I-751 divorce

[Sonly19 0]

Hello Everyone,

After an interview with my ex wife at the immigration office, I received my green a year and half ago. Everything went fine. My ex left me in the beginning of April 2012 and the divorce was finalized at the end of November 2012. There is nothing I could've of done to stop her for leaving me. I tried. She left with another boy. We were student and we were building our lives together. That was the plan. We lived in the nice place with my landlord (my joint-sponsor). I still live in the same place, we sub-rented the place.

However, I followed the advices of some lawyers I gathered whatever I could. This situation it's a straight nightmare since my ex left. Since my marriage lasted less than 2 years, we didn't create any health assurance, car assurance ect... I am tired of it.

Here is what I have for i-751 waiver:

- Letter of my friends, parents, landlord

- My statement of what happened.

- Divorce decree.

- Joint-Bank Account.

- Joint-Tax 2011.

- my 24 sport club membership (of my ex and me)

- Pictures of us (random pictures of us, and our traveling)

- Proof a website we built together (IP expiration date and creation date), and in her biography she talks about me in a good way.

- And some pick-up shot of Facebook, comments, pictures, location geography. (Archive)

I am quiet tired of this situation, and I came to love my friends, my work, and my study. And to be honest, I am afraid and I feel lost. Please if anyone can help me, I would appreciate it.

[NigeriaorBust 4,087]

When filing using a divorce waiver you should file as soon as the divorce is final. You need to prove that you came and married in good faith. It sounds like you have the basis of that proof.

[Sonly19 0]

Thank you. Is there anything else I should be worried about?

I have heard the inspectors are very suspicious people. I am not sure what would show them that I loved my ex.

[Govisajourney 1]

don't worry and don't be afraid, you have some good documentation so you should definitely send those, you can also go through following post if you have not done so and see if you have anything else you can submit to them, the main thing is just submit all the docs you can and if the marriage was real then no need to worry about it.

http://www.visajourney.com/forums/topic/220440-i-751-evidence/

[Sonly19 0]

Thank you very much for your words. I went to the given link. Thanks again.

[John and Camie 39]

Govisajourney, you're a sweetheart. I love how gentle you're being with this poor guy, and Sonly19, my heart goes out to you. I'll keep you in my thoughts, and I'm sure others will chime in with good advice and words of comfort. Don't give up on your ROC—you can do it! Just provide enough proof that the marriage was genuine for the time that it lasted.

And you'll find a better love someday, I promise. I was with someone for 15 years until he left me for another woman, and then I met my husband, who put my heart back together again.

[Sonly19 0]

I am, sincerely, happy you've found someone who saved you. Thanks a million for your thoughts and advices. It touches me.

I won't give up my ROC.

How did you move forward when your ex left your after 15 years?

My ex left me in the beginning of April for someone else, she left everything behind. I just found a Teddy Bear that I offered her with a Postal Card.

[Gummibear 5]

I am also a Divorce waiver and my attorney will send my package this week. I sent several pages of our texts messages about how me and my ex-husband met, what happened that led to the divorce. You can send any other joint documents you have (lease, insurance), hotel, flights taken together.

[sunnyboy 3]

I was a divorce waiver too n i got approved with no RFE and no interview...ya'll dont worry you will get approved even though it might take long but still ull get approved. Hang in there, don't worry about nothing move on with your life

[Gummibear 5]

Sunnyboy,

Thank you. Can I ask which center you sent your package to? I'm gonna send to VSC, I heard it takes longer.

[sunnyboy 3]

I sent mine to CSC

[cestlaviecheri 4]

Hello Everyone,

After an interview with my ex wife at the immigration office, I received my green a year and half ago. Everything went fine. My ex left me in the beginning of April 2012 and the divorce was finalized at the end of November 2012. There is nothing I could've of done to stop her for leaving me. I tried. She left with another boy. We were student and we were building our lives together. That was the plan. We lived in the nice place with my landlord (my joint-sponsor). I still live in the same place, we sub-rented the place.

However, I followed the advices of some lawyers I gathered whatever I could. This situation it's a straight nightmare since my ex left. Since my marriage lasted less than 2 years, we didn't create any health assurance, car assurance ect... I am tired of it.

Here is what I have for i-751 waiver:

- Letter of my friends, parents, landlord

- My statement of what happened.

- Divorce decree.

- Joint-Bank Account.

- Joint-Tax 2011.

- my 24 sport club membership (of my ex and me)

- Pictures of us (random pictures of us, and our traveling)

- Proof a website we built together (IP expiration date and creation date), and in her biography she talks about me in a good way.

- And some pick-up shot of Facebook, comments, pictures, location geography. (Archive)

I am quiet tired of this situation, and I came to love my friends, my work, and my study. And to be honest, I am afraid and I feel lost. Please if anyone can help me, I would appreciate it.

I am sorry to hear about your situation. Things happen for a reason and surely, you'll stumble upon someone who is perfect for you. Would you be able to get your ex-wife to write a letter stating that you and her got married on good faith, tried to make it work but couldn't? I read a few posts here on VJ of some people sending in affidavits from their ex-wives/husbands as part of evidence. It maybe worth a shot.

[Sonly19 0]

Hello,

I tried to talk to her, but she does not return my calls, and every time when I try to talk to her, she laughs, hung up on me, she does not treat me right. She has changed. She does not care about me anymore. About a year ago, she wrote me a letter where she said why she left me. She said that she thought she loved me, but she realized that I would never change, that at the age of 26 I am too old to change, and her love started to fade away. She didn't sign and she didn't put her address neither.

To be honest with you, I do not want to see her. She is happy with her man.

She built a website from one of my software iWeb, when she wrote about me in a good way, I called my hosting company, and in her website, there is the purchase date and the expiration date. The purchase date was in 2011. In 2011, we were living together. I could use that.

When she left me, she forgot her journal, I've could of use that but I gave her back a year ago.

My ex scares me.