Please i need your advice.....

[maya2014 0]

I was introduce to a man who is propose love to me, promise me a good life and family and brought me here on a k1 visa. i received my 2years card in june. since i received my green card he has change. he doesnt want me to be responsible for me but made me totally dependant on him. i cannt go anywhere without him taking me. we live alone and my life is from working for him to home most of the time. the worse part is he has a child from anyother relationship so now for 6month refuse to have anything to do to me so i dont have a child. He lied to me and my family to make me marry him. i do my part in to make the marriage work but he is just ignoring me and doing things to make me leave. i entered the marriage in good faith sacrificing my work and education just to love, be love and have a family. i have to remove my condition in 2014. the only thing we have together is the same address, a joint account which he doesnt run again and him as my employer.

There is more time for change but i have spoken to him about how i feel and my parent have even spoken to us but still the same. Please what can i do.i am prepared to stay with him praying he will change but what happens if he doesnt because from what am going through my doctor have put me on medication for high blood pressure. i feel so depress and cry all the time. i appear happy to my customers but God knows how am hurting inside.

Also can he decided not to help me remove my 2 years condition even if we are married.

thanks for your response.

[Penguin_ie 5,994]

What do you want to do? If you want to go back to your home country, you can do that anytime.

If you ant to stay, you need to be either divorced when you Remove Conditions, or he needs help you file.

[del-2-5-2014 1,339]

I was introduce to a man who is propose love to me, promise me a good life and family and brought me here on a k1 visa. i received my 2years card in june. since i received my green card he has change. he doesnt want me to be responsible for me but made me totally dependant on him. i cannt go anywhere without him taking me. we live alone and my life is from working for him to home most of the time. the worse part is he has a child from anyother relationship so now for 6month refuse to have anything to do to me so i dont have a child. He lied to me and my family to make me marry him. i do my part in to make the marriage work but he is just ignoring me and doing things to make me leave. i entered the marriage in good faith sacrificing my work and education just to love, be love and have a family. i have to remove my condition in 2014. the only thing we have together is the same address, a joint account which he doesnt run again and him as my employer.

There is more time for change but i have spoken to him about how i feel and my parent have even spoken to us but still the same. Please what can i do.i am prepared to stay with him praying he will change but what happens if he doesnt because from what am going through my doctor have put me on medication for high blood pressure. i feel so depress and cry all the time. i appear happy to my customers but God knows how am hurting inside.

Also can he decided not to help me remove my 2 years condition even if we are married.

thanks for your response.

What do you want to do? You not him?

[maya2014 0]

I would like to stay but i don,t know how to go about it without his help. When the time come, can i do it on my own and with the few document i have?

thanks for your response.

[Sandra G. 5,051]

you don't have to wait "when the time comes", make your own time, divorced him now if you want,get a job, file I-751 waiver and move on, you don't need him to sign the form with you, once you prove you had a bonafide marriage you will be ok. Did you file joint tax with him?you need to start gathering some documents showing you had a bonafide marriage such as joint bank account, joint tax return,lease agreement in name of both, utilities bills etc..

[thinkerlove0212 158]

I was introduce to a man who is propose love to me, promise me a good life and family and brought me here on a k1 visa. i received my 2years card in june. since i received my green card he has change. he doesnt want me to be responsible for me but made me totally dependant on him. i cannt go anywhere without him taking me. we live alone and my life is from working for him to home most of the time. the worse part is he has a child from anyother relationship so now for 6month refuse to have anything to do to me so i dont have a child. He lied to me and my family to make me marry him. i do my part in to make the marriage work but he is just ignoring me and doing things to make me leave. i entered the marriage in good faith sacrificing my work and education just to love, be love and have a family. i have to remove my condition in 2014. the only thing we have together is the same address, a joint account which he doesnt run again and him as my employer.

There is more time for change but i have spoken to him about how i feel and my parent have even spoken to us but still the same. Please what can i do.i am prepared to stay with him praying he will change but what happens if he doesnt because from what am going through my doctor have put me on medication for high blood pressure. i feel so depress and cry all the time. i appear happy to my customers but God knows how am hurting inside.

Also can he decided not to help me remove my 2 years condition even if we are married.

thanks for your response.

Why people start to have a problem after they got the GC?

[Shiobhan 235]

Some ppl can be very manipulative & try to micro-manage others ( they think they did something great for)

Some just get what they want & begin to destest those who have help because it was not true in the 1st place.

People worldwide can be so cruel & petty to each other, so its not alone when GC is involved true colors begin

to show....such a pity, anyways talk to him about counselling, but it seem your mind is made up to leave, or follow the

immigrations instruction U got here.... There's 3 sides to every story Good Luck

[maya2014 0]

Thank you all for your response. I have involve both families to help make it work, talk to both of us but he doesn,t seem to care to at least try. The only thing we have together is a joint bank account i am the only one putting money in. He own his house and all the bills are in his name. he refuse to let me be on it to help him with the bills( he has a good job). am yet to fill tax and i wonder if he would let us fill it together. he doesnt want to even let anyone knows we are married. He got his citizenship through marriage so he knows what he is doing to me will affect me when the time come to remove the conditions.

[del-2-5-2014 1,339]

Thank you all for your response. I have involve both families to help make it work, talk to both of us but he doesn,t seem to care to at least try. The only thing we have together is a joint bank account i am the only one putting money in. He own his house and all the bills are in his name. he refuse to let me be on it to help him with the bills( he has a good job). am yet to fill tax and i wonder if he would let us fill it together. he doesnt want to even let anyone knows we are married. He got his citizenship through marriage so he knows what he is doing to me will affect me when the time come to remove the conditions.

Perhaps he is suspicious of your intention. As it is if you never contributed to the house then you have no claim on it in a shotgun divorce, mostly. But the moment you can prove that you contributed to the bills for the house then it's open season. I admire your Husband, he's a smart fellow.

I still don't see anything that he is "doing" to you. You are free to divorce him at anytime. People have already explained the process to ROC without being still married to you.

Stop coming of as a victim, you're not (from my armchair here at the foothills of God own Couty) . People get divorced all the time. You have a job, a car, etc