what women really want from men

[Amby 490]

Today's women have achieved more than their great-grandmothers could have ever imagined. Women are in politics, women are in space; women are excelling in every career imaginable. Women today are strong, independent and sexually liberated; Gloria Steinem would be proud.

Despite the females social evolution, however, you may be surprised to learn that women actually still enjoy being treated like women, and they still appreciate a little chivalry now and then.

Cliche as some of these tips sound, they will score you big points with any lady who enjoys being treated well. The following is a list of what women want from men.

Return Her Messages

Many women gauge a man's interest level by how long it takes him to respond when she contacts him. If his response time is poor, she might assume he's just not that into her. Now, it's no secret that women and men have differing opinions on what constitutes good communication, and we're not saying you need to drop everything the minute she calls. She knows you're a busy man; she's busy too. What women want from men is a call back as soon as they're able, as opposed to sometime the following day.

This doesn't mean you have to send an e-mail or a text of epic proportions if you don't have time; a sentence or two will suffice to make her feel like you care which is all she really wants to know.

Kiss Her for No Reason

As much as they love sex, women also enjoy a nice, deep kiss that doesn't have any strings attached. This serves two purposes: It lets her indulge in kissing for the sheer pleasure of it, and it also tells her you want her, and not just sex. Yes, you're charming and sexy and she loves being naughty for you, but sometimes she needs a different type of connection. To really do what women want from men, try a surprise kiss for no reason at all; she'll love you for it. Combine this with a little hand-holding and she'll be smiling for days.

Dance With Her

Simply put, dancing with a woman makes her feel special. Unfortunately, most men are reluctant to put their dancing shoes on, especially in a public setting. Guess what? While she'd probably welcome the idea, you don't need to visit a nightclub to dance with your woman. She'll be just as thrilled if you slipped a little Marvin Gaye on and danced with her in the living room. This would actually be to your advantage, as you have total control over the music. You're also conveniently located if the dancing starts to get dirty…

Dress Up for Her

Dressing up to take your woman out is an excellent way to impress her. It's not about the clothes; it's about the fact that you find her worth dressing up for. It lets her know that you think she's worth that kind of effort. Besides, a nice shirt and dress pants can increase your sex appeal by leaps and bounds; you may feel overdressed, but your hotness factor will have magnified exponentially. It's true what they say: Women really do love a sharp-dressed man.

Remember Random Milestones

As a rule, birthdays and anniversaries should always be remembered; forgetting something of this magnitude will send the message that you don't find her terribly important. After all, she probably memorized yours early on in the relationship, so if hers goes unnoticed, she'll be utterly heartbroken.

Here's how to do what women want from men: To truly impress her, aim to remember the insignificant dates, as well as the big ones. The first time you told her you loved her, the first time you kissed, the first place you vacationed together, what she was wearing the first time you met any one of these will turn her to jelly and score you more bonus points than you can shake a stick at.

Take on an Activity With Her

What women want from men is to spend time with their man outside of the bedroom. They want to experience life with their man, and this is one of the best ways to develop a three-dimensional relationship. Don't worry; we're not recommending you join her yoga class; rock-climbing, hiking, tennis or cycling are activities both of you can enjoy. If neither of you are the sporty type, try something else that you already excel at. Teach her how to swing a 9-iron or to shoot pool she'll love the personalized attention.

Propose a Visit to Her Family

Women love it when a man gets along with her friends, but she simply adores it when he gets along with her family. Even if you're not particularly fond of her busybody mother and father, suggesting a visit (even just a yearly one) can really make your woman's day. It lets her know you recognize the importance of family. This is truly the kind of suggestion that leads to a warm and fuzzy feeling, so don't be afraid to suggest it.

It's the Little Things…

When it comes to what women want from men, the little things really do matter. The items on this list aren't particularly difficult or time-consuming, but they are, unfortunately, very often overlooked by men. This often leads a woman to feel neglected, which in turn leads to nagging and other problems. Make her feel special, and she'll go to the ends of the earth for you; try one of these suggestions, and she'll feel like you've already gone there and back for her.

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eta: any VJ men do all these things?

Edited March 15, 2010 by Amby

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dressing up sucks

[Amby 490]

dressing up sucks

I agree. Dressing up is good when its needed, but as long as you don't dress like a bum or something then normal clothes are fine. I do think it's hot when a guy can pull off a really nice suit and still look comfortable though.

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I agree. Dressing up is good when its needed, but as long as you don't dress like a bum or something then normal clothes are fine. I do think it's hot when a guy can pull off a really nice suit and still look comfortable though.

i like to sit around in torn boxers and an inside out tee. fuсk looking good im tired.

[Amby 490]

i like to sit around in torn boxers and an inside out tee. fuсk looking good im tired.

now every time I see you post I will have that image in my mind

[I AM NOT THAT GUY 5,715]

what women really want from men

1) Open jars

2) Kill spiders

3) Take out the trash

4) Lift the seat

5) Money

6) Green card

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now every time I see you post I will have that image in my mind

[Sc0tt28 26]

1) Open jars

2) Kill spiders

3) Take out the trash

4) Lift the seat

5) Money

6) Green card

My wife kills the spiders, I'm scared to death of them.

[Aklem 0]

1) Open jars

2) Kill spiders

3) Take out the trash

4) Lift the seat

5) Money

6) Green card

First 4 I can agree with you, but not every woman desires money or a green card...

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The only thing worse than a woman who only wants you for your money is a woman too stupid to realize how important money is.

[Aklem 0]

The only thing worse than a woman who only wants you for your money is a woman too stupid to realize how important money is.

Money is important, but wanting a man for money is stupid. If a woman wants money so bad she can make it herself =P

[Ban Hammer 13,716]

1) Open jars

2) Kill spiders

3) Take out the trash

4) Lift the seat

5) Money

6) Green card

just shorten it to "give her the credit card"

[IR5FORMUMSIE 850]

just shorten it to "give her the credit card"

I thought that you were going post that link again and say "sign the contract that men give'em."

[scandal 951]

1) Open jars

2) Kill spiders

3) Take out the trash

4) Lift the seat

5) Money

6) Green card

Good list.

You forgot (a la Fabienne): Giving her oral pleasure

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