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gretchen_darren   67

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Sorry I come and go right now. But i am dealing with a major problem in the village form a bad American.

the first time they met, he would not let her look at his passport, nor see his airline tickets or anything. She was not allowed to touch ANY of his belongings. (no engagement party) He spent the whole time basically drunk. He also invited people to drink with him but only bought them one bottle to share. He also told the girl he is engaged to, he will not bring her to the USA but leave her there in the village and help out. This guy also spent 3 days in the village nipa hut without a shower or shave and couldn't walk a straight line if he tried. He also did not eat any of the native food as well. (I don't like tamban or the "duck eggs", but I will try just about anything you put in front of me.)

He bought a boat for the family, with no engine. said they could paddle. Then bought them an engine. then nets. Just a little at a time, like watching what I did then copying what I did.

According to information from a very, very, very reliable friend of his, this guy has another girl who he fathered a daughter with in another part of the same island.

the next visit This guy fly's her from the village on a one way ticket. (He claims to be engaged to her, but said the only way to see him is her come to him in that part of the Philippines.) (again she is not allowed to touch his things)

They got in an argument about her family spending money on a gas stove and other things for the family. (now mind you, this guy sent money for a boat with no engine, told them they could paddle, then sent money for an engine, then nets, and some money for hte boat and home improvements.) He has been auditing every single penny sent to the her.

She walked away from him. Went to a cousin's house. and called her parents. Her mom took a ferry and went and got her. Her parents then brought her back to the village at their cost via the ferry.

the guy merely called to check to see if she was back in the village.

He is now in another city on the same island. According to information he is planning on taking the PNP to the village with him. Maybe he is afraid of her father. I do not know.

this guy has made it extremely clear to the village him and I do not get along.

i have ben trying to stay out of this situation, but I am getting dragged in. To me, this guy seems to be using the village naivete against them, plus since it is a remote village able to string them along as well for however long.

K-1 Visa Timeline:

02/11/2011 - Engaged at her house by her Godmother.

02/18/2011 - Engagement party with relatives - propose in Visayan.

02/24/2011 - K-1 packet sent.

09/18/2011 - POE, Viva Las Vegas, Baby !!!!! Home to Phoenix.

12/10/2011 - Official Wedding

07/05/2012 - Princess Rose born.

07/07/2012 - AP/EAD received.

07/17/2012 - AOS passed. (Birthday for Mama Rayos)

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I see no choice but to involve yourself, and in a big way. Fly there immediately. You're going to want to involve both the Philippine National Army and the MILF on this one. The U.S. has some ships

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If you want to truly help, then keep your nose out of it. If this girl's father cannot convince her to forget about the guy, who do you think you are to change her mind? Putting your nose in another p

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sunandmoon   450

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sounds like she dumped him. your getting dragged in how?

US Embassy Manila website. bringing your spouse/fiancee to USA

http://manila.usembassy.gov/wwwh3204.html

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gretchen_darren   67

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this girl was asawa ko and my escort during my first visit there and is related to the family.

K-1 Visa Timeline:

02/11/2011 - Engaged at her house by her Godmother.

02/18/2011 - Engagement party with relatives - propose in Visayan.

02/24/2011 - K-1 packet sent.

09/18/2011 - POE, Viva Las Vegas, Baby !!!!! Home to Phoenix.

12/10/2011 - Official Wedding

07/05/2012 - Princess Rose born.

07/07/2012 - AP/EAD received.

07/17/2012 - AOS passed. (Birthday for Mama Rayos)

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Another reason why giving all those gifts is not always a good idea, The guys think it makes them the mayor or something, and the families start expecting gifts always, maybe she should return all the gifts to him and be done with him...

K1 Visa Timeline

10/11/2010 - I-129F sent via USPS

10/19/2010 - NOA1 hard copy received, dated 10/15/2010

04/08/2011- received NOA2 hard copy, dated 04/05/2011

04/12/2011- NVC received petition

04/18/2011- received letter from NVC

04/18/2011- Manila embassy received petition

04/27/2011- medical exam passed

05/04/2011- appointment letter received dated 06/01/2011

06/01/2011- appointment date, put on administrative review

06/24/2011- visa granted

06/29/2011- received visa

07/18/2011- cfo class

07/21/2011- arrived in America

09/02/2011- happily married!

AOS Timeline

12/01/2011- AOS packet sent

12/06/2011- received email and text from USCIS with MSC number

12/07/2011- check was cashed

12/10/2011- received NOA hard copy dated 12/05/2011

12/12/2011- received NOA hard copy for biometrics appointment for 12/28/2011

12/24/2011- received NOA hard copy stating that our case was transfered to CSC on 12/20/2011

12/28/2011- biometrics appointment completed

06/25/2012- put in service request

09/12/2012- AOS approved

09/17/2012- card production

09/21/2012- greencard in hand

ROC Timeline

08/04/2014 - sent ROC packet

08/13/2014 - received I-797, NOA, dated 08/08/2014

08/28/2014 - received biometric appt. letter for 09/11/2014

02/25/2015- ROC approved

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Sounds all good to me. She got to see what a loser this guy really is. She aquired a few things for putting up with his sorry ####. Why would this jerk even try to go back into her families area after leaving his girl. I doubt the PNP will help this guy. They know a stupid foreigner when they see one.

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this girl was asawa ko and my escort during my first visit there and is related to the family.

OK, so how do you plan on getting involved?

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I see no choice but to involve yourself, and in a big way. Fly there immediately. You're going to want to involve both the Philippine National Army and the MILF on this one. The U.S. has some ships being sent to menace the Chinese in the Spratleys but those can be diverted. Start with heavy artillery off those ships to clear the beach for an amphibious landing while the MILF operatives are taking out power lines and bridges. Then bring the Philippine Army in with a massive infantry assault, real WWI human wave blood and guts drama on this one.

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So, whats your point other than obviously stating that you are far better than him because you treat your girl better?

Lifting Condition (I-751)

09/09/2011 - Sent the package to CSC

09/13/2011 - CSC received the package

09/15/2011 - CSC cashed check and NOA1 Received

09/26/2011 - Biometrics Appointment Notice Date (Sent)

10/13/2011 - Early Biometrics

10/19/2011 - Biometrics Appointment

10/26/2011 - GC expiration

11/25/2011 - Received RFE

11/28/2011 - Sent response to RFE

01/13/2012 - Ordered card production (Approved)

01/19/2012 - 10 yrs GC received

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and the drama series continues...he jumps online then jumps off

I see no choice but to involve yourself, and in a big way. Fly there immediately. You're going to want to involve both the Philippine National Army and the MILF on this one. The U.S. has some ships being sent to menace the Chinese in the Spratleys but those can be diverted. Start with heavy artillery off those ships to clear the beach for an amphibious landing while the MILF operatives are taking out power lines and bridges. Then bring the Philippine Army in with a massive infantry assault, real WWI human wave blood and guts drama on this one.

that's what I figured. maybe he logged off so he could book his flight to the Philippines and go to the "village" whoop some a$$.

US Embassy Manila website. bringing your spouse/fiancee to USA

http://manila.usembassy.gov/wwwh3204.html

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I see no choice but to involve yourself, and in a big way. Fly there immediately. You're going to want to involve both the Philippine National Army and the MILF on this one. The U.S. has some ships being sent to menace the Chinese in the Spratleys but those can be diverted. Start with heavy artillery off those ships to clear the beach for an amphibious landing while the MILF operatives are taking out power lines and bridges. Then bring the Philippine Army in with a massive infantry assault, real WWI human wave blood and guts drama on this one.

excellent one! I am thinking of something that would get me TOS. Goes along the line of "I have a friend.....I know a guy..."

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