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i kindda not happy at this time because i married some american girl she is 31 ys. she not working at this time , at first i love her but she doesn't work, on medication also using some illigal drug as well, which is kindda dissapointed for me. and now she like to ask me for money , i think i have to be patient because i don't wanna lose my conditional greencard i have to wait till next December to Remove conditional. with my unhappyness :( you guys have any good advice What should i do?

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Maybe counsling? See if you can get her involved in that with you?

Met on internet 6/04. Married at court house in Aba, Nigeria 12/04. 3/05 traditional ceremony in Nigeria w/ my picture. 12/05 finally together again. 4/06 ceremony/celebration in the states together

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1/10/05-sent

2/11/05-NOA1

5/30-touch

6/16-rep contact

6/27-Approved

7/?/05-ds3032/i864 bill generated

7/22/05-sent payment $70

8/1/05-IV visa bill generated

8/11/05-sent bill overnight

8/20/05- rec. 864 packet

8/25/05- nvc rec. IV bill

8/29/05-overnight 864

9/6/05-rec. ds230 (waiting on husband info)

9/28/05-sent ds230

9/29/05-ds230 rec

11/9/05 RFE for orig. birth cert.

11/9/05-sent origional

11/29/05 case complete-abandoned for k-3

129f

3/2/05 sent 3/15/04 noa 1 6/17/05 touched

6/20/05 touched 6/29/05 -heard approved on phone

7/21/05 - husband got packet/interview date at consulate

12/15/05- visa Approved!

12/20/05 picked up visa

AOS

1/9/06 mailed AOS & EAD

1/18/06 NOA 1 AOS and EAD

2/8/06 received appt. notice for bio

2/2/06 EAD touched

2/22/06 EAD touched

3/6/06 apt. date for both bio.

3/7/06 AOS/EAD touched

3/10/06 EAD on it's way

3/14/06 received EAD

3/20/06 filed for ssn

3/28/06 rec ssn

5/10/06 rec noa for AOS interview on June 26

6/22/06 found out pregnant- So happy!!!!

6/26/06 interview-Officer led us to believe we'd have card soon

7/8/06 e-mail stating welcome letter on it's way!

7/13/06 rec. Green card. Yipee!!

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Did you marry her for love or to get the greencard????

There is no way I would stay in a bad relationship just to remove conditions...

Did you not know about her problems before you got married....

Kezzie

i love her cause she nice at first also i have nobody, like Sweet at first now i know her real personality.

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look my friend..........

if u married her because u love her then it's ur distenation and u have to try to make a good person of her

but if u have married her to get the greencard then it's kinda a bad thing , but.......u have to decisions

the first to wait till u get the greencard (the main purpose of the marriage)

the second is to leave her and say goodbay to the greencard

easycome00

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Did you marry her for love or to get the greencard????

There is no way I would stay in a bad relationship just to remove conditions...

Did you not know about her problems before you got married....

Kezzie

Good points and questions

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United States & Republic of the Philippines

"Life is hard; it's harder if you're stupid." John Wayne

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i kindda not happy at this time because i married some american girl she is 31 ys. she not working at this time , at first i love her but she doesn't work, on medication also using some illigal drug as well, which is kindda dissapointed for me. and now she like to ask me for money , i think i have to be patient because i don't wanna lose my conditional greencard i have to wait till next December to Remove conditional. with my unhappyness :( you guys have any good advice What should i do?

Divorce her NOW.You are wasting your life if it is as you say and her's to.It sounds to me what you write is "I get American wife so I can have "GREEN CARD" now maybe this "scam"not work out for me.PLEASE HELP ME SCAM AMERICA!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

GOOD BYE TO YOU

You only want to stay in US

My advice......................Go back to your country that you came from and do not waste our time if you just want to come to the US illegale.It is people like you that cause the rest of us problems with real honest immigration.Just my honesty.Another thing you write like you are not American but faking it.

Greg (USA)and Yai (Thailand)

02/10/04...Sent I-129F to Texas

05/10/04...TSC received I-129F

21/10/04...Receive NOA-1 from CSC.

09/11/04...By e-mail I-129F APPROVED and NOA-2mailed 08/Nov./04

12/11/04...Received NOA-2 from CSC.NVC received I-129F APPROVAL from USCIC

16/11/04...Receive e-mail from NVC,entering approved petetion into the system and assigned a case #

20/11/04...Receive letter from NVC they have I-129F and assiagned a BNK case #

29/11/04...Turn in DS-230part 1 and check list to US Consulate Thailand.They also asked for 2 photos of Yai at this time.Did not recieve interview date at this time due to person assigning dates left for the day.Will recieve date in the mail,took 1 hour

07/12/04...Yai recieves letter with instrutions about interview from US Consulate with invterview date

24/02/05...Pay Visa fee in Bangkok at Post office

01/03/05...Yai has visa interview

02/03/05...We pick up Visa!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

02/06/05...Welcome to the U.S.A.

04/15/06...Offical marriage in U.S.A.(Tax Day) ;) ;)

Everything we have done was without the help of an attorney.We have not had any problems thus far and will not,I believe.

Lovekindness will enable this life and many more to most enjoyable. .^_^.

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i think i have to be patient because i don't wanna lose my conditional greencard i have to wait till next December to Remove conditional. with my unhappyness you guys have any good advice What should i do?

You're so unhappy and miserable in this situation, yet willing to stay in it for as long as it is necessary to get the GC.

FRAUDSTER!

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Hey, what Makes you unHappy?<#1 you say at first you love her but she doesn't work>#2on medication also using some illigal drug #3< and now she like to ask me for money >

####### Seems to me that At 1 time she had to have income or some 1 that trusted her judgement To sponsor your fake a$$. All these elements that you mentioned being unemployed, illegal drug medication, is part of life or relationship.

David & Divina (K1 and AOS Timeline)

05-08-2002 - Met Online (YM)

12-15-2003 - Met in Person

11-14-2004 - I-129F Sent

11-17-2004 - I-129F NOA1/Receipt and Case Number

02-03-2005 - I-129F NOA2/Approved

04-20-2005 - Received Packet 3&4

05-21-2005 - Divina's Medical Exam

05-27-2005 - Divina's Interview

06-02-2005 - Visa Received

07-07-2005 - Divina's US Entry

08-20-2005 - Marriage

SSN

09-08-2005 - Applied

09-21-2005 - Received

AOS

10-28-2005 - Date Filled

11-04-2005 - AOS Package Sent

11-10-2005 - NOA Date/AOS received

11-14-2005 - NOA for Biometrics

12-14-2005 - Biometrics Appointment/AOS only

03-29-2006 - AOS Interview - Approved

04-03-2006 - Welcome to USA Letter Received

04-08-2006 - GreenCard In-hand

Lifting Condition I-751

01-28-2008 - I-751 Package Sent to Nebraska Service Center

01-31-2008 - Check Cashed/Transferred to California Service Center

02-04-2008 - CRI89, PETITION TO REMOVE CONDITIONS OF PERMANENT RESIDENT STATUS RECEIVED

03-06-2008 - Biometrics/FBI was unable to process fingerprint card

03-25-2008 - 2nd Biometrics

05-03-2008 - I-751 Approved

05-08-2008 - 10 year Green Card received

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Are you working? I know that when my husband first came over he was unable to work, and I had to support him. However, when he recieved his EAD, he went out to work, and I took my turn at home with the kids. I mean, that's life. If you're working, and your wife has a drug problem, maybe you shouldn't be putting pressure on her to go out and a get a job. Maybe you should try and support her and get her into a rehab clinic or something like that. Either way, my first thought would be for my spouse and not for a green card. Also, you say you THOUGHT you loved her, but now you're not sure. Honey, you better get sure or you're going to end up ruining a lot of peoples lives. Especially if she loves YOU.

David & Erin [br]5962a06.jpg.png

6/19/2002- Met Online

11/10/2002- Met in person for the first time at Buffalo International Airport we spend a blissful but all too short week together.

2/23/03- David proposes on the beach in Melbourne Florida at sunrise during his second visit.

9/26/03- After much talk with USCIS we decide to go ahead and get married during David's third visit, with David planning on returning to Ireland the following week.

9/30/03- Phone USCIS to ask questions on filling out paper work and USCIS officer informs us that if David is already here he doesn't need to leave. After numerous calls to the Irish Embassy and two more calls to USCIS to confirm, we decide he will stay.

12/02/03- Petition for AOS recieved

10/8/04- EAD FINALLY arrives

11/10/2004- Our Son Colin Michael Kieran born two years to the minute after our first face to face meeting!

1/26/06- Recieved interview appointment letter.

3/09/06- AOS approved! David is a permanent resident with stamp in passport.

4/4/06- Green card arrives. We are now free to travel back to Ireland so David can see his family for the first time in more than two years.

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Hey, what Makes you unHappy?<#1 you say at first you love her but she doesn't work>#2on medication also using some illigal drug #3< and now she like to ask me for money >

####### Seems to me that At 1 time she had to have income or some 1 that trusted her judgement To sponsor your fake a$$. All these elements that you mentioned being unemployed, illegal drug medication, is part of life or relationship.

the first time i met her she is very nice but now , f up because drug , and bugging some ###### money , this is kindda trick me and take advantage of me. can't stand that. so i'm leaving i don't really care about gc now i want family and house in my country but thax u guy for advice.

i think i have to be patient because i don't wanna lose my conditional greencard i have to wait till next December to Remove conditional. with my unhappyness you guys have any good advice What should i do?

You're so unhappy and miserable in this situation, yet willing to stay in it for as long as it is necessary to get the GC.

FRAUDSTER!

the first time i met her she is very nice but now , f up because drug , and bugging some ###### money , this is kindda trick me and take advantage of me. can't stand that. so i'm leaving i don't really care about gc now i want family and house in my country but thax u guy for advice.

Did you marry her for love or to get the greencard????

There is no way I would stay in a bad relationship just to remove conditions...

Did you not know about her problems before you got married....

Kezzie

Good points and questions

the first time i met her she is very nice but now , f up because drug , and bugging some ###### money , this is kindda trick me and take advantage of me. can't stand that. so i'm leaving i don't really care about gc now i want family and house in my country but thax u guy for advice.

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i kindda not happy at this time because i married some american girl she is 31 ys. she not working at this time , at first i love her but she doesn't work, on medication also using some illigal drug as well, which is kindda dissapointed for me. and now she like to ask me for money , i think i have to be patient because i don't wanna lose my conditional greencard i have to wait till next December to Remove conditional. with my unhappyness :( you guys have any good advice What should i do?

Divorce her NOW.You are wasting your life if it is as you say and her's to.It sounds to me what you write is "I get American wife so I can have "GREEN CARD" now maybe this "scam"not work out for me.PLEASE HELP ME SCAM AMERICA!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

GOOD BYE TO YOU

You only want to stay in US

My advice......................Go back to your country that you came from and do not waste our time if you just want to come to the US illegale.It is people like you that cause the rest of us problems with real honest immigration.Just my honesty.Another thing you write like you are not American but faking it.

your a chopf##K

that was really rude.

:angry::angry:

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i kindda not happy at this time because i married some american girl she is 31 ys. she not working at this time , at first i love her but she doesn't work, on medication also using some illigal drug as well, which is kindda dissapointed for me. and now she like to ask me for money , i think i have to be patient because i don't wanna lose my conditional greencard i have to wait till next December to Remove conditional. with my unhappyness :( you guys have any good advice What should i do?

Divorce her NOW.You are wasting your life if it is as you say and her's to.It sounds to me what you write is "I get American wife so I can have "GREEN CARD" now maybe this "scam"not work out for me.PLEASE HELP ME SCAM AMERICA!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

GOOD BYE TO YOU

You only want to stay in US

My advice......................Go back to your country that you came from and do not waste our time if you just want to come to the US illegale.It is people like you that cause the rest of us problems with real honest immigration.Just my honesty.Another thing you write like you are not American but faking it.

your a chopf##K

that was really rude.

:angry::angry:

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