I am retarded

[#@!!* 0]

Better to be pissed off than pissed on

Unless, of couse, one likes the water sports.

[jen&darcy 0]

Its natural. I sometimes catch myself getting bent out of shape and he always says don't get the green-eyed monster out.

[rebeccajo 14]

I dont get mad at him, but id love to go into the computer and rip some hair.

GIRL FIGHT!!!!!!!!!

Yeah, I wouldn't like it either.....

[Sharon 1]

Better to be pissed off than pissed on

Unless, of couse, one likes the water sports.

[babybunny 2]

I am not the jealous type. its on the net so its not worth getting your feathers ruffled.

Ooh I beg to differ on that point, my dear...lol.

I met my hubby on the Net and I know all too well the things that go on here....lol.

you think your husband would be looking for some other chick?

if my husband is online and playing a game i would not care. if thats the case have a freak attack

when he is at work with a co worker. spend the rest of your life looking for signs of infidelity.

I trust my Bingo 100% so that sh it dont worry me.

[MichelleandCraig 1]

nobody's worried Shonnie, just not diggin' it is all. Me fourteen, or whatever we're up to now. M.

[*Robert* 2]

A little jelousy is normal, natural, and healthy. It's when there is too much that it becomes a problem. Don't be mad at yourself, but definitely read that other ####### the riot act!!!

[Laura_and_IanM 0]

For me it isn't about jealousy but rather respect for me as a person and respect for us as a married couple. Jealousy doesn't even enter the equation. Ian's ex wife really likes to try and stir things up and thinks she has a hold on him still when she calls crying on his shoulder because her grandad is in the hospital on his last leg. Now I am not an unsympathetic person by any means, but she has a man at home with whom she is engaged to and was also the man that she was having an affair with for many years hence the reason for their divorce....she should be crying to him. When I spoke to Ian about this of course he thought I was jealous but I explained to him that no that isnt it at all. It all comes down to respect. Not only that, she lost her rights a long time ago to cry on his shoulder about anything. If Ian was calling her, and they were still tight as a nut, then I would have something to be jealous over...but then again, if that was the case I would never have persude a relationship with him either...this chick doesn't go for that sort of game.

As far as the OP goes, I wouldn't be jealous unless he has given you reason to be jealous. Just tell him how it makes you feel, surely he would understand and no longer talk to these sort of women?

Laura Mitchell

[Sharon 1]

I am not the jealous type. its on the net so its not worth getting your feathers ruffled.

Ooh I beg to differ on that point, my dear...lol.

I met my hubby on the Net and I know all too well the things that go on here....lol.

you think your husband would be looking for some other chick?

if my husband is online and playing a game i would not care. if thats the case have a freak attack

when he is at work with a co worker. spend the rest of your life looking for signs of infidelity.

I trust my Bingo 100% so that sh it dont worry me.

No, it's the "other chicks" I don't trust, sorry.

Watch your step with me, dear. A wise bit of advice.

I have a very low tolerance for ignorance....

[Laura_and_IanM 0]

I am not the jealous type. its on the net so its not worth getting your feathers ruffled.

Ooh I beg to differ on that point, my dear...lol.

I met my hubby on the Net and I know all too well the things that go on here....lol.

you think your husband would be looking for some other chick?

if my husband is online and playing a game i would not care. if thats the case have a freak attack

when he is at work with a co worker. spend the rest of your life looking for signs of infidelity.

I trust my Bingo 100% so that sh it dont worry me.

No, it's the "other chicks" I don't trust, sorry.

Watch your step with me, dear. A wise bit of advice.

I have a very low tolerance for ignorance....

I can understand your low tolerance for ignorance, but surely you trust your husband right? You know all to well the things that go on, on the net, but it doesn't just happen on the net. It is all around. Bottom line there has to be trust. Ian and I met on the net as well, but I trust him completely. Again, if someone has given you reason to get jealous or to not trust them, then there is something wrong with the relationship. You can't let things from the past or like you say "you know all to well what goes on" hinder you. If you keep watching for signs of infidelity, then how the hell are you suppose to relax and enjoy what you do have?? Surely that would be an intrusion and will only fester into something more that will only damage your relationship?! You have to give your partner the benifit of the doubt instead of using the fact that you know what goes on all to well. Afterall, like you said...it is how you met your hubby.

Laura Mitchell

[Sharon 1]

I am not the jealous type. its on the net so its not worth getting your feathers ruffled.

Ooh I beg to differ on that point, my dear...lol.

I met my hubby on the Net and I know all too well the things that go on here....lol.

you think your husband would be looking for some other chick?

if my husband is online and playing a game i would not care. if thats the case have a freak attack

when he is at work with a co worker. spend the rest of your life looking for signs of infidelity.

I trust my Bingo 100% so that sh it dont worry me.

No, it's the "other chicks" I don't trust, sorry.

Watch your step with me, dear. A wise bit of advice.

I have a very low tolerance for ignorance....

I can understand your low tolerance for ignorance, but surely you trust your husband right? You know all to well the things that go on, on the net, but it doesn't just happen on the net. It is all around. Bottom line there has to be trust. Ian and I met on the net as well, but I trust him completely. Again, if someone has given you reason to get jealous or to not trust them, then there is something wrong with the relationship. You can't let things from the past or like you say "you know all to well what goes on" hinder you. If you keep watching for signs of infidelity, then how the hell are you suppose to relax and enjoy what you do have?? Surely that would be an intrusion and will only fester into something more that will only damage your relationship?! You have to give your partner the benifit of the doubt instead of using the fact that you know what goes on all to well. Afterall, like you said...it is how you met your hubby.

Laura Mitchell

Yeeesh. How do things get so misconstrued?

I never said I don't trust my husband....lol. I do. Completely.

I never said I am on a constant watch for infidelity...lol...shon said that, not me.

I have more important things to do, thank you.

When I said I know what goes on on the Net, I was simply conveying that I know how much of a meat market that it can be and that some chicks really don't care if a man is married and faithful or not.

Regardless of the fact that I trust my hubby whole-heartedly, I don't like even the thought that some b!tch would even attempt to come on to him. That's all I meant.

Yeeeesh.

[workin4somethin 0]

I just got jealous over a female gamer flirting with my husband....... I heard it. It was very harmless. But I dunno why I got jealous.

Now I'm so pissed off at myself and the girl ... and feeling so effing retarded.

I hope I'm not being retarded, but I am wondering, "What did she say?"

I'm interested in knowing what, harmless words, can be construed as flirting.

Also, I'm wondering, "How old was this girl?"

I've heard some younger girls say some really immature things before.

[Ephesia 0]

I hope I'm not being retarded, but I am wondering, "What did she say?"

I'm interested in knowing what, harmless words, can be construed as flirting.

Also, I'm wondering, "How old was this girl?"

I've heard some younger girls say some really immature things before.

lol, you were not being retarded.

I don't feel as retarded now as I did last night btw.

Now how do I explain what she said ... because this was all in the context of World of Warcraft, which is the game we play. Our guild was preparing to form a raid group to enter a high-level instance (AQ20 for those who play WoW), and I think they were talking about different classes in the game. I was playing my character at that time, but was kinda spacing out on the conversation because I was trying not to get killed in a quest. Then I heard my husband tell a male guildie something along the lines of "Don't make me come out and punish you." The girl picked up on that and asked my husband what type of punishment he was referring to. Bless his heart and soul, my husband did not bite and simply said "I'm married." The girl then said something else which I couldn't decipher (because I was still trying not to get killed in the quest) and I heard one of the guys say, "I don't think Syanne is going to like hearing that." Syanne is my character's name.

I will make this clear - my husband did not say or do anything to encourage the girl. And God bless him, he did not share anything personal about ourselves on the Ventrilo server while he was grouped with them. I guess I got slightly bent out of shape by this girl's voice and her non-stop chattering, plus her flirting attempts. OMG she was so irritating. He also switched to his headset because I wanted to play a bit more, and I didn't want to hear her godawful voice on his speakers. But by then, my irrational jealousy had gotten a firm hold of me and I lost the mood. So I logged out of the game and went to the living room to watch TV.

My husband loves me to death, so he knew immediately something was wrong. He came out to the living room to sit with me and ask what was wrong. I told him about my sense of retardation and stupid jealousy. He reassured me that I have nothing to be jealous about. And I trust him completely. Three hours later, though, I made him log off to watch TV with me in bed. I think I felt a bit needy last night.

I guess once in awhile we all get thrown off the tracks a little by something totally unexpected and benign. I do have a few very personal fears, but I plan to share them with my husband very soon ... right after I give him one of my super duper backrubs.

Thanks for not thinking I was stupid about all this.

PS. When my husband crawled into bed with me, I burst out laughing when he said I ended up not being the only one annoyed by that girl. Apparently, she managed to irritate a number of other people as well.

Edited June 13, 2006 by Ephesia

[workin4somethin 0]

I hope I'm not being retarded, but I am wondering, "What did she say?"

I'm interested in knowing what, harmless words, can be construed as flirting.

Also, I'm wondering, "How old was this girl?"

I've heard some younger girls say some really immature things before.

lol, you were not being retarded.

I don't feel as retarded now as I did last night btw.

Now how do I explain what she said ... because this was all in the context of World of Warcraft, which is the game we play. Our guild was preparing to form a raid group to enter a high-level instance (AQ20 for those who play WoW), and I think they were talking about different classes in the game. I was playing my character at that time, but was kinda spacing out on the conversation because I was trying not to get killed in a quest. Then I heard my husband tell a male guildie something along the lines of "Don't make me come out and punish you." The girl picked up on that and asked my husband what type of punishment he was referring to. Bless his heart and soul, my husband did not bite and simply said "I'm married." The girl then said something else which I couldn't decipher (because I was still trying not to get killed in the quest) and I heard one of the guys say, "I don't think Syanne is going to like hearing that." Syanne is my character's name.

I will make this clear - my husband did not say or do anything to encourage the girl. And God bless him, he did not share anything personal about ourselves on the Ventrilo server while he was grouped with them. I guess I got slightly bent out of shape by this girl's voice and her non-stop chattering, plus her flirting attempts. OMG she was so irritating. He also switched to his headset because I wanted to play a bit more, and I didn't want to hear her godawful voice on his speakers. But by then, my irrational jealousy had gotten a firm hold of me and I lost the mood. So I logged out of the game and went to the living room to watch TV.

My husband loves me to death, so he knew immediately something was wrong. He came out to the living room to sit with me and ask what was wrong. I told him about my sense of retardation and stupid jealousy. He reassured me that I have nothing to be jealous about. And I trust him completely. Three hours later, though, I made him log off to watch TV with me in bed. I think I felt a bit needy last night.

I guess once in awhile we all get thrown off the tracks a little by something totally unexpected and benign. I do have a few very personal fears, but I plan to share them with my husband very soon ... right after I give him one of my super duper backrubs.

Thanks for not thinking I was stupid about all this.

PS. When my husband crawled into bed with me, I burst out laughing when he said I ended up not being the only one annoyed by that girl. Apparently, she managed to irritate a number of other people as well.

[jelti 0]

I hope I'm not being retarded, but I am wondering, "What did she say?"

I'm interested in knowing what, harmless words, can be construed as flirting.

Also, I'm wondering, "How old was this girl?"

I've heard some younger girls say some really immature things before.

lol, you were not being retarded.

I don't feel as retarded now as I did last night btw.

Now how do I explain what she said ... because this was all in the context of World of Warcraft, which is the game we play. Our guild was preparing to form a raid group to enter a high-level instance (AQ20 for those who play WoW), and I think they were talking about different classes in the game. I was playing my character at that time, but was kinda spacing out on the conversation because I was trying not to get killed in a quest. Then I heard my husband tell a male guildie something along the lines of "Don't make me come out and punish you." The girl picked up on that and asked my husband what type of punishment he was referring to. Bless his heart and soul, my husband did not bite and simply said "I'm married." The girl then said something else which I couldn't decipher (because I was still trying not to get killed in the quest) and I heard one of the guys say, "I don't think Syanne is going to like hearing that." Syanne is my character's name.

I will make this clear - my husband did not say or do anything to encourage the girl. And God bless him, he did not share anything personal about ourselves on the Ventrilo server while he was grouped with them. I guess I got slightly bent out of shape by this girl's voice and her non-stop chattering, plus her flirting attempts. OMG she was so irritating. He also switched to his headset because I wanted to play a bit more, and I didn't want to hear her godawful voice on his speakers. But by then, my irrational jealousy had gotten a firm hold of me and I lost the mood. So I logged out of the game and went to the living room to watch TV.

My husband loves me to death, so he knew immediately something was wrong. He came out to the living room to sit with me and ask what was wrong. I told him about my sense of retardation and stupid jealousy. He reassured me that I have nothing to be jealous about. And I trust him completely. Three hours later, though, I made him log off to watch TV with me in bed. I think I felt a bit needy last night.

I guess once in awhile we all get thrown off the tracks a little by something totally unexpected and benign. I do have a few very personal fears, but I plan to share them with my husband very soon ... right after I give him one of my super duper backrubs.

Thanks for not thinking I was stupid about all this.

PS. When my husband crawled into bed with me, I burst out laughing when he said I ended up not being the only one annoyed by that girl. Apparently, she managed to irritate a number of other people as well.

Ephesia, I can identify with you 100%. I trust my husband completely, but honestly, who wants to hear some ditzy chick flirt with their husband? Those stupid little things make me jealous, I can't help it. My Aidan understands though, he usually laughs when I get jealous over that kinda stuff.

Two thumbs up to your hubby who was proud to tell her he was married.