anyone for FRIDAY NIGHT chit chat?

[babybunny 2]

hi anyone wanna chit chat come on in join me!

[babybunny 2]

we are serving cookies and milk!

[babybunny 2]

how does hot baked chocolate chip cookies sound? come on to chat!!

[Jasman0717 8]

we are serving cookies and milk!

[Tiksman 0]

Oh I missed out..

[Fandango 1,439]

Shon, not to be rude or anything...cos you have been nice to me...but I can't get my head round the fact that you wanna be so friendly & try to engage ppl in chat, yet you're so beligerant, rude & insensitive to other people here. If you want to be part of a community, it's not just about being nice when YOU feel like it. Ever think that if you are not so vocally judgemental about things, there might be more people wanting to come and chat with you?

Just my .02

[meddykomp 0]

There were quite a few in chat last night

[Fandango 1,439]

There were quite a few in chat last night

Hah, well there goes that theory then! hahahah

[meddykomp 0]

Well I dont really know about that for certain. When I was there Shon wasnt there. There were a lot of ppl I dont know plus a few that I do.

[rebeccajo 14]

There were quite a few in chat last night

Hah, well there goes that theory then! hahahah

Shon was absent.

[babybunny 2]

Shon, not to be rude or anything...cos you have been nice to me...but I can't get my head round the fact that you wanna be so friendly & try to engage ppl in chat, yet you're so beligerant, rude & insensitive to other people here. If you want to be part of a community, it's not just about being nice when YOU feel like it. Ever think that if you are not so vocally judgemental about things, there might be more people wanting to come and chat with you?

Just my .02

when i tell someone off its for a reason!!! its just goes to show people that no one knows me. just like your judgeing me I will judge YOU. No one ask anyone to put there personal business in a PUBLIC FORUM. if I say something its because, they allowed me the opportunity to respond!!! I have people on here I chat with all the time.

The only reason I even ask people in chat is, alot of people dont know it exist and those that do know it exist they never go in there. since I was able to access it at my office- I thought why not chit chat. I am always nice to people. those that are around me can tell you that. Those that know me will tell you one thing about me is I have the best since of humour. the words you used against me -" beligerant, rude & insensitive " thats you judging me. by the same token there are people that I feel about them. there is a group of them too. see thats me judging them. having said that this is a message board. things can be taken in anyway you perceive them. if you get past the posting and talk to the person .you realize you have more in common than you assume. you know what they say when you assume. you make an

azz of you and me. sometimes people add their .2 cents and try to make change.

Edited April 23, 2006 by shonjaved

[Fuzzness 2]

There is a quote from a very famous person who lived a long time ago

If you have never sinned, you may throw the first stone

I don't like these personal attacks on people no matter what the person has done. can we please put the past behind us?

[meddykomp 0]

Just thought I would mention that Shon was nice to me Thursday night in chat.

[Fandango 1,439]

Shon, not to be rude or anything...cos you have been nice to me...but I can't get my head round the fact that you wanna be so friendly & try to engage ppl in chat, yet you're so beligerant, rude & insensitive to other people here. If you want to be part of a community, it's not just about being nice when YOU feel like it. Ever think that if you are not so vocally judgemental about things, there might be more people wanting to come and chat with you?

Just my .02

when i tell someone off its for a reason!!! its just goes to show people that no one knows me. just like your judgeing me I will judge YOU. No one ask anyone to put there personal business in a PUBLIC FORUM. if I say something its because, they allowed me the opportunity to respond!!! I have people on here I chat with all the time.

The only reason I even ask people in chat is, alot of people dont know it exist and those that do know it exist they never go in there. since I was able to access it at my office- I thought why not chit chat. I am always nice to people. those that are around me can tell you that. Those that know me will tell you one thing about me is I have the best since of humour. the words you used against me -" beligerant, rude & insensitive " thats you judging me. by the same token there are people that I feel about them. there is a group of them too. see thats me judging them. having said that this is a message board. things can be taken in anyway you perceive them. if you get past the posting and talk to the person .you realize you have more in common than you assume. you know what they say when you assume. you make an

azz of you and me. sometimes people add their .2 cents and try to make change.

Shon, that's just the thing...you are not always nice to people. Yes, I'm giving you an opinion..I do feel you act in a manner that is rude, belligerant, and insensitive. But I won't kick you when you're down because of it. YOu on the other hand will take someone who's down & suffering & just rub salt all over the place if you don't agree with something. I haven't just seen it once, it's a pattern with you, and I happen to think it's a bit heartless.

I know you are also a nice person...which is why I even took the time to write this. You seem like you want to get along here, and as long as someone's on your good side, it's all good....but look out if they're not! I'm not telling you not to chat or anything like that...by all means do what you want! I'm just sayin it suprised me cos I saw that as reaching out to be a part of something, which is completely something I wouldn't have expected...judging by the way you talk to some people.

Take what I said on as constructive criticism, ignore it...it's your choice and I really don't care. But I felt compelled to add my opinion & that's what I did. *shrug*

[babybunny 2]

Shon, not to be rude or anything...cos you have been nice to me...but I can't get my head round the fact that you wanna be so friendly & try to engage ppl in chat, yet you're so beligerant, rude & insensitive to other people here. If you want to be part of a community, it's not just about being nice when YOU feel like it. Ever think that if you are not so vocally judgemental about things, there might be more people wanting to come and chat with you?

Just my .02

when i tell someone off its for a reason!!! its just goes to show people that no one knows me. just like your judgeing me I will judge YOU. No one ask anyone to put there personal business in a PUBLIC FORUM. if I say something its because, they allowed me the opportunity to respond!!! I have people on here I chat with all the time.

The only reason I even ask people in chat is, alot of people dont know it exist and those that do know it exist they never go in there. since I was able to access it at my office- I thought why not chit chat. I am always nice to people. those that are around me can tell you that. Those that know me will tell you one thing about me is I have the best since of humour. the words you used against me -" beligerant, rude & insensitive " thats you judging me. by the same token there are people that I feel about them. there is a group of them too. see thats me judging them. having said that this is a message board. things can be taken in anyway you perceive them. if you get past the posting and talk to the person .you realize you have more in common than you assume. you know what they say when you assume. you make an

azz of you and me. sometimes people add their .2 cents and try to make change.

Shon, that's just the thing...you are not always nice to people. Yes, I'm giving you an opinion..I do feel you act in a manner that is rude, belligerant, and insensitive. But I won't kick you when you're down because of it. YOu on the other hand will take someone who's down & suffering & just rub salt all over the place if you don't agree with something. I haven't just seen it once, it's a pattern with you, and I happen to think it's a bit heartless.

I know you are also a nice person...which is why I even took the time to write this. You seem like you want to get along here, and as long as someone's on your good side, it's all good....but look out if they're not! I'm not telling you not to chat or anything like that...by all means do what you want! I'm just sayin it suprised me cos I saw that as reaching out to be a part of something, which is completely something I wouldn't have expected...judging by the way you talk to some people.

Take what I said on as constructive criticism, ignore it...it's your choice and I really don't care. But I felt compelled to add my opinion & that's what I did. *shrug*

WHOA Nelly speak what you know and not what you dont.

for your information! when I told ICY SPOTS off was because, she in my mind she was wrong, secondly she pured salt over a ladys wounds when her case got deneid!!! Denial is what we all dread. I defended the lady and spoke up how I thought it was messed up icyspots got damm ugly with that lady. so dont tell me that i pour salt on wounds. oh I forgot I am heartless.

next issue. I was really sad about the michelle & craig issue. for whatever reason you perceive is on you.

but my real reason I hated to see a marriage break up - being married enough times all I could see was this heading off a cliff. since that time i have personally talked to M&C she understood where I was coming from. we got past it and talked about things. I know i am heartless - that was the judgement passed on me.