my compilation of thoughts

[kaibigan 8]

i love watching movies.. i admit i am a hopeless romantic..long distance relationship is no easy..

we all know..that is why... i do the best i can to reach him.. to let him feel that i'm just close..

even if he is at work..or driving.. or with his friends and family..or laying on the bed..

i always remind him how much i love him by sending him love quotes..most of the time i run

out of words ..imagine..talking on the phone most of the day long distance ha..sms,

chatting on ym , he sends me video everyday too even at work..even in the toilet.. yes we are crazy..

but that is how we express our love for each other..even if it's corny for some..but this actions made

us more closer and inlove..

so i just wanna post some and share this to all my VJ friends! keep your hopes high and think positive!!!

Most relationships fail not because of the absence of love.

Love is always present...

it's just that ...one loves too much and the other loves too little....

if i could ask God one thing it would be

"are you destined for me?"

if he says yes

then i'll love you even more!

if he says no

then i'll continue to love you

untill i can make him agree

that we are really meant to be..

* Love don't give us the promise of forever, but having faith on it makes us believe that there is.

* Love is not a one-shot deal that you have to get right at first. You will always make mistakes and find your ideal partner. Love is also a process of finding your way, finding the right one.

* The greatest mistake we'll make in a relationship is when we look at somebody else other than our partner to satisfy our emotional and physical needs. The second mistake is when we consciously allow ourselves to be the object of these emotional and physical desires.

* We can never be certain of our relationships because not all of them are built to last our lifetime. We have to constantly nurture it so it can grow and we can grow old with it.

* In the midst of despair, pain, and sorrow, someone comes in our life and gives us strength to believe in life again. The love they give us gives us a blind faith that helps us believe in ourselves again, that we can make our dreams come true.

* Love can be the best thing that will ever happen to you. More often than not, your lover is also your bestfriend, one who will stand by you through thick and thin.

* Most ordinary relationships begin and most of them continue as forms of mutual exploitation, a mental or physical barter, to be terminated when one or both parties run out of goods. The truth is you will not run out of goods if you believe you won't.

* People cannot change who you really are. You just have to tell them and be honest about the real person behind you. You cannot hide in your cloak of deception forever. You deserve to be happy just by being yourself.

* A relationship is a two way street. It's never all your fault or the other person's. You go into the relationship together and work thorugh it all together. And remember, the best relationship is one w/c your love for each other exceeds your need for each other.

* When we begin to put so much weight on what others fell and think about our relationships, we become distracted and lose our own perception of our partners.

* If you choose to fight for love, then you should be prepared to face the consequences and risk associated with it. But if you choose to follow tradition over the dictate of your heart the you also have to be prepared to lose someone you love.

* Let us always remember that, in the end it is not how much love we have received that would count, but how much love we have given and how much more we are willing to give even without the promise of earning it back.

* We constantly have to make an extra effort to make others feel that they are important to us and the small things they do are appreciated. The greatness of a relationship is built on the foundation of small acts of kindess, love and compassion.

* Whatever relationships you have attracted in your life at this moment, they are precisely the ones you need in your life at this moment. There is a purpose and meaning behind all events, and this purpose and meaning develops you as a person and as a lover.

LOVE QUOTES IN MOVIES

I know it's a cornball thing, but love is passion,obsession, someone you can't live without. If you don't start with that, what are you going to end up with? I say fall head over heels. Find someone you love like crazy and who'll love you the same way back. And how do you find him? Forget your head and listen to your heart... Run the risk, if you get hurt, you'll come back. Because the truth is, there is no sense living your life without this. To make the journey and not fall deeply in love – well, you haven't lived a life at all. You have to try. Because if you haven't tried, you haven't lived... Stay open. Who knows? Lightning could strike.

---MEET JOE BLACK

I love that you get cold when its 71 degrees out. I love that it takes you an hour and a half to order a sandwich. I love that you get a little crinkle in your nose when you're looking at me like i'm nuts. I love that after i spend a day with you, i can still smell your perfume on my clothes. and i love that you are the last person i want to talk to before i go to sleep at night. and it's not because i'm lonely, and it's not because it's new Year's eve. i came here tonight because when you realize you want to spend the rest of your life with somebody, you want the rest of your life to start as soon as possible."

---WHEN HARRY MET SALLY

Josie Geller: Sometime you'll kiss someone and know that's the person you're supposed to kiss for the rest of your life.

---NEVER BEEN KISSED

The only wrong thing would be to deny what your heart truly feels.

---THE MASK OF ZORRO

You will see a lot of things,

But they will mean nothing to you

If you lose sight of the one you love.

---AT FIRST SIGHT

If you love someone you say it...

you say it right then,

out loud...

or the moment just...

passes you by.

---MY BEST FRIEND'S WEDDING

I would rather have had

One breath of her hair,

One kiss from her mouth,

One touch of her hand,

Than an eternity without it...

---CITY OF ANGELS

You will be doing anything

For the one you love...

Except love them again.

---FAITHFUL

Fate exists but it can only take you so far,

Because once you're there

It's up to you to make it happen.

---CAN'T HARDLY WAIT

When you've found that person you want to spend the rest of ur life

with, you want the rest of ur life to begin right away."

---When Harry Met Sally

"Sometimes when you hold out for everything, you walk away with

nothing."

---Ally McBeal

Lois: You know, if somebody had asked me three days ago who the one person in the world I admired most was, I'd have said you. But, without really knowing what that meant. Without understanding that the hardest thing about being you is all the things you can't do. All the cries for help that you can't answer, and how that quietly tears you apart. But it never stops you. And after living a little of that myself, I realized

something...something I never thought was possible.

Clark: What?

Lois: I love you more. More than I ever have and more than I ever

thought I could love anyone, and so, I wanna ask ... Will you marry

me?

---LOIS AND CLARK

I guarantee it won't be easy

I guarantee that at one point or another

One of us is going to want to leave.

But I also guarantee that

If I don't ask you to be mine

I am going to regret it

For the rest of my life

Because I know in my heart

You are the only one for me.

---RUNAWAY BRIDE

Dear Catherine,

I'm sorry I haven't talked to you in so long. I feel I've been lost. No bearings, no compass. I kept crashing into things, a little crazy I guess. I've never been lost before. You were my true north. I could always steer for home when you were my home. Forgive me for being so angry when you left. I still think some mistake's been made and I'm waiting for God to take it back. But I'm doing better now. The work helps me. Most of all, you help me.

You came into my dream last night with that smile of yours that always held me like a lover, rocked me like a child. All I remember from the dream is a feeling of peace. I woke up with that feeling and tried to keep it alive as long as I could.

I'm writing to tell you that I'm on a journey toward that peace. And to tell you I'm sorry about so many things. I'm sorry I didn't take better care of you so that you never spent one minute being cold or scared or sick. I'm sorry I didn't try harder to find the words to tell you what I was feeling. I'm sorry I never fixed the screen door. I fixed it now.

I'm sorry I ever fought with you. I'm sorry I didn't apologize more. I was too proud. I'm sorry I didn't bring you more compliments on everything you wore and every way you fixed your hair. I'm sorry I didn't hold on to you with so much strength that even God couldn't pull you away.

All my love. G.

---MESSAGE IN A BOTTLE

When you love someone,

And you love them with your heart,

It never disappears when you're apart.

When you love someone

And you've done all you can do,

You set them free.

And if that love was true,

When you love someone

It will all come back to you

---FORGET PARIS

You cannot find true love where it does not truly exist. And you

Cannot hide it where it truly does.

---KISSING A FOOL

i miss you so much it hurts"

---SLEEPLESS IN SEATTLE

"Half my days i cannot bear not to touch you,

the rest of the time i feel it doesn't matter

if i ever see you again. It isn't the mortality,

it is how much you can bear....."

---THE ENGLISH PATIENT

Do you believe in love? I bet you don't, you're probably too sensible for that. Have you ever seen someone and you know that if only that person really know you, they'd dump the perfect model they were with and realize that you are the one they want to grow old with? Have you ever fallen in love with someone you've never talked to? Have you ever been so alone you spent the night confusing a guy in a coma?

---WHILE YOU WERE SLEEPING

"i'm here to love you, to hold you in my arms and to protect you. i'm here to learn from you and to receive your love in return. i'm here coz there's no other place to be."

---MESSAGE IN A BOTTLE

"Me? I'm scared of everything. I'm scared of what I saw, of what I

did, of who I am. And most of all, I'm scared of walking out of this room and never feeling the rest of my whole life the way I feel when I'm with you."

---DIRTY DANCING

When you kiss someone, everything around you becomes hazy... and the only thing in focus is you and this person... And you realize that this person is the only person you should be kissing for the rest of your life... And for one moment, you get, this amazing gift... And you wanna laugh and you wanna cry... Cuz you feel so lucky that you've found it and so scared that it'll go away all at the same time..."

---NEVER BEEN KISSED

"It's funny how we set qualifications for the right person to love

while at the back of our minds we know that the person we trully love will always be an exception"

---Ally McBeal

"So this is love...so this is what makes life divine. I'm all aglow, and now I know. The key to all heaven is mine. My heart has wings, and I can fly. I'll touch every star in the sky. So this is the miracle, that I've been dreaming of... So this is love."

---CINDERELLA

Don't you understand? That everything I do, I do for you? Anything that might be special in me...is you.

---GREAT EXPECTATIONS

I feel like the best version of myself when i'm with you... and that makes me doubt everything else.

---KEEPING THE FAITH

Is it possible to be just friends with someone i have these sort of

non-moderate feelings for?... Or am I doomed forever to just be in

love and ultimately significantly hurt?

-Felicity

"There are some people who meet that somebody that they can never stop loving, no matter how hard they try. I wouldn't expect you to understand that, or even believe it, but trust me, there are some love that don't go away. And maybe that makes them crazy, but we should all be lucky to end up with that somebody who has a little of that insanity. Somebody who never lets go. Somebody who cherishes you forever."

--- Ally Mc Beal

[Pinocchio Liberal 268]

I'm convinced!

[kaibigan 8]

THE RIGHT ONE

Somebody once told me that :

"Finding the right person is very hard and very wrong...

it is best to be the right person for the one you love and start

from

there...

you'll always end up disappointed when you set

standards and define a "right person" for you...

and don't rush things coz somewhere somehow God is

preparing somebody for you."

Don't be in a hurry to get into a relationship

because you can never find love

if you insist that you are already into it.

Try to find time to really understand your real feelings,

to know who you really are,

and what you really want in a relationship.

You're right, there's no such thing as a perfect relationship,

but there's a compatible partnership that goes along with it.

If you already knew that you're too big to fit

into a small sized t-shirt, don't give it a try.

You'll probably break it and pay for the damages you

have made.

If you knew and felt that the relationship

will not last, don't go deeper into it.

You'll just suffer the consequences

and live like hell for the rest of your life.

It's really hard to say goodbye though,

but you can't make it any better by just pretending

you still have the same feelings.

Try to let go and give yourself a chance to live life to the

fullest.

Give yourself a chance to grow and give your heart a

much needed attention.

Then you will find that you have made the right decision

and you made it all by yourself.

We call it love when we can't leave someone and see

them crying as we try to let go.

We are wrong, it's just pity.

We call it love when we're too attached

and think that losing the one we love will somehow

make us weak and unable to face the storms of life.

We misunderstood, its just that we're

too much dependent to them.

We call it love when we give our whole life to them,

the wholeness of us and imagined that if they leave,

no one would accept us and our past.

We are mistaken, its just insecurity.

But no matter what the definition is, the truth still remains

that love isn't something you can buy or beg.

It is real and existing.

You can't touch it but you can feel it in your heart.

You can't find it,

but it will knock before you when you least expect it to come.

It can make you the happiest soul in heaven,

but don't forget that it can also make you the most miserable

person in the whole galaxy.

[kaibigan 8]

mushy stuffs

To LoVe...

Anyone who has gone through the agony of losing someone she loves so much will still wish against all odds to have that love back again. But, sometimes a love lost is a love gone forever. No amount of hope can bring to life a relationship that just died a natural death. Set yourself free. Let your heart spread its wings and fly. Remember, it may rain for 40 days and 40 nights, but still will not rain forever. One day the pouring will stop and there will be plenty of branches where you can find rest. One of these is where you will build your nest and start over again. It's never too late. Remember, you may find love and lose it but, "WHEN LOVE DIES, YOU NEVER HAVE TO DIE WITH IT".

Remember that you cannot be a redeemer all your life. The best way to weigh a relationship is out in the test of fire. You cannot be a sooner of your mistake forever. Remember, we all fail and make wrong decisions but our blunders are meant not to bury us deep in misery but to teach us the valued lessons of life. Loving is always a learning process.

With love, we learn how to care and sacrifice. We learn to share and reach out. We learn to be unselfish and give more than we can. And when everything doesn't end well, we learn how it fells fall, we strive to get back on our feet and move on. This is where we learn that "Life doesn't end where our heartaches begin".

THERE IS NO FUTURE IN A RELATIONSHIP OF LIES AND SELFISHNESS. It's true, there's life in love. But, there can still be life even after losing love if you leave the past behind and let your heart heal and give you the chance to find yourself again. The success of a relationship lies not only in the beauty of its beginning but in its consistency. Make a choice not on impulse but a decision based on a healthy balance of mind and heart. Let us always remember that "HAPPINESS IS NOT A MATTER OF DESTINY BUT A MATTER OF CHOICE".

There comes a time in our lives when we chance upon someone so nice and beautiful and we just find ourselves getting so intensely attracted to that person. This feeling soon becomes part of our everyday lives and eventually consumes our thoughts and actions. The sad part of its when we begin to realize that this person feels nothing more for us than friendship. We start our desperate attempt to get noticed and be closer but in the end our efforts are still unrewarded and we end up being sorry for ourselves.

"YOU DON'T HAVE TO FORGET SOMEONE YOU LOVE. WHAT YOU NEED TO LEARN IS HOW TO ACCEPT THE VERDICT OF REALITY WITHOUT BEING BITTER OR SORRY FOR YOURSELF. YOU WOULD BETTER OFF GIVING THAT THE DEDICATION AND LOVE TO SOMEONE MORE DESERVING". Don't let your heart run your life, be sensible and let your mind speak for itself. Listen not only to your feelings but to reason as well. Always remember that if you lose someone today, it means that someone better is coming tomorrow.

"IF YOU LOSE LOVE, THAT DOESN'T MEAN THAT YOU HAVE FAILED IN LOVE. CRY IF YOU HAVE TO, BUT MAKE SURE THAT TEAR WASHES AWAY THE HURT AND THE BITTERNESS THAT THE PAST LEFT YOU WITH. LET GO OF YESTERDAY AND LOVE WILL FIND ITS BACK TO YOU". And when it does, pray that it may be the love that will stay and last a lifetime.

A woman on the rebound could easily fall for sweeping emotions and be made to falsely believe that she finally stumbled upon the right man when what she just found is only someone to cover up for the love she lost. A man who makes promises with words and not with actions may never live up to fulfill them. "IT'S TRUE THAT LOVE CAN WAIT FOREVER BUT IT IS CRAZY TO STUBBORNLY HOPE FOR SOMEONE WHO DOESN'T EVEN CARE OR UNDERSTAND HOW WE FEEL".

Loving someone is never a sin. It is what people do out of love that sometimes makes it all wrong. The selfish desire to want that person is what makes it a sin. Don't think only of your feelings for real love doesn't have a place for selfish people. When there is love, there is always sacrifice.

When we love someone, we NEVER easily GIVE UP on that person. Even if we get hurt badly we always try to find a way to ease the pain and learn to understand and forgive. Loving too much doesn't hurt. It is when we expect this love to be reciprocated that we begin to seek approval and acceptance of the things we have done and when we are taken for granted and rejected, we curse the very same love that we once freely and happily offered.

"DON'T WASTE YOUR TIME WAITING FOR SOMEONE WHO NEVER REALLY CARED ABOUT HOW YOU WOULD HAVE FELT. OPEN YOUR HEART AGAIN AND GIVE YOURSELF THE CHANCE TO FIND THE MAN WHO WOULD MAKE LOVING WORTH THE PAIN AND THE SACRIFICE. Just like anything else, our love grows weak and extent. Beyond that, it withers without any hope of recovery and soon dies".

God wakes us up in the midst of a storm to teach us a lesson. He takes away people we love, so we can learn to value love itself. He makes us cry so hard so we can see clearly when we open our eyes. He makes us bitter so we can realize that there is no genuine happiness if we think only of our needs and not of others.

Relationships built on jealousy and selfishness is doomed from the very beginning. The hardest part of losing love is letting go and moving on. Most of us cry endlessly over things that could have been but never will be.

"God allows us to experience pain to make us stronger and better persons. He will see us through the most trying and difficult times in our lives and only if we put our trust in Him we can learn to find joy in our tears and happiness in our sorrows".

In many failed relationships, separation comes as the inevitable choice but moving on always proves to be twice as difficult as letting go. Sometimes, the end of a relationship is imposed on us, but our choice to hold on is always beyond the control of circumstances.

Letting go is a decision that can never be dictated on us. It is a resolve we make ourselves. Acceptance is the key to a new beginning and time is the healer of all wounds. Even if the storm casts its fearful shadow, there will always be light after our darkness and lonely moments. There is always a hope for those who believe. There is always a chance for those who try. "Losing someone we may not be a loss at all but a blessing because someone even more is yet to come".

There is nothing wrong in expressing our feelings to someone we love, but "we must always be sensitive to the signals that tell us when to rationalize and be sensible." There comes a time in our lives when we would fall for someone who wouldn't be as interested as we are because his attention is focused on someone else.

There are many times when we love but don't get loved in return. There are times when the sign ahead says stop but we still stubbornly head on. We would say our love is unconditional, but if it really is, then we should never feel bad. But why do we get frustrated when love turns sour? Because we still subconsciously seek acceptance and assurance from the people we care about.

Being in love can be the most wonderful thing we could experience but if the feeling begins to consume our whole beings, then we have to stop and let our minds and not our hearts dictate our actions. Only when we learn to accept our fate and understand the meaning of our failures we can truly go on with life without having to look back and cry over the things that could have been but will never be......

Edited July 7, 2009 by kaibigan

[kaibigan 8]

an unsent letter...

I love you...and not in a friendly way, although I think we're great friends. And not in a misplaced affection, puppy-dog way, although I'm sure that's what you'll call it. And it's not becuase you're unattainable. I love you. Very simple, very truly. You're the epitome of every attribute and quality I've ever looked for in another person. I know you think of me as a friend and crossing that line is the furthest thing from an option you'd consider. But I can't hold this any longer. I can't stand next to you without wanting to hold you. I can't look into your eyes without feeling that longing you only read about in trashy romance novels. I can't talk to you without wanting to express my love for everything you are. I know this will probably ####### our friendship..no pun intended..but I had to say it. And if bringing this to light means we can't hang out anymore, then that hurts me. But I could'nt allow allow another day to go without getting it out there, regardless of the outcome. If you feel something for me too...all I ask is that you not suppress that and try to dwell in it before you dismiss it.

There isn't another soul on this planet who's ever made me half the person I am when I'm with you, and I would risk this friendship for the chance to take it to another level. Because it's there between you and me. You can't deny that. And even if we never speak again after this, please know that I'm forever changed because of you and what you've meant to me.

==========================

yOu CaN LeaRn tHe MoSt aBouT SoMeoNe NoT DuRiNg tHoSe MoMenTs oF DeEp aNd

PaSsiOnaTe TidBiTs oF LiFe, BuT DuRiNg tHoSe MoMenTs oF SiMpLiCiTy. tHe MoSt DeEpeSt

oF FeeLiNgS aRe BoRn DuRiNg tHoSe MoMeNtS. yOu CaN Be LyiNg iN BeD WiTh tHaT

PerSon aNd aLL oF a SudDen yOu ReaLiZe "Damn, I'm in love!"

[Amby 490]

[spookyturtle 9,466]

My compilation of thoughts:

[scandal 951]

kaibigan obviously never heard of blog hosting sites, and seems to feel that VJ-OT might be a substitute location.

[Amby 490]

kaibigan obviously never heard of blog hosting sites, and seems to feel that VJ-OT might be a substitute location.

is that m'kay be gone?