online social network sites

[JelloShotGirl 0]

Do u let your spouse/or does ur spouse belong to any of those sites like friendster, facebook, myspace, fanbox and the like? Whats your opinion and how do you feel about it? Do u feel threatened by it??????????????????? Whats your feelings? If it bothers you should u tell your spouse? Do you feel it is a good way to communicate and share pics with people "back home?" or when do you think it becomes a threat if at all????Tell me ur thoughts...............

[w¡n9Nµ7 §£@¥€r 123]

Do I let her?

####### I wish I had that much power. She doesn't even ask me

[Alex+R 0]

I would say it becomes a threat right about the time when you become a hypercontrolling psycho who wants to monitor his internet use.

[Sister Fracas 5]

Do I LET him? crikey!

Yes, he's on Facebook and MySpace with friends from here AND back home. Am I threatened by it? No, why should I be? I am on both as well.

When you start talking about "letting" a spouse do something or other is when I think there is a problem.

I would say it becomes a threat right about the time when you become a hypercontrolling psycho who wants to monitor his internet use.

[ginger1981 0]

I don't let/allow my husband to do things and neither does he. We are both adults and trust each other...we both have our own facebooks, bebo, myspace accounts etc. It's an excellent way to stay in touch with family/friends back home.

[Nothing1234 2]

We use the sites to keep in touch w/ family and friends but I never viewed it as "letting" us do anything. We trust each other that I think is all that needs to be said.

[one...two...tree 2,762]

Do u let your spouse/or does ur spouse belong to any of those sites like friendster, facebook, myspace, fanbox and the like? Whats your opinion and how do you feel about it? Do u feel threatened by it??????????????????? Whats your feelings? If it bothers you should u tell your spouse? Do you feel it is a good way to communicate and share pics with people "back home?" or when do you think it becomes a threat if at all????Tell me ur thoughts...............

Friendster is like the Myspace for the Philippines and it's a way that many keep in contact, share photos with family back home. Can you be more specific as to what it is that bothers you?

[pedroh 21]

we both have facebook and what not.. I use it so my friends in Mexico know what's up with me.. plus I've found tons of friends that I haven't seen in over 10 years from junior high and high school.. so it's pretty cool

[Amby 490]

my husband isn't allowed to do anything unless I say it's ok. if he does something i don't like, he will feel my wrath.

Edited September 19, 2008 by Amby

[Nothing1234 2]

my husband isn't allowed to do anything unless I say it's ok. if he does something i don't like, he will feel my wrath.

Do you offer lessons on giving wrath!? I think I need some training...

[Mononoke28 134]

Yeah, I was also a little thrown off by the "Do u let your spouse" sentence. It's not about letting anyone do anything, we're not each other's parents. We can do whatever we want unless it's disrespectful to the other.

Diana

[alienlovechild 75]

Do u let your spouse/or does ur spouse belong to any of those sites like friendster, facebook, myspace, fanbox and the like? Whats your opinion and how do you feel about it? Do u feel threatened by it??????????????????? Whats your feelings? If it bothers you should u tell your spouse?

I'm too scared to join another online group. My fiancee already thinks I waste too much time writing to the losers on VJ. She get jealous like that.

As a compromise, she can have extra-marital affairs later but she must bring the women home with her.

[Trumplestiltskin 5,791]

I use facebook, she uses myspace. It doesn't bother either of us - certainly not to the extent where we feel we need to "ask" permission.

I waste too much time writing to the losers on VJ

Yes - we are really blessed to be graced with the divine majesty of your holy presence

[one...two...tree 2,762]

Maybe her spouse keeps adding mysterious women to his friend's list with sexy pics, or he gets suggestive comments from strange women? Every couple has a comfort level when it comes to things like that and I imagine some wives would feel uncomfortable if those things are happening with their husband. It could be innocent online flirting, but maybe she doesn't like it....and she's entitled to feel how she feels about it.

[Nothing1234 2]

Maybe her spouse keeps adding mysterious women to his friend's list with sexy pics, or he gets suggestive comments from strange women? Every couple has a comfort level when it comes to things like that and I imagine some wives would feel uncomfortable if those things are happening with their husband. It could be innocent online flirting, but maybe she doesn't like it....and she's entitled to feel how she feels about it.