Hello Vj members thanks for your support for all the help and answers. I am in a very complicated and disastrous marriage right now. I came to the united states on a K1 Fiancee visa and been married to my now wife for almost 6months now but unfortunately that has been my worst nightmare ever!
Things just haven't been working no matter how hard I try to make things work, just 2 months after we got married, he daughter physically abused me by engaging in a fight with me,hitting me in the head and face, trying to get me to react so she could call the police on me but unfortunately for her I rather called the police on her and got her arrested and got the court to get a restraining order on her.
Few months after that incident I keep getting into petty quarrels with my wife almost everyday to the extent that she has promised not to support me again and that I should be responsible for myself. Don't get me wrong, I am not a lazy person or anything. am a very hardworking man. I just received my work permit abt a month ago and straight away I was able to find a job which am due to start in August. We just filed my AOS in March and went for an interview on June 20, which we had an RFE and were requested to submit my birth certificate together with her w2 which we already did on July 7, so I am waiting any further details from USCIS.
but we seem to be getting problems here and there and the marriage is simply not working. Just today I had to go to the mosque for evening Ramadan prayers but she prevented me from driving her car knowing that i don't know my way around our newly moved place. She intentionally did that cuz she knew I would be going for prayers and hide the key when she knew the mosque was about 14miles from where we currently live. To me I feel that is an infringement of rights since somehow she's preventing me from practicing my religion by doing that. I couldn't go to the mosque because of that. she has also promised not to support me again or touch anything that belongs to her and also threatened to throw me out even though my name is on our lease too. she said I should be totally in charge of myself and she has nothing to do with me again. She called the police on me but after they heard both of our stories so they couldn't do much. right now I just can't live like this with someone who is going to be preventing me from practicing my religion and threatening me.
I need VJ family to help me in my complicated case and how I can get out of this mess. am totally fed up of this marriage but at the same time I don't have no family or friends here and no where to go .I kindly want the best advice from VJ FAMILY THANK YOU