Men! Did you know you can buy a bride?

[Gary and Alla 3,696]

For Sure, and you can get a Virgin also.

Virgins should be cheaper.

[journey4life 0]

I hear to many cases where somebody comes here and has problems due to money and other various reasons regarding money , so i know it works for some but what happens when the man gets older and the girl gets tired of being invloved ? i have read about that happening . So this is about the same as being married to someone from the usa in theory .

With the travel dangers and cultural differences seems to be a big risk to me.

Good luck

[Gary and Alla 3,696]

I dig spinners from any country, It just seems like Asia seems to have many of them. I like a woman to be petite, around 100 lbs, Pants size btw 0 and 3, Shirt size of small, Asia has many while in the USA those type are few and far between.

What I find disgusting is a woman who lets herself goes and becomes a lardass, they get so huge you couldn't get a hula hoop around them.........

100 pounds is OK if they are like 5 feet tall, which most Asian women seem to be. Ukraine women tend to be taller, on average, than American women. Not by a great amount but 5'7" is a common height for women in Ukraine and considered fairly "tall" for American women. 120 pounds is fine on a 5' 7" woman, still results in a size 2 and they have longer legs and look better in heels. I could be biased.

And lest you think I am shallow, Alla is well educated, and has a great personality also. She seems to be enjoying her green card.

[kennym 275]

Your overgeneralizations of 'American men' and 'foreign women' is so strange. I am married to an American man. That doesn't make me qualified to speak on behalf of all American men. And I'll tell ya this: he wasn't the first one I dated...and in my experience, the men I have dated have been as different from each other as night from day. Furthermore, as an American female, I can't even say I'm qualified to speak on behalf of ALL American women, as we are also different and similar in varied ways.

What I also find most odd is your need to defend all foreign/domestic relationships. Some foreign nationals get married to USCs for greencards. End of story. Some USCs get used. This is a fact not up for debate. Some relationships even WORK even with the give/take...as Gary & Alla pointed out...there's nothing wrong with each side benefiting from a marriage. (USCIS doesn't even require 'love' to be a factor in a relationship, but that's for another topic) What i said was the harm comes from those relationships where it WAS a factor, and the USC isn't aware. Can you really dispute that?

You clearly missed the entire point Lisa.. I spoke about the experiences of the men that came to Colombia.. Can You Read?

Also, you say you're not qualified to speak about American women, so what makes you qualified to speak about women from countries you've never been to?

As far as being used, I don't dis-agree with you, but one of the things I said is that American women and men use their american partners just as much if not more, so how can you demonize a culture you know nothing about since the samething happens right here in our home country.. It's not about where they're from that makes them "users", it's about who they are inside.. You just like to argue don't you..

Look, I didn't make up the article that started this whole thread, all I did was point it.. You're the one that said

"but I think the harm comes from the USC thinking the gc/money had nothing to do with it. If they were honest with themselves, those in that situation would at least see their situations for what they really are."...

Now you want to say I've acused you of things which I haven't... You made a statement which you know nothing about.. You didn't say "some" or "a few" or "most" you refered to all USC's and infering to all Foriegners.. So, the point of this whole thread is how unfair americans can be to women and men taking part in these relationships.. It's an unfair generalazation and you're guilty of doing the same thing in your clearly unqualified opinion...

Kenny

Edited January 18, 2011 by kennym

[tallcoolone 102]

100 pounds is OK if they are like 5 feet tall, which most Asian women seem to be. Ukraine women tend to be taller, on average, than American women. Not by a great amount but 5'7" is a common height for women in Ukraine and considered fairly "tall" for American women. 120 pounds is fine on a 5' 7" woman, still results in a size 2 and they have longer legs and look better in heels. I could be biased.

And lest you think I am shallow, Alla is well educated, and has a great personality also. She seems to be enjoying her green card.

[Gary and Alla 3,696]

I hear to many cases where somebody comes here and has problems due to money and other various reasons regarding money , so i know it works for some but what happens when the man gets older and the girl gets tired of being invloved ? i have read about that happening . So this is about the same as being married to someone from the usa in theory .

With the travel dangers and cultural differences seems to be a big risk to me.

Good luck

Then you better not do it. Travel dangers? Best to leave the smokinghotnikovas to those of us that are steely-eyed risk takers. I am sure your words will haunt me when I am sleeping naked with Alla tonight.

Borat!!!!!!!! That movie had me crying I was laughing so hard!

[tallcoolone 102]

Then you better not do it. Travel dangers? Best to leave the smokinghotnikovas to those of us that are steely-eyed risk takers. I am sure your words will haunt me when I am sleeping naked with Alla tonight.

While ole Journey4life is laying in bed tonight beating off, The rest of us will be laying beside our beautiful and sexy loved ones

[Gary and Alla 3,696]

While ole Journey4life is laying in bed tonight beating off, The rest of us will be laying beside our beautiful and sexy loved ones

Yeah...we LAUGH at travel dangers! Besides, what did he mean "When the man gets old...?" Heck I was old when I met her!

[Gary and Alla 3,696]

I hear to many cases where somebody comes here and has problems due to money and other various reasons regarding money , so i know it works for some but what happens when the man gets older and the girl gets tired of being invloved ? i have read about that happening . So this is about the same as being married to someone from the usa in theory .

With the travel dangers and cultural differences seems to be a big risk to me.

Good luck

This is just too much! Dude...the cultural differences are WHY we married them! They not only don't go to walmart in their pajamas...they don't go to walmart at all and they don't wear Pajamas! The fact they are hotter than $2 six-shooters is just a bonus! This guy is a hoot! Where has he been? Journey4Life, you just gotta pop over to the Russia/Ukraine/Belarus forum. Please.

[journey4life 0]

Darn guys i didnt mean to start a world war here for gods sake . I am not here to step on anyones feet and make rude comments.

[Gary and Alla 3,696]

Darn guys i didnt mean to start a world war here for gods sake . I am not here to step on anyones feet and make rude comments.

I may be biased (I am) but I highly recommend you put aside your travel fears and buy a ticket to Kiev. Best when it is warm.

[journey4life 0]

While ole Journey4life is laying in bed tonight beating off, The rest of us will be laying beside our beautiful and sexy loved ones

Kinda of a rude comment to make dont you think ?

I never spoke to anyone directly here sorry if i caused any problems here.

[kennym 275]

I hear to many cases where somebody comes here and has problems due to money and other various reasons regarding money , so i know it works for some but what happens when the man gets older and the girl gets tired of being invloved ? i have read about that happening . So this is about the same as being married to someone from the usa in theory .

With the travel dangers and cultural differences seems to be a big risk to me.

Good luck

What travel dangers specifically are you worried about?

Loosing your tooth brush?

Having your car hit while parked at the airport?

Missing your phone calls while on the plane?

Forgeting your ballpoint pen?

There aren't any travel dangers there that don't exists right here in the great ole USA.. Just think, you could be at a supermarket and get killed...

Just think about where you would like to visit and go.. It's certain you'll enjoy the experience and who knows, maybe you'll meet someone.. Cultural diferences aren't what you need to worry about if you realize they exists, you've got 90% of the problem solved..

Don't wish you had done it, do it!!

[journey4life 0]

Thanks this opening question wasnt directed at any country , i was mainly talking about the philippines but i suppose the same issues applies to about anywhere.

I am not speaking with her anymore so maybe one of these days i will decide to go since i know some others that have been there .

Thanks

[one...two...tree 2,762]

Speaking of perfect bodies, a recent study showed that young, petite asian girl types are attracted to middle-aged man-boobs. Researchers aren't quite sure why this is so but speculate they subconsciously are drawn to physical features they don't possess themselves. And vice versa, these rather plump men subconsciously are drawn to the body type they once had when they were in their early teens.