I need to vent on here a.little bit and possibly get some advice from u awesome people.
So I filled for my mom and she has been in the States for 7 months now. She came 1 month before I had my baby and she has been of help with the baby till lately.
I have 2 otjer kids, she doesn't do anything with them . She has only pushed them on the swing a few times and that's about it. We live with my in-laws because my husband was without job for a year , he just got a job abt 2 weeks ago so we are waiting for 6 mo the before we can get a mortgage loan to buy a house. So my mom lives with us in my I laws house. I know it's hard for her.
But my in-laws font have a problem.with her being there. But all she does everyday is stay in her room and watch TV. There has even been times where I have to take all 3 of my kids out my me because she said she can't watch the baby that her waist hurts.
She doesn't want to get a part time job either to help my sister back home. She expects me to do everything.
So I have decided to let her go back home.
Is it wrong that I'm asking her to go?
Because I feel like I brought her here to help me with the kids which she is not and she doesn't want to work either. PS she is in her 50's