my Izabela will be here friday evening !!

[Bad_Daddy 2,209]

today i got some e mails from her. she actually said "it just didnt work out' I WAS LIKE LMAO 3 of our 5 days i worked.

so yeah it wont work when you dont even try.

oh well i am as over it as i can be for now. the things she says are just incredible.

move 7 thousand miles and ###### most of the 5 days and then say "it just didnt work out"

and thank you cathy

i actually feel better now than i ever thought i would. i did everything in good faith and gave a real effort. i had a long successful marriage before-- i know how i am.

she has never had any long term anything with anyone. i did not quit a marriage over a fight. and i did not hit anyone ever. i am alone because of another's actions and inablility

or unwillingness to try.

now to get my divorce filed and get back to my classes and live my life as i want it to be.

Sorry to hear what happened. After reading this thread she sounds like a real peace of work. They say time help heals all ...or at least most of it. Best advice I can give you is if and when your ready to jump back in the saddle again then make sure you try out Ukraine first. I don't think you will be disappointed.

[Penny Lane 8,159]

Sorry to hear what happened. After reading this thread she sounds like a real peace of work. They say time help heals all ...or at least most of it. Best advice I can give you is if and when your ready to jump back in the saddle again then make sure you try out Ukraine first. I don't think you will be disappointed.

Try out? People aren't shopping for clothes or buying something from a catalog.

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Try out? People aren't shopping for clothes or buying something from a catalog.

Everything can be commoditized.

[Bad_Daddy 2,209]

Try out? People aren't shopping for clothes or buying something from a catalog.

Excuse me for trying to give the OP some support after what must be a traumatic event in his life.

http://www.google.com/#hl=en&output=search&sclient=psy-ab&q=foreign+brides&oq=foreign+brides&gs_l=hp.3..0l10.2620.3010.1.3653.2.2.0.0.0.0.719.719.6-1.1.0...0.0...1c.fwqsVPx4lbs&bav=on.2,or.r_gc.r_pw.r_qf.,cf.osb&fp=3d04e930a01db91d&biw=1440&bih=775 <------ How many online catalogs do you see there?

Chances are that eventually the OP is going to think about giving marriage another go. With that said; Russia, Ukraine, and Belarus have literally millions of single, young, vibrant, beautiful, sexy, well educated and articulate women that are looking for a mate to spend the rest of their life with. I see no reason why the OP should short himself in the wife department with all the available options open to him.

[Penny Lane 8,159]

Excuse me for trying to give the OP some support after what must be a traumatic event in his life.

http://www.google.com/#hl=en&output=search&sclient=psy-ab&q=foreign+brides&oq=foreign+brides&gs_l=hp.3..0l10.2620.3010.1.3653.2.2.0.0.0.0.719.719.6-1.1.0...0.0...1c.fwqsVPx4lbs&bav=on.2,or.r_gc.r_pw.r_qf.,cf.osb&fp=3d04e930a01db91d&biw=1440&bih=775 <------ How many online catalogs do you see there?

Chances are that eventually the OP is going to think about giving marriage another go. With that said; Russia, Ukraine, and Belarus have literally millions of single, young, vibrant, beautiful, sexy, well educated and articulate women that are looking for a mate to spend the rest of their life with. I see no reason why the OP should short himself in the wife department with all the available options open to him.

"The options" ... They're people. Not cars or puppies.

[Bad_Daddy 2,209]

"The options" ... They're people. Not cars or puppies.

That's a matter of semantics. Wife shopping can be serious business...same with women shopping for husbands but all in all it's just the law of nature. As long as the OP knows that with a single flight and a few internet chats he can have a hot little sexy scantily clad Eastern European number half his age hanging on his arm. One that cooks, cleans, and doesn't have feminist issues seeing how feminism hasn't really caught on in that part of the world.

[I AM NOT THAT GUY 5,715]

[elmcitymaven 9,711]

Scott is doing the right thing by taking time to heal from this tragedy. Getting into another relationship quickly after a marital breakdown is not a good idea for either party involved.

Best wishes to the OP in mending his heart.

[Bad_Daddy 2,209]

Scott is doing the right thing by taking time to heal from this tragedy. Getting into another relationship quickly after a marital breakdown is not a good idea for either party involved.

Best wishes to the OP in mending his heart.

There's an old adage that goes something like...; "The quickest way to get over a woman is to get on top of one."

[ScottnIzabela 25]

so...erm....

my first wife died from medical malpractice in 2001. this is especially bitter but from my prior experiences.... i am doing good most days. really disappointed in her quitting tho.

it seems to have phases.....be alone after.....then some one to "wet the whistle " LOl and then on to better things. i have my classes to get back to. and the plans i made for me

to share with her...well i keep going if she doesnt want to i wont give her a second thought.

if one risks nothing then you deserve the nothing you get. .

i appreciate everyones thoughts and posts.

thanks

[kittylondon 47]

There's an old adage that goes something like...; "The quickest way to get over a woman is to get on top of one."

real classy in a thread by a poster who lost his first wife at a heartbreakingly young age.

all the best scott.

Edited July 27, 2012 by kittylondon

[Bad_Daddy 2,209]

real classy in a thread by a poster who lost his first wife at a heartbreakingly young age.

all the best scott.

It doesn't take a rocket scientist to realize that post had nothing to do with his first wife, as this thread isn't about his first wife so try having a little smarts next time before you make a reply like that.

[Trompe le Monde 1,107]

It also doesn't take a rocket scientist to figure out that maybe this isn't the thread to wax on about the virtues of RUB women.

We get it, you can go there and marry a woman much hotter than you would if you looked locally. Believe it or not, it's really not that interesting.

[Bad_Daddy 2,209]

It also doesn't take a rocket scientist to figure out that maybe this isn't the thread to wax on about the virtues of RUB women.

We get it, you can go there and marry a woman much hotter than you would if you looked locally. Believe it or not, it's really not that interesting.

Apparently you found it interesting enough to take the time to reply about it although you missed the point of my post as did that previous poster. I was trying to give some support to the OP and low and behold I'm flamed for it. I find these past few post entirely rude and uncalled for.

[elmcitymaven 9,711]

Apparently you found it interesting enough to take the time to reply about it although you missed the point of my post as did that previous poster. I was trying to give some support to the OP and low and behold I'm flamed for it. I find these past few post entirely rude and uncalled for.

What is entirely rude and uncalled for is walking into the thread of someone who is clearly in pain and essentially taking a steaming dump in the middle of it, pointing to it and looking proud. The pointing to it again and again.

Let's get this back on track. Scott -- sorry for the derailment. And I think your attitude towards all of this is commendable in the midst of something so terribly painful and confusing. I bet in time (and probably sooner than you think!) life will bring you love from a woman who deserves you. She may be near or far, known to you now or not, but good guys like you don't stay on the shelf too long. Again, all the best.