Medical Exam- Harmful Behaviour?

[Kat Katten 0]

I don't know whether or not this is a common question from those applying for a Green Card but I hope someone can answer my question (preferably from experience) be it first or second hand.

 

I have seem that "Harmful Behavior" (also categorized along side of "self-harm") can deem you inadmissible. I have a lot of very obvious self-harm scars on my arms. It's also very obvious that they are decades old, though. My lawyer has advised me to not disclose this unless they are noticed and I am asked about it.  I otherwise, I appear perfectly normal and sane (lol). It was a mistake I made very young and unfortunately it's evidence is carried with me. I have no present mental health issues and I do not wish to disclose any past mental health issues during the exam.

 

So what typically happens during this Medical Exam? Will I be required to wear a gown or will I just be able to wear long sleeves to cover my arms? If the scars are noticed would it be inappropriate for me to request that it not be documented in the exam?

 

Advice?

[zilchfox 296]

They're gonna need at least one of your arms for blood work, otherwise for me it was a very typical check-up, X-ray, and bloodwork. They're mostly concerned about your current health status, that your shots are up-to-date, and stuff. I wouldn't bother saying anything about the scars, and if they don't ask, then great.

Edited April 26, 2017 by zilchfox

[Transborderwife 4,666]

Don't ask don't tell.  The doctor may ask. It's best to get a recent doctors note saying that you're not a danger to yourself or others just in case.  But do not lie

Edited April 26, 2017 by Transborderwife

[geowrian 22,336]

You won't be able to hide the marks as they will very likely see them during the ordinary course of the medical. You don't have to tell them about the scars, but they may ask you about them. Be truthful. They may also ask you about them if you have something related to them documented in your history.

 

If they do believe you are potentially engaging in harmful behavior (or at risk to do so), they may refer you to a psychologist to do an evaluation.

 

You can ask that they not document something, but they are under no obligation to follow it either.

[Kat Katten 0]

Thank you everyone for your replies. I really appreciate the help.

 

I'm nervous that they may notice the scars, not mention it to me, and then document it and place me as inadmissible. Perhaps that is just a bit of anxiety. I will definitely get a note a psychiatrist to help ease that. Is the consensus here that I shouldn't disclose it unless I am asked, any way? I don't want to seem like I'm hiding anything either. I would be devastated if I lost this amazing relationship because of something I did as a child coming back to kick me in the butt.