Red flag???

[Dave & Mong 29]

I was just wondering after reading a few threads if my situation will draw attention during her interview. I was introduced to Mong by my neighbor, her cousin. We sent letters, pictures and chatted on the phone for about 5 months before I went to Vietnam, with her cousin, to see her. We got engaged several months later and I call her twice a day since then. Will Mong being my neighbors cousin be a red flag to the consular? After all, I asked him, he did mot say hey, how about my cousin? People meet here by those means alot anyway.

[Harpa Timsah 13,258]

Yes.

Many cases that have red flags are approved, though.

[rhein 451]

I was just wondering after reading a few threads if my situation will draw attention during her interview. I was introduced to Mong by my neighbor, her cousin. We sent letters, pictures and chatted on the phone for about 5 months before I went to Vietnam, with her cousin, to see her. We got engaged several months later and I call her twice a day since then. Will Mong being my neighbors cousin be a red flag to the consular? After all, I asked him, he did mot say hey, how about my cousin? People meet here by those means alot anyway.

Personally, I think this would work in your favor, not against. It is a personal introduction, rather than online.

[Extreme happiness 9]

i don't see why it should be a problem....many people find their love ones by means of friends or families....all you need to know is that you have the proof of your not only meeting her but of your ongoing relationship...

good luck

[Dave & Mong 29]

Plenty of proof. I sent her copies of our chats and phone logs, since I mainly call her, they do not have the discount plan to do so that I have. Photos, letters, etc... I even sent her signed photos of hockey players that they signed to her.

[ConGau1981 56]

I doubt it...it sounds like you have plenty of proof of a bona fide relationship.

[xgrnberet1 19]

Language barrier could be a road block, if you two unable to communicate in one common language.

[Dave & Mong 29]

She has been talking English classes for about 10 months now, though she can read and write in english very well. Probably spells better than me! LOL

[T&T&T 31]

Sounds like a go to me.... red flags can be overcome by proof from the relationship.. good luck