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Hello Everyone,

I married my husband in Nigeria. Come to find out he's a dirt-bag. He's cheating and got already got a woman pregnant. I have not petitioned my

IR-1/CR-1 yet and I no longer plan to. But in order for my divorce to be legal and for me to drop this whole Immigration process, Immigration told me I will have to go divorce my husband in Nigeria.

Will that be a difficult process for me? Please give me your input.

Also, will I need an Invitation letter from my own husband to go to Nigeria again? I have my marriage certificate.

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I married my husband in Nigeria. Come to find out he's a dirt-bag. He's cheating and got already got a woman pregnant. I have not petitioned my


IR-1/CR-1 yet and I no longer plan to. But in order for my divorce to be legal and for me to drop this whole Immigration process, Immigration told me I will have to go divorce my husband in Nigeria. I want to know will that be a difficult process for me? And will I need an Invitation letter from my own husband to go to Nigeria again? I have my marriage certificate.


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Hello Everyone,

I married my husband in Nigeria. Come to find out he's a dirt-bag. He's cheating and got already got a woman pregnant. I have not petitioned my

IR-1/CR-1 yet and I no longer plan to. But in order for my divorce to be legal and for me to drop this whole Immigration process, Immigration told me I will have to go divorce my husband in Nigeria.

Will that be a difficult process for me? Please give me your input.

Also, will I need an Invitation letter from my own husband to go to Nigeria again? I have my marriage certificate.

How terrible. So sorry to hear this :(

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Hello Everyone,



I married my husband in Nigeria. Come to find out he's a dirt-bag. He's cheating and got already got a woman pregnant. I have not petitioned my


IR-1/CR-1 yet and I no longer plan to. But in order for my divorce to be legal and for me to drop this whole Immigration process, Immigration told me I will have to go divorce my husband in Nigeria. Please tell me; Will that be a difficult process for me? Please give me your input.



Also, will I need an Invitation letter from my own husband to go to Nigeria again? I have my marriage certificate.


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dwheels76   5,462

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i need to talk to someone that can give me advice on to what to do as far as if im able to go to nigeria without an invation as long as i have my marriage certicate and how long does it take to get a divorce and how long and how much and what i need??????????????????????

Okay now we have more information on this thread.

No you need a Visa to get into Nigeria. Easy to get cost I think $180 now.

To file and than go to court and him served is about 30 days or so.

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I married my husband in Nigeria. Come to find out he's a dirt-bag. He's cheating and got already got a woman pregnant. I have not petitioned my

IR-1/CR-1 yet and I no longer plan to. But in order for my divorce to be legal and for me to drop this whole Immigration process, Immigration told me I will have to go divorce my husband in Nigeria. I want to know will that be a difficult process for me? And will I need an Invitation letter from my own husband to go to Nigeria again? I have my marriage certificate.

You can send a copy of your marriage certificate and wrote your own letter if you choose. An invitation letter is not required to obtain a Nigerian Visa.

I would though investigate fully how to go about a divorce over there before you go over there and get overwhelmed.

Sorry to hear this. I feel your pain. Truly I do.

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12/28/2019: 18 month Extension has expired
1/9/2020: InfoPass Appt to get stamp in Passport
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7/8/2020: Oath Ceremony (Houston)

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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You are married world wide , USCIS people barely get immigration law correct don't ask them family / divorce law. Check the rules in your state for annulments and divorce

This will not be over quickly. You will not enjoy this.

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Hello Everyone,

I married my husband in Nigeria. Come to find out he's a dirt-bag. He's cheating and got already got a woman pregnant. I have not petitioned my

IR-1/CR-1 yet and I no longer plan to. But in order for my divorce to be legal and for me to drop this whole Immigration process, Immigration told me I will have to go divorce my husband in Nigeria. Please tell me; Will that be a difficult process for me? Please give me your input.

Also, will I need an Invitation letter from my own husband to go to Nigeria again? I have my marriage certificate.

Please stop opening up new threads on the same subject. Give people a chance to read one and answering. Thank you.

And you can divorce in your own state if that is what you want to do.

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From now on your VJ Member name will be verified. If the name you put on form to be added to spreadsheet comes up not found, you will not be added to the spreadsheet. If you don't have a timeline you will not be added to the spreadsheet.

Please Please put your VJ member name only. Not nicknames or real names whatever your VJ name is. It's below your profile picture!!

 

Come join the current Interview thread: 

DQ-to-Interview-2023-all-countries

Case Complete to Interview Spreadsheet
Case Complete to Interview Form

 

 

 

ROC I-751
5/21/2018: Filed i751 ROC
6/12/2018: NOA1 Date
3/5/2019: Biometrics Appt
12/28/2019: 18 month Extension has expired
1/9/2020: InfoPass Appt to get stamp in Passport
2/27/2020: Combo Interview (ROC and Citizenship)
3/31/2020: submitted service request for being pass normal processing time
4/7/2020: Card being produced
4/8/2020: Approved
4/10/2020: Card mailed
4/15/2020: 10 year green card received
 
 
N-400
5/21/2019: Filed Online
5/21/2019: NOA1 Date
6/13/2019: Biometrics Appt
2/27/2020: Citizenship Interview
4/7/2020: In queue for Oath Ceremony to be scheduled
6/19/2020: Notice Oath Ceremony scheduled
7/8/2020: Oath Ceremony (Houston)

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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Hello Everyone,

I married my husband in Nigeria. Come to find out he's a dirt-bag. He's cheating and got already got a woman pregnant. I have not petitioned my

IR-1/CR-1 yet and I no longer plan to. But in order for my divorce to be legal and for me to drop this whole Immigration process, Immigration told me I will have to go divorce my husband in Nigeria. Please tell me; Will that be a difficult process for me? Please give me your input.

Also, will I need an Invitation letter from my own husband to go to Nigeria again? I have my marriage certificate.

You do not have to go to Nigeria to divorce, you simply file in your state.

What do you mean by "to drop the whole immigration process".....what process ? You wrote you did not file.

Immigration told you wrong.

He can pursue his own divorce in his country and you are not obliged to help him get it.

Just do your own filing and be done with it.

Simple, legal and no drama.

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dwheels76   5,462

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what do you mean wont end quickly

That is her saying she has in her signature. Not personally addressed to you.

Case Complete to Interview spreadsheet

From now on your VJ Member name will be verified. If the name you put on form to be added to spreadsheet comes up not found, you will not be added to the spreadsheet. If you don't have a timeline you will not be added to the spreadsheet.

Please Please put your VJ member name only. Not nicknames or real names whatever your VJ name is. It's below your profile picture!!

 

Come join the current Interview thread: 

DQ-to-Interview-2023-all-countries

Case Complete to Interview Spreadsheet
Case Complete to Interview Form

 

 

 

ROC I-751
5/21/2018: Filed i751 ROC
6/12/2018: NOA1 Date
3/5/2019: Biometrics Appt
12/28/2019: 18 month Extension has expired
1/9/2020: InfoPass Appt to get stamp in Passport
2/27/2020: Combo Interview (ROC and Citizenship)
3/31/2020: submitted service request for being pass normal processing time
4/7/2020: Card being produced
4/8/2020: Approved
4/10/2020: Card mailed
4/15/2020: 10 year green card received
 
 
N-400
5/21/2019: Filed Online
5/21/2019: NOA1 Date
6/13/2019: Biometrics Appt
2/27/2020: Citizenship Interview
4/7/2020: In queue for Oath Ceremony to be scheduled
6/19/2020: Notice Oath Ceremony scheduled
7/8/2020: Oath Ceremony (Houston)

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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