taking people seriously

[Beauty for Ashes 257]

further comments about age differences, a known hot topic in mena, will result in this thread being closed. stay on topic, stay off the personal attacks.

the thread was a general posting and became a personal attack when green eyed girl aka sofia drug my name into it..personal attacks in mena? oh never...thats never happened.....

[Sofiyya 1,687]

kind of like a car accident.. fun to watch.. horrible to be in huh?

I didnt say a thing about issues on any of my recent posts.. you drug me into the last several posts by name...

You were bullied on here for years by several people.. you should know what it feels like green eyed girl...

I don't think you even know when you're doing it anymore, it's such a compulsion for you.

[~Jackie~ 30]

[chaishai 1]

that cat actually looks like jack nicholson!

[Teffah 5]

that cat actually looks like jack nicholson!

[Sofiyya 1,687]

I'm willing to call you out by name, kat, even if no one else is because I'm Arab and Muslim and it's bad enuf that we're disparged as evil on the OT, but then I come to the MENA board and I can count on you warning women about Arab men stealing kids from their mothers when someone merely asks if their babies are too young to go overseas without their mom. I see you on every thread about marital trouble warning about green card fraud. Then, when legitimate advice is given about trying to marry in Morocco when you have to deal with judge's attitudes about out of wedlock children, you dismiss that and go into tales about all the fornication Moroccans do, filling up orphanages.

Do you really think all your negativity is welcome or necessary? Many people have asked you to start demeaning Arabs over the time you've been here, but you always act defensive and cry about being attacked.

I'm calling you out for the good Arab men who you don't seem to know but that many of us here love and cherish. This board is not just about you and your issues. It should be safe place for us Arabs, too! When will you get that?

Edited January 8, 2010 by Sofiyya

[Sofiyya 1,687]

I'm willing to call you out by name, kat, even if no one else is because I'm Arab and Muslim and it's bad enuf that we're disparged as evil on the OT, but then I come to the MENA board and I can count on you warning women about Arab men stealing kids from their mothers when someone merely asks if their babies are too young to go overseas with their mom. I see you on every thread about marital trouble warning about green card fraud. Then, when legitimate advice is given about trying to marry in Morocco when you have to deal with judge's attitudes about out of wedlock children, you dismiss that and go into tales about all the fornication Moroccans do, filling up orphanages.

Do you really think all your negativity is welcome or necessary? Many people have asked you to stop demeaning Arabs over the time you've been here, but you always act defensive and cry about being attacked.

I'm calling you out for the good Arab men who you don't seem to know but that many of us here love and cherish. This board is not just about you and your issues. It should be safe place for us Arabs, too! When will you get that?

[Sofiyya 1,687]

Sorry for the double post. An edit turned into a hiccup.

[Ban Hammer 12,901]

well i see we couldn't get back to topic and off the personal attacks, so thread closed.

eta: don't restart this thread or a thread that picks up the bickering within this thread.

Edited January 8, 2010 by charles!