proof of an ongoing relationship

[nmh 0]

Hi. I've sent my I-129F 4 months ago to the CSC. I told my fiance that we will need to have proof of an ongoing relationship such as e-mails. She has not sent any e-mails during this time, for me I got tired of sending without a response. We have only used IM 3 times and the last time was almost 2 months ago. When I do call I always use a phone card so no phone bill. As far as I can tell she will not use e-mails and has not made a great effort for us to chat online. For some reason she does not comprehend the importance to show proof of an ongoing relationship or even her required paperwork for the interview though I have asked her many times to look at the required paperwork to understand what she will need. The only thing she knows she needs is a police clearance from two countries Korea and now UAE. She is a citizen of the Philippines. She has not gotten this police clearance as well. My question is this, if we have very little proof of an ongoing relationshop how might this affect the interview at the embassy? Thank you.

[sunandmoon 450]

I did not submit any emails. what I did was use phone service like Talkloop, Sarimanok, etc which have the capability of printing out a call log. if you have been with her since submitting the 129f, provide her with evidence of the visit. If you've provided any type of support, send her the receipts. exchange some snail mails. It's better to be prepared with some evidence than not have any to submit.

[Abby-Ron 8]

Hi. I've sent my I-129F 4 months ago to the CSC. I told my fiance that we will need to have proof of an ongoing relationship such as e-mails. She has not sent any e-mails during this time, for me I got tired of sending without a response. We have only used IM 3 times and the last time was almost 2 months ago. When I do call I always use a phone card so no phone bill. As far as I can tell she will not use e-mails and has not made a great effort for us to chat online. For some reason she does not comprehend the importance to show proof of an ongoing relationship or even her required paperwork for the interview though I have asked her many times to look at the required paperwork to understand what she will need. The only thing she knows she needs is a police clearance from two countries Korea and now UAE. She is a citizen of the Philippines. She has not gotten this police clearance as well. My question is this, if we have very little proof of an ongoing relationshop how might this affect the interview at the embassy? Thank you.

If you have little proof of relationship, then yes you can be denied your Visa. If you havent already gotten an RFE for not not evidence of relationship.

The whole point of a K1 interview is to prove that the relationship is bonefide and have proof of evidence to back it up.

[Dakine 26]

Hi. I've sent my I-129F 4 months ago to the CSC. I told my fiance that we will need to have proof of an ongoing relationship such as e-mails. She has not sent any e-mails during this time, for me I got tired of sending without a response. We have only used IM 3 times and the last time was almost 2 months ago. When I do call I always use a phone card so no phone bill. As far as I can tell she will not use e-mails and has not made a great effort for us to chat online. For some reason she does not comprehend the importance to show proof of an ongoing relationship or even her required paperwork for the interview though I have asked her many times to look at the required paperwork to understand what she will need. The only thing she knows she needs is a police clearance from two countries Korea and now UAE. She is a citizen of the Philippines. She has not gotten this police clearance as well. My question is this, if we have very little proof of an ongoing relationshop how might this affect the interview at the embassy? Thank you.

Lack of communication records could be bad news at the USE interview. Only thing to compensate would be if you made a LOT of trips to see her.

Sounds like it's up to you to use a communication company that has records.

Tell her unless she wants to stay in PI eating malunggay, rice and bangus to get off her puwit and email, chat and use normal communication like most do.

[lokashadow04 0]

"You really need to provide proof of bonafide relationship to show that the relationship is genuine and that you really know each other..they will ask this ff:Pictures of u and her together,emails,chatlogs.sms,phone bill,money remitance,hotels reciept,ticket of airlines,reciepts of gifts,cards,letters,stamp of passport to show if how many times uve been visited her...if you can provide all of this much better,but hope atleast u can provide most of this requirements.and also the invoice of the engagement ring u purchased for her..goodluck!!

God bless,

Irene

[yankee 0]

Hi. I've sent my I-129F 4 months ago to the CSC. I told my fiance that we will need to have proof of an ongoing relationship such as e-mails. She has not sent any e-mails during this time, for me I got tired of sending without a response. We have only used IM 3 times and the last time was almost 2 months ago. When I do call I always use a phone card so no phone bill. As far as I can tell she will not use e-mails and has not made a great effort for us to chat online. For some reason she does not comprehend the importance to show proof of an ongoing relationship or even her required paperwork for the interview though I have asked her many times to look at the required paperwork to understand what she will need.The only thing she knows she needs is a police clearance from two countries Korea and now UAE. She is a citizen of the Philippines. She has not gotten this police clearance as well. My question is this, if we have very little proof of an ongoing relationshop how might this affect the interview at the embassy? Thank you.

about the embassy, its case to case basis. you have to prove that the relationship is bonafide.the card u used can help too. about the highlighted in your message, I'm just wondering about ur fiance, it seems she is not doing some extra effort for this application, im sorry bout if your fiance won't cooperate the usem has the reason to deny your application. have you made ur travel to Phils?the tickets, hotel receipts,pictures can be a big help to prove it..since you just submitted it two months ago, you guys can still have time to accumulate those supporting documents. goodluck.

[nmh 0]

Thank you for your replies. I believe I have everything I need for the NOA2 but more concerned about the interview. She is now working in UAE, if she was in the Philippines I would visit her. She is planning to go back home in time for the interview. She would be back in the Philippines now if I paid for the fine of 2200 and the plane ticket of 700. Since she made the decision to go there before we made the firm decision to live in the U.S.A. but I did ask her not to go there and I believe it is her responsibility to pay this and she and her family do have the money to pay for this. I do question why she has not made the effort to do the simple things that I ask of her. I've told her that she runs the risk of not passing the interview without this. I dont think that made a huge impression on her. I do hope she will change and be more helpful in this process.

[Dakine 26]

Thank you for your replies. I believe I have everything I need for the NOA2 but more concerned about the interview. She is now working in UAE, if she was in the Philippines I would visit her. She is planning to go back home in time for the interview. She would be back in the Philippines now if I paid for the fine of 2200 and the plane ticket of 700. Since she made the decision to go there before we made the firm decision to live in the U.S.A. but I did ask her not to go there and I believe it is her responsibility to pay this and she and her family do have the money to pay for this. I do question why she has not made the effort to do the simple things that I ask of her. I've told her that she runs the risk of not passing the interview without this. I dont think that made a huge impression on her. I do hope she will change and be more helpful in this process.

"I dont think that made a huge impression on her."

If she doesn't care about her passing the interview after all the cost, time and stress YOU will go thru. Find one that does.

There are millions of loving, caring pinay that would love to get a shot at bettering your and her life in the US.

I got one that did so and couldn't be happier.

Edited September 15, 2008 by Haole

[MichelleN 0]

Thank you for your replies. I believe I have everything I need for the NOA2 but more concerned about the interview. She is now working in UAE, if she was in the Philippines I would visit her. She is planning to go back home in time for the interview. She would be back in the Philippines now if I paid for the fine of 2200 and the plane ticket of 700. Since she made the decision to go there before we made the firm decision to live in the U.S.A. but I did ask her not to go there and I believe it is her responsibility to pay this and she and her family do have the money to pay for this. I do question why she has not made the effort to do the simple things that I ask of her. I've told her that she runs the risk of not passing the interview without this. I dont think that made a huge impression on her. I do hope she will change and be more helpful in this process.

"I dont think that made a huge impression on her."

If she doesn't care about her passing the interview after all the cost, time and stress YOU will go thru. Find one that does. There are millions of loving, caring pinay that would love to get a shot at you and the US.

Uhh that kinda sounds wrong in so many ways....

[pushbrk 12,105]

Thank you for your replies. I believe I have everything I need for the NOA2 but more concerned about the interview. She is now working in UAE, if she was in the Philippines I would visit her. She is planning to go back home in time for the interview. She would be back in the Philippines now if I paid for the fine of 2200 and the plane ticket of 700. Since she made the decision to go there before we made the firm decision to live in the U.S.A. but I did ask her not to go there and I believe it is her responsibility to pay this and she and her family do have the money to pay for this. I do question why she has not made the effort to do the simple things that I ask of her. I've told her that she runs the risk of not passing the interview without this. I dont think that made a huge impression on her. I do hope she will change and be more helpful in this process.

"I dont think that made a huge impression on her."

If she doesn't care about her passing the interview after all the cost, time and stress YOU will go thru. Find one that does. There are millions of loving, caring pinay that would love to get a shot at you and the US.

Uhh that kinda sounds wrong in so many ways....

One of the ways it sounds wrong is that the OP is still using calling cards that provide no record. He can change that but evidently there's an "impression" problem on both sides.

[MichelleN 0]

Thank you for your replies. I believe I have everything I need for the NOA2 but more concerned about the interview. She is now working in UAE, if she was in the Philippines I would visit her. She is planning to go back home in time for the interview. She would be back in the Philippines now if I paid for the fine of 2200 and the plane ticket of 700. Since she made the decision to go there before we made the firm decision to live in the U.S.A. but I did ask her not to go there and I believe it is her responsibility to pay this and she and her family do have the money to pay for this. I do question why she has not made the effort to do the simple things that I ask of her. I've told her that she runs the risk of not passing the interview without this. I dont think that made a huge impression on her. I do hope she will change and be more helpful in this process.

"I dont think that made a huge impression on her."

If she doesn't care about her passing the interview after all the cost, time and stress YOU will go thru. Find one that does. There are millions of loving, caring pinay that would love to get a shot at you and the US.

Uhh that kinda sounds wrong in so many ways....

One of the ways it sounds wrong is that the OP is still using calling cards that provide no record. He can change that but evidently there's an "impression" problem on both sides.

I was talking about Haole's comment about Filipino women....but yeah that's a good point too.

[Dakine 26]

There are millions of loving, caring pinay that would love to get a shot at bettering your and her life in the US.

I got one that did so and we couldn't be happier.

I cleaned it up a little. It's basically the truth!!

It can be a trade off. Man gets beautiful asian woman that takes unreal care of him in EVERY way and the woman ends up with a caring man than not only takes good care of her in EVERY way but sometimes helps out her family in her home country also.

Been there! doing that! Goes way beyond just loving!

[gensdad515 2]

I apologize if I have misunderstood. But it seems to me that the Ms. shows a tad bit of indifference as to the whole matter. By what nmh has written it seems as if she is ok with whatever happens. In reference to communication, when do you communicate and by what means ? I call my fiancee every eve through the PC using MSN video phone call, in addition we, text, IM and email. I could not see being for a long period of time without communicating with her. Please I am not judging or critizicing, jsut trying to understand. I would feel there would be a little more effort from the other side, that's all. J.