Just want NORMAL! SO sick of immigration and drama.

[Nina and Erwin 16]

So here I am again! I always seem to stir things up here...

So I finally have an interview date.. yah!.. Right? haha. Well it's funny cause I am finding myself getting mad at the Whole situation. I am not sure why that is? Other then the idea that my government is making me go and spill my life to them to just have a chance at a NORMAL family, husband, children, career...etc.. just pees my off. Had a dream the other night... that I went in and just said to them.. approve.. don't approve... it is what it is!

I know that I / we my husband and I created a lot of the issues ourselves, with all the things that we have been through, and all the things that were said and done. We made many mistakes... along the way with this immigration process. So I am not blaming them for the mistakes.. I am blaming the process, the red tape, the MONEY, the TIME WASTED,.... OMG!.

I am getting so impatient with this ####### these days.. and I know for sure that's why I threw my hands up last time. But there has got to be a way for all of us to tell our government to end this ... deep seeded, pain in the stomach, sleepless nights,.. suffering that WE ALL HERE FEEL! I just want to swear...lol.

I am up early this morning .. worried.. only because I have decided to go to my husbands country.. and I am fine with that.. BUT I am so scared that ONCE again.. that somewhere along the way.. that this decision to just have a chance at NORMAL will bite me in the hinny.

Because now I am worried about the fact that I don't work here in this country, I have a sponsor for us.. but there has been so many things that have gone wrong. I have applied and been approved for a long term visa for his country and I have tried to prepare my sponsor for what it will entail for her to help us. But I am so worried... she has been a life long friend and she works where I worked.. and she seems so willing to help. So knows us.. and our situation.. and been with us every step of the way.. good BAD AND UGLY.

I just hope this doesn't create another mistake.. and more time, and more hoops. I love my husband, and he has done everything he can to show me that I can count on him, and that he has my back. (which is hard to find in a lifetime) he has done everything to show me that his past mistakes are long gone and in the past. But I just want all of this over and a normal life. NO MORE IMMIGRATION conversations.. with family friends co workers.. just talk about .. normal things.. like what are you doing this weekend? What did you do this weekend? How are the kids? How is work?...blah blah blah.. Peace is NOT BOREDOM.. Peace is peace.

My husband could care less where we live.. there.. here.. I on the over hand have everything here! I want to come home with my husband. I love his country.. I do.. and maybe one day we can retire there.. in 30 plus years. But in the mean time... I love my kids.. my family.. my career.. he can work anywhere.. I on the other hand can not.

Bottom line.. if I go there.. for a while to end this distance.. what issues can anyone here see that I will run into? .. sorry for the rant.. but I leave soon.. and I would like to crub anything that might come up if I can before I go!

[Penguin_ie 5,987]

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[andy ngeci 18]

I feel your pain. Im in k1 process and I feel horrible of waiting!!! I cant find an appointment with my embassy after waiting 7 good months to get to this point one week one the system says no available appointment and when I call the embassy they tee me I keep trying. I have been on computer since 8am today and still no luck.

[Nina and Erwin 16]

*** Moving from CR-1 Process to Progress Reports ****

Thanks for moving my thread... got one response.. awesome.

[NikLR 13,220]

Thanks for moving my thread... got one response.. awesome.

You are not asking questions about the process but are making comments on it instead. Those threads go into progress reports, I'm sorry you disagree with it, but any moderator or organizer would have moved your thread to this forum.

As to your question, going to Belgium will not effect your petition. It's hard to change your address to a foreign address, just FYI, but you can try. You will have to prove domicile at the NVC stage. Also make sure you look up any visas etc you will need to be living or visiting Belgium, last thing you want is to be there illegally I'm sure.