court-less relationship

[jrmejia 31]

So you asked for it? here it goes:

I went a BBQ and I met one of my friend that I know for years. Her husband is a very nice guy and we treat each other like almost family. So we sat at a corner and she asked me how I have been doing and I happy told her that I got engaged. She happy congratulated me and asked me more about my fiancee. I told her that my fiancee is not from USA she is abroad from the Philippines, that I am working on her visa, and told her age. She said just like this "are you sure you know what are you doing"? I replies with my smile yes I think I know. Then she said, c'om we need to talk.

She is a therapy and has a clinic. About 70% of her customers, actually clients, are ladies who came here on visa. She told me that most of them are not happy at all and when she ask them "Do you love your husband" most of them say I care for him but none say "I love him very much". And the few who say they love their husband? they use a "But" at the end.

Boys and girls should I continue?

By the way, I never said mine will not get bored, I will be shocked if she does not. Hey! All I know is that I love her I do not know any one else heart.

[I AM NOT THAT GUY 5,715]

Is English your first, or second language?

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=c2mGCaRPVZA

Edited May 23, 2011 by Some Old Guy

[~happyndinlove~ 540]

Boys and girls should I continue?

Yes.

Edited May 23, 2011 by ~happyndinlove~

[sunandmoon 450]

1. when a lady... is bored... it means she is not happy with the person she is with @ home.

By the way, I never said mine will not get bored, I will be shocked if she does not. Hey! All I know is that I love her I do not know any one else heart.

[~happyndinlove~ 540]

So you asked for it? here it goes:

I went a BBQ and I met one of my friend that I know for years. Her husband is a very nice guy and we treat each other like almost family. So we sat at a corner and she asked me how I have been doing and I happy told her that I got engaged. She happy congratulated me and asked me more about my fiancee. I told her that my fiancee is not from USA she is abroad from the Philippines, that I am working on her visa, and told her age. She said just like this "are you sure you know what are you doing"? I replies with my smile yes I think I know. Then she said, c'om we need to talk.

She is a therapy and has a clinic. About 70% of her customers, actually clients, are ladies who came here on visa. She told me that most of them are not happy at all and when she ask them "Do you love your husband" most of them say I care for him but none say "I love him very much". And the few who say they love their husband? they use a "But" at the end.

Boys and girls should I continue?

By the way, I never said mine will not get bored, I will be shocked if she does not. Hey! All I know is that I love her I do not know any one else heart.

The therapist...What is her practice specialization?...How is she paid?

I hope you will answer next question honestly....your current relationship...is this your 1st fiancee? 1st "serious" relationship?

Edited May 24, 2011 by ~happyndinlove~

[jrmejia 31]

Stay tune, I have a second question on another thread once things settle down here. Right now there is too much dust in the air!

Time to listen to Harold Camping

Edited May 24, 2011 by jrmejia

[sunandmoon 450]

Stay tune, I have a second question on another thread once things settle down here. Right now there is too much dust in the air!

Time to listen to Harold Camping

another thread, what a surprise. looking forward to it with much anticipation...

as far as this thread. time for countdown to thread lock?

Btw, besides your being wrong, so was he...

Edited May 24, 2011 by sunandmoon

[sunandmoon 450]

Time to listen to Harold Camping

his predictions are a disservice to the Christian Faith...

Edited May 24, 2011 by sunandmoon

[sojen 0]

Not entirely sure what the point of this post is.. but just wanted to add my 2 cents..

My hubby and I did not meet online, and yes we had what most people could consider a courtship because we were able to spend a considerable amount of time together before we decided to get married.. Having said that, I don't think our relationship is any better than those who met online, because people can find love in the strangest ways. My parents met on a plane and had a whirlwind courtship, and they have been married over 30 years.

And just because we had ample of time to get to know each other before tying the knot doesn't mean I am devoid of the feeling of homesickness. It's perfectly normal to feel homesick especially if you were/are very close to your family. And being bored.. you better believe your wife will be bored while she is waiting for her green card because if there's one thing k1 applicants should know beforehand.. its that the wait for the greencard is also a long process, and staying home while your hubby works can be very boring especially if you are not used to it. Before I moved here, I was working in Shanghai so I was always busy and its such an accessible place where you can take the subway to any place, but now I need a car to move around, and I can't work without an EAD etc etc..

Be prepared for random bouts of homesickness, and boredom.. I experience it from time to time, but then again I look at my hubby and then I realize it's all worth it. The question is.. are you worth it too?

:thumbs: :thumbs:

[jrmejia 31]

10/21/2011. According to him!

[sunandmoon 450]

10/21/2011. According to him!

Rapture May 21, 2011. also predicted it for Sept 1994

[jrmejia 31]

That I know about 1994.

[~happyndinlove~ 540]

The thread started with nonsense. and appears to be finishing the same (as started). The title of this thread should be - Let's talk nonsense.

Edited May 24, 2011 by ~happyndinlove~

[~happyndinlove~ 540]

Or, it could be titled...I'm clueless, does it show? or, I want to play a game called...You guess my hidden meaning.. ..or, I'm gonna insult you and try to make you feel guilty about it! or, Let's play Crypto-Speak! or, I bet I can post more nonsense than you! or or or or,

it's still a bunch of rubbish and nonsense talk. Try to justify it all you want. You are only fooling yourself and devastedme and Angel what? and how many other ID's do you have? Why weren't they participating in this wonderful thread? Must have the day off.

Edited May 24, 2011 by ~happyndinlove~

[rylin 3]

hahahahahah

all i can say is it is what it is jr! lol

if you think that way then its your perrogative!

if you feeling miserable with what you have now , then that was your choice and u have to deal with it!

so goodluck and hope everything is a ok. with you!

godbless