Do you find this irritating?

[angela920 0]

hello again to my fellow visajourney goers! Hope you are all ok and happy with your loved ones! I know it's hard to be separated but I hope for those who are still waiting for their visas, you'll get it soon! Just always be positive

Anyways, I just one question and need your opinion about this. Do you guys find it so irritating (or seems not right) when your fellow Pinays ask you this "uy hanap mo naman ako ng papa dyan... or sino ang irereto mo sa akin dyan?" -translation- (hey, could you find me a lover there? or do you have somebody who you can introduce me to?" It really turns me off when my friends,so-called friends or even just somebody i worked with at the office ask me those. It seems for me that they only want a ticket to go to the USA. Sounds like it for me... but this is just my opinion. I might be getting paranoid too from not having enough sleep. lol No pms yet! Can't help but to think.. can't you find your own man?

Just want to know your opinion about this kind of attitude.

[quakebars 0]

hello again to my fellow visajourney goers! Hope you are all ok and happy with your loved ones! I know it's hard to be separated but I hope for those who are still waiting for their visas, you'll get it soon! Just always be positive

Anyways, I just one question and need your opinion about this. Do you guys find it so irritating (or seems not right) when your fellow Pinays ask you this "uy hanap mo naman ako ng papa dyan... or sino ang irereto mo sa akin dyan?" -translation- (hey, could you find me a lover there? or do you have somebody who you can introduce me to?" It really turns me off when my friends,so-called friends or even just somebody i worked with at the office ask me those. It seems for me that they only want a ticket to go to the USA. Sounds like it for me... but this is just my opinion. I might be getting paranoid too from not having enough sleep. lol No pms yet! Can't help but to think.. can't you find your own man?

Just want to know your opinion about this kind of attitude.

nope. i like playing cupid

[john & jean 37]

I am irritated by my american friends asking me to find them a filipina.

[=FoxyBLUE= 2]

hello again to my fellow visajourney goers! Hope you are all ok and happy with your loved ones! I know it's hard to be separated but I hope for those who are still waiting for their visas, you'll get it soon! Just always be positive

Anyways, I just one question and need your opinion about this. Do you guys find it so irritating (or seems not right) when your fellow Pinays ask you this "uy hanap mo naman ako ng papa dyan... or sino ang irereto mo sa akin dyan?" -translation- (hey, could you find me a lover there? or do you have somebody who you can introduce me to?" It really turns me off when my friends,so-called friends or even just somebody i worked with at the office ask me those. It seems for me that they only want a ticket to go to the USA. Sounds like it for me... but this is just my opinion. I might be getting paranoid too from not having enough sleep. lol No pms yet! Can't help but to think.. can't you find your own man?

Just want to know your opinion about this kind of attitude.

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Sad to say,but i do agree!(especially with the financial crisis going so bad..) as the old filipino saying goes "humawak ka na sa patalim"(correct me if im wrong..)BUT BUT BUT BUT im not saying that Pinays are all the same....some really need someone to fall in love with....and some just want other things aside from love....

But for me, whatever they want....its really up to them, what will makes them happy whether they love a person or just hurt them....

I'm just glad that im working on this visa for LOVE

Edited March 24, 2009 by Mariel_Esteban

[HappyDancer 7]

It is a lil irritating but I answer them with this: You go ahead and get one of yourself. It was so hard for me to find one as most of them know what some Filipinas (at the back of my mind i say "Like you") are after. LOL

Edited March 24, 2009 by HappyDancer

[Rocky_nBullwinkle 6]

hello again to my fellow visajourney goers! Hope you are all ok and happy with your loved ones! I know it's hard to be separated but I hope for those who are still waiting for their visas, you'll get it soon! Just always be positive

Anyways, I just one question and need your opinion about this. Do you guys find it so irritating (or seems not right) when your fellow Pinays ask you this "uy hanap mo naman ako ng papa dyan... or sino ang irereto mo sa akin dyan?" -translation- (hey, could you find me a lover there? or do you have somebody who you can introduce me to?" It really turns me off when my friends,so-called friends or even just somebody i worked with at the office ask me those. It seems for me that they only want a ticket to go to the USA. Sounds like it for me... but this is just my opinion. I might be getting paranoid too from not having enough sleep. lol No pms yet! Can't help but to think.. can't you find your own man?

Just want to know your opinion about this kind of attitude.

nope. i like playing cupid

I like playing cupid too. It so happened that one of my colleagues at work wanted to marry a Filipina and my Pinay friend in Manila wanted an American guy for boyfriend. They hit it off when I introduced my co-worker to my Pinay friend. They got married 4 days ago here in Sonoma County. I think it depends on how serious they are. If they asked you to hook them up in a jovial manner, it means they are not serious.

[felb 0]

i'm a bit annoyed myself but not for the reason you mentioned. i don't really like setting people up because i don't want to be blamed for something that might not work.

[rheanick 42]

hello again to my fellow visajourney goers! Hope you are all ok and happy with your loved ones! I know it's hard to be separated but I hope for those who are still waiting for their visas, you'll get it soon! Just always be positive

Anyways, I just one question and need your opinion about this. Do you guys find it so irritating (or seems not right) when your fellow Pinays ask you this "uy hanap mo naman ako ng papa dyan... or sino ang irereto mo sa akin dyan?" -translation- (hey, could you find me a lover there? or do you have somebody who you can introduce me to?" It really turns me off when my friends,so-called friends or even just somebody i worked with at the office ask me those. It seems for me that they only want a ticket to go to the USA. Sounds like it for me... but this is just my opinion. I might be getting paranoid too from not having enough sleep. lol No pms yet! Can't help but to think.. can't you find your own man?

Just want to know your opinion about this kind of attitude.

Right now, I'm not irritated coz its my husband asking me to introduce a filipina to his bachelor friends. I told him that i want to know his friends more before i introduce them to my filipina friends...

[-B&T- 1]

Nope, not at all!It's very common there in Philippines that your friends would ask things like that so just don't get irritated just laugh about it!

[Ban Hammer 12,863]

hello again to my fellow visajourney goers! Hope you are all ok and happy with your loved ones! I know it's hard to be separated but I hope for those who are still waiting for their visas, you'll get it soon! Just always be positive

Anyways, I just one question and need your opinion about this. Do you guys find it so irritating (or seems not right) when your fellow Pinays ask you this "uy hanap mo naman ako ng papa dyan... or sino ang irereto mo sa akin dyan?" -translation- (hey, could you find me a lover there? or do you have somebody who you can introduce me to?" It really turns me off when my friends,so-called friends or even just somebody i worked with at the office ask me those. It seems for me that they only want a ticket to go to the USA. Sounds like it for me... but this is just my opinion. I might be getting paranoid too from not having enough sleep. lol No pms yet! Can't help but to think.. can't you find your own man?

Just want to know your opinion about this kind of attitude.

hook them up with this

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[John&Juvy 36]

Yes for me it is irritating and imbarassing.. specially when they asked that quistion direct to my husband, kc ayaw ko naman isipin ng husband ko na ng ha-haunting tayo ng americano . I was like.. HELLLLOOOOO ! OK ka lang ?!?!??? What do u think about us BUGAW ? That is too little despirate of u. kadiri diba ? hahahaha. Have a little shame in ur self girl.

[cEzYcHiC 0]

I agree and I REALLY hate it. I've done that before and I'm not doing that again. Hell, NO!

I feel like I'm being a match maker.

And when they finally get hooked up and everything doesn't come out their way, I'm the one who gets the blamed.

Silly, right?

No wonder most foreigners think that girls from third world countries are GOLD DIGGERS..

[Rocky_nBullwinkle 6]

Yes for me it is irritating and imbarassing.. specially when they asked that quistion direct to my husband, kc ayaw ko naman isipin ng husband ko na ng ha-haunting tayo ng americano . I was like.. HELLLLOOOOO ! OK ka lang ?!?!??? What do u think about us BUGAW ? That is too little despirate of u. kadiri diba ? hahahaha. Have a little shame in ur self girl.

I don't find it pimping, gross and a desperate act for Pilipinas who wanted to hook up with American guys. I find it romantic. My husband is open-minded about it. As long as they are both consenting adults, why not? If the American guy has ulterior motive or has an ax to grind, that is a horse of a different color girl! Where is your hopeless romantic side?

Edited March 24, 2009 by Rocky_nBullwinkle

[Nelly228 0]

hello again to my fellow visajourney goers! Hope you are all ok and happy with your loved ones! I know it's hard to be separated but I hope for those who are still waiting for their visas, you'll get it soon! Just always be positive

Anyways, I just one question and need your opinion about this. Do you guys find it so irritating (or seems not right) when your fellow Pinays ask you this "uy hanap mo naman ako ng papa dyan... or sino ang irereto mo sa akin dyan?" -translation- (hey, could you find me a lover there? or do you have somebody who you can introduce me to?" It really turns me off when my friends,so-called friends or even just somebody i worked with at the office ask me those. It seems for me that they only want a ticket to go to the USA. Sounds like it for me... but this is just my opinion. I might be getting paranoid too from not having enough sleep. lol No pms yet! Can't help but to think.. can't you find your own man?

Just want to know your opinion about this kind of attitude.

just smile at them...dont get irritated. just tell them "it is my destiny to met my husband outside the phils... I dont know about yours... only God knows...

[JoenKate 0]

In the 2 1/2 years I spent living in the Phils I can't count how many times a filipina had asked me that one lol

Joe