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So..... wanna feel very sorry for someone? Then just read this.

Just found out that my 21-year old fiance and former lover, up and married a 63 year old man back in Oct. 2011, all the while I'm her bf since late 2009 & WE planned on marrying & I actually submitted the K1 on end of Dec 2011. She even PROMISED me still on 11/15/11 that I'm really her husband and never acted any different/became quiet after she got married in Oct, and all the while gave me ABSOLUTELY NO CLUE that she did such a thing & KEPT MAKING ME THINK that we're still good, basically leading me on for absolutely nothing. As I was missing her passport photo, I told her that and she STILL sent me her passport photo all the while she's married already. She even KNEW that I'm coming back in Jan. 2012 this year *just for her* but still did all this #### to me!! So I ended up going there for 2 months for absolutely nothing. Now her running away form me multiple times & complete change of personality makes perfect sense. And you know what else? Our last day together she wrote on 3 pics that I'd be more than happy to show you that she'll MISS me & cant wait to see me again, that she'll CHANGE for us, and that she really LOVES me. Hmm, sorta hard to have a FUTURE with someone who's already illegally MARRIED though, dont you think?!

Reason why it's an ILLEGAL marriage is because the owner of the school she works (and now sleeps) has ~4 kids and a wife in the U.S. according to what she told me (im sure he's married regardless), the REAL wife is still living. My fiance said that she just went to the barangay city hall in Quezon City for the marriage with NO WITNESSES of the marriage... none of her family witnessed it and only her mom knows that she decided to do this bec she wanted to hide it from everyone due to the 3x age gap. Yes it's extremely messed up I know after me spending thousands of $$'s JUST FOR HER, but I need to know how to get that guy in MASSIVE TROUBLE as Philippines doesn't allow polygami!! I know I can pay $25 and request for a CENOMAR to make sure that it wasn't an OFFICIAL marriage as I have all HER necessary info, but aside from doing this, need to know exactly what to do to mess HIM up for engaging in an illegal marriage! I know his first and last name, address of the sch. he owns, cell #/contact #'s of the school but that's about it... saw him only once.a

Also, since he was indeed still married at that time, why did the city hall even ALLOW the marriage to take place and not first search if he's first married?!?!??!?!? Maybe they just got married thru the court but it for sure isn't REAL or what???

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Our K-1 VISA Process & NCLEX-RN Exam Status

  • 04/24/2013 - I-129F Sent
  • 04/29/2013 - NOA1 Touched
  • 05/02/2013 - Left to visit my baby for the 3rd time!
  • 05/03/2013 - NOA1 Hardcopy received
  • 06/04/2013 - Flight back to the U.S.
  • 07/29/2013 - NOA2 (approval text) received (only 87 days since NOA1 Notice Date)
  • 08/02/2013 - NOA2 Hardcopy received
  • 08/14/2013 - Mailed all necessary post-NOA2 docs to sweetheart in preparation for her medical/interview!
  • 08/19/2013 - Manila Case # given by NVC (exactly 3 wks since NOA2)
  • 08/26/2013 - Manila Case # Hardcopy received, perfect timing for...
  • 08/26/2013 - Our 1-year ANNIVERSARY! dancin5hr.gif
  • 08/28/2013 - Post-NOA2 docs received (only 13 days!)
  • 09/02/2013 - Filed college credentials for CGFNS
  • 09/03/2013 - Paid $240 visa fee at BPI
  • 09/03/2013 - Mailed fingerprints to MorphoTrust
  • 09/04/2013 - Interview calendar (finally) viewable
  • 09/11/2013 - Releasing of credentials @ UPH
  • 09/12/2013 - Mailed off UPH credentials to CGFNS
  • 09/16/2013 - Medical Examination
  • 09/17/2013 - Immunizations
  • 09/18/2013 - Interview - VISA APPROVED!!! (< 5 months for everything!!)dancin5hr.gif
  • 09/19/2013 - Case Status: Ready
  • 09/23/2013 - Case Status: Administrative Processing
  • 09/24/2013 - Case Status: Issued!
  • 09/25/2013 - Releasing of credentials @ MCNP - pick up and send to CGFNS
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While I understand that you are angry, and upset, Visa Journey is not about revenge. I don't think you will be getting advice on how to "get that guy in MASSIVE TROUBLE"

I'm sorry to read that your fiancee treated you so poorly. I just don't believe it is up to you to get even with either of them.


I can explain it to you. But I can't understand it for you.

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Well I really want to know HOW the marriage even took place since he's already married! Doesn't the court check on such important matters??? And IF indeed it IS an illegal marriage, what can I do for the Philippine gov't to TAKE ACTION against him???


Our K-1 VISA Process & NCLEX-RN Exam Status

  • 04/24/2013 - I-129F Sent
  • 04/29/2013 - NOA1 Touched
  • 05/02/2013 - Left to visit my baby for the 3rd time!
  • 05/03/2013 - NOA1 Hardcopy received
  • 06/04/2013 - Flight back to the U.S.
  • 07/29/2013 - NOA2 (approval text) received (only 87 days since NOA1 Notice Date)
  • 08/02/2013 - NOA2 Hardcopy received
  • 08/14/2013 - Mailed all necessary post-NOA2 docs to sweetheart in preparation for her medical/interview!
  • 08/19/2013 - Manila Case # given by NVC (exactly 3 wks since NOA2)
  • 08/26/2013 - Manila Case # Hardcopy received, perfect timing for...
  • 08/26/2013 - Our 1-year ANNIVERSARY! dancin5hr.gif
  • 08/28/2013 - Post-NOA2 docs received (only 13 days!)
  • 09/02/2013 - Filed college credentials for CGFNS
  • 09/03/2013 - Paid $240 visa fee at BPI
  • 09/03/2013 - Mailed fingerprints to MorphoTrust
  • 09/04/2013 - Interview calendar (finally) viewable
  • 09/11/2013 - Releasing of credentials @ UPH
  • 09/12/2013 - Mailed off UPH credentials to CGFNS
  • 09/16/2013 - Medical Examination
  • 09/17/2013 - Immunizations
  • 09/18/2013 - Interview - VISA APPROVED!!! (< 5 months for everything!!)dancin5hr.gif
  • 09/19/2013 - Case Status: Ready
  • 09/23/2013 - Case Status: Administrative Processing
  • 09/24/2013 - Case Status: Issued!
  • 09/25/2013 - Releasing of credentials @ MCNP - pick up and send to CGFNS
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I am sorry for what happened to you but You should think about what the outcome is going to be for You, if youre not commited in any way to her and you do not see a future with her then walk away. If you already sent out the K-1 package have the process cancelled. Their Karma will take care of them and you talking about revenge will not help You.

Good Luck

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Well I really want to know HOW the marriage even took place since he's already married! Doesn't the court check on such important matters??? And IF indeed it IS an illegal marriage, what can I do for the Philippine gov't to TAKE ACTION against him???

It doesn't matter how it took place. I don't think the Philippine government will take any action against him based on your accusations. The fact that it did take place should be enough for you. Withdraw your petition.


I can explain it to you. But I can't understand it for you.

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So..... wanna feel very sorry for someone? Then just read this.

Just found out that my 21-year old fiance and former lover, up and married a 63 year old man back in Oct. 2011, all the while I'm her bf since late 2009 & WE planned on marrying & I actually submitted the K1 on end of Dec 2011. She even PROMISED me still on 11/15/11 that I'm really her husband and never acted any different/became quiet after she got married in Oct, and all the while gave me ABSOLUTELY NO CLUE that she did such a thing & KEPT MAKING ME THINK that we're still good, basically leading me on for absolutely nothing. As I was missing her passport photo, I told her that and she STILL sent me her passport photo all the while she's married already. She even KNEW that I'm coming back in Jan. 2012 this year *just for her* but still did all this #### to me!! So I ended up going there for 2 months for absolutely nothing. Now her running away form me multiple times & complete change of personality makes perfect sense. And you know what else? Our last day together she wrote on 3 pics that I'd be more than happy to show you that she'll MISS me & cant wait to see me again, that she'll CHANGE for us, and that she really LOVES me. Hmm, sorta hard to have a FUTURE with someone who's already illegally MARRIED though, dont you think?!

Reason why it's an ILLEGAL marriage is because the owner of the school she works (and now sleeps) has ~4 kids and a wife in the U.S. according to what she told me (im sure he's married regardless), the REAL wife is still living. My fiance said that she just went to the barangay city hall in Quezon City for the marriage with NO WITNESSES of the marriage... none of her family witnessed it and only her mom knows that she decided to do this bec she wanted to hide it from everyone due to the 3x age gap. Yes it's extremely messed up I know after me spending thousands of $$'s JUST FOR HER, but I need to know how to get that guy in MASSIVE TROUBLE as Philippines doesn't allow polygami!! I know I can pay $25 and request for a CENOMAR to make sure that it wasn't an OFFICIAL marriage as I have all HER necessary info, but aside from doing this, need to know exactly what to do to mess HIM up for engaging in an illegal marriage! I know his first and last name, address of the sch. he owns, cell #/contact #'s of the school but that's about it... saw him only once.a

Also, since he was indeed still married at that time, why did the city hall even ALLOW the marriage to take place and not first search if he's first married?!?!??!?!? Maybe they just got married thru the court but it for sure isn't REAL or what???

Before anyone replies to this thread, read http://www.visajourney.com/forums/topic/352647-help-complete-change-of-personality/

And for the record, no one on this site will help you with your request. It's completely immoral and wrong. You need to let this go and move on with your life.


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"Oppressive language does more than represent violence; it is violence; does more than represent the limits of knowledge; it limits knowledge." -Toni Morrison

He who passively accepts evil is as much involved in it as he who helps to perpetrate it.

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