things that showed I was in his country, but not necessarily together. Rent receipts in my name, my work permit, my passport stamps, flight itinerary, boarding passes. I even have a letter from the organization I work for saying that I was in this country working during this time. We had 9 pictures of us from around his country showing us together in front of well known landmarks and together with other people. Since we didn't have a lot of records that showed us prucharsing things together we decided to write a more in depth explanaition of how we met. I typed it up and added it as an attachment to the I-129F. There are instructions on how to do that on this site.

I think your receipt for books is a good one. It shows a common interection. Anything that shows proof of you living in the states should be good, especially documentation of your visa, rent receipts, work pay stubs, that sort of thing. Sometimes proof isn't what we would traditionally expect. It just needs to show that you were in the same place at the same time and you considered it part of you courtship.

Good Luck

Sue

Thank you for your mesaage..i have one more question..we also lived together but i dont know how to prove that...the rent was on my roomate's name,and he dididnt get any mail on the adress where we stayed..how can we prove that we also lived together? he received his mail in another place, but afeter i moved alone he stayed with me

I had a similar problem, I just said that we were together. I don't know how useful it would be to get a signed statement by the roommate saying your fiance was there as well? I've heard people talk about these kind of statements from thrid parties, but I don't know if they are needed. But it could be worth a try. Your room mate would have to write up a statement, take it to a bank or to a place where there is a notary public and sign it in front of them. This just certifies that the statement is indeed made by the person signing it. Do you have any pictures in the apartment? or standing in front of it? the pics could really tell a big part of the story too.

However, that being said, The USCIS doesn't really care if you lived together or not. Lot's of people don't live together before they marry, they just want to see that you are in a valid relationship. So focus on things that show that and you'll be fine. Worse comes to worse, you get an RFE. That is not a refusal, just a request for more information. It will delay things, but not stop them entirely. Do as much as you can now and look at your packet as if you were looking at the information as a stranger, would it show something that looks like a relationship?

One more thought, if you are concerned about the same place same time thing...does your finace have any of these same things (receipts, bills, etc) from the same time? even if they only have his name. Even cancelled checks, credit card receipts from an engagement dinner, etc.

I'm sure you will get everything you will need.

Sue

Thank you foryour help.. we do have pictures from apartament where we lived but i dont think that can prove anything..they could be from anywhere..and my roomate left the country also so i cant get the letter from her..i guess i will try just with what i have..he paied for me some books when i was in school..we will use that too..cuz he paied from his credit card for me..i hope that would help..and i dont know what else to search, we dididnt had receipts from engagement dinner or something like that..our lawyer dididnt told us nothing good..he said is enough the visa and pictures but everybody else told us is not enough..i dont know what to think now...thanks for your advices..good luck to your visa. God bless!!