mike42979

Past a certain age for a guy and your just a perv lol i dont care how offended one might be by this statement, the other way around on the womans side i would say most the time they are looking for a way out of a poor country.

What you havnt done is act on anything you talked about, actions speak louder than words. 2.6 years its time he gets creative and start making his own work, my parents are vendors at art festivals selling everything from snow cones to funnel cakes, not hard to set up and theres always a festival somewhere anyways just an idea message me if you want more info on how you can get started.

well my filipina isnt coming from the Philippines.

Im curious to find out every ones plans for their significant others are on the first day of arrival in the U.S minus the obvious bed time lol

I would say you need to get copies from the courts of the judgements reached in each case.

Please use correct terms (Fiance = boy) (Fiancee = girl) but if it was sent back to USCIS it sounds like your case is dead in the water and you should start thinking about getting married and refiling for a CR-1. Unless your in AP?

It would not hurt for him to get his residency and British passport as this will be beneficial to you and him, Dual citizenship!

Well not the ring size your talking about but this is Kristines ring

But the CO did ask if he had a GF and he answered no which regardless if not allowed to have GF in his culture i bet he still did things a BF and GF would do!

Keep in mind mentioning your pregnant will mean you have to provide supporting documents for a family of 3, if you can do this then i see no harm in mentioning it.

Wow im shocked at all the replies lol, i knew this would be a charged debate!

Hmmm after he got ridiculed for his last post it seems VJ ran him off lol i just hope that poor girl is ok!

Thanks a lot for your help— I think I have the lay of the land now.

The frustrating thing is that this whole process— all the paperwork, fees, anxiety, etc— is pretty much all just about creating a way for my increasingly-aged parents to see their grandchild without flying to Europe, to have Xmas together at their home, etc. It continually amazes me that there isn't a more sane way to accommodate this. But, then, we pretty much forfeited sanity as an option once my wife wound up with a prior overstay on her record.

Im confused, if you got a green card doesnt this mean that the overstay was forgiven? You cant overstay a greencard?

Have him print a copy of his (LES) thia will detail all his earnings.

This thread got hijacked by Trulyinlove and nearly confused me, if you have a question start your own thread so the OP can get the answer they need as well.

I hate reading about couples who meet on filipanheart.com or whatever it is and then you see 40 or 50 yo men with little girls for fiancees. Its like buying a sex slave imo cause most filipina with these old men are trying to escape a bad place or hoping for a better life on the other side which isnt always the case. As for me i met my fiancee on a business trip to the cayman islands and i flew there 7 times over a 1 in a half yer period, I got to know her as a person not just chatting online but actually in person. I wasnt looking for a filipina or anyone for that matter it just so happened thats what she was when i met her, anyways look theres better ways to meet people than on a website thousands of miles away. If you want to find a filipina i say try the cayman islands first, its like little Philippines and youll find filipinas in about every store in Georgetown and atleast its a hell of a lot less expensive to fly visit and get to know them first.

Nattychic,

This is the envelope that they give at US Embassy in Manila, I'm sure yours will be similar. Don't open at any dare or you may be turned back at POE for opened envelope. Listen to your instructions not what is here say......best of luck!

Bob

Im confused, ours looks like that but without the plastic bag over it does this mean someone opened our packet 3 before we received it?

Request the appointment letter be sent VIA email to you, thats what we did with the Jamaica embassy, we never ever received packet 3 EVER!!!!

I disagree My fiancee was in AP for 3 weeks and all they needed was her passport.

My husband got approved to move to the USA in May.

I found a condom underneath my couch pillows with feces on it blood and fresh semen inside of it.

Condom + Blood = gay? What about Condom + Blood = Woman on period?

Get your parents to co sponsor

I agree, being 1099 wont look favorable especially with your parents giving you the employment letter, just have them cosponsor and be done with it.

Ok great ill look into this further!

OK.. first.. you have never been married in the CATHOLIC church.. so no worries there.. Civil Divorce does not matter..

HOWEVER>.

you were baptised.. CHECK 1!! what about first communion and confirmation?? that is check 2 & 3!?

you need all 3 sacraments before you can be married in the catholic church..

if yes to all three.. GO FOR IT

my better half is divorced Civily BUT she needs ANULLMENT from the Church that her FIRST marriage was not in Good Faith *he was a drunk*..

So we can get Married Civil no problem.. BUT Church wedding would have to wait until she gets it taken care of..

*you petition to annul at your parish.. BUT if they Deny you.. then you, appeal to the VATICAN!! that is not cheap!! like $1000!!

SOOOOOO.. do you have all three sacraments?!

if not.. then you can Enroll at a Catholic Church for RCIA *adult religious class*.. they normally start in August.. BUT i called around and a church let me in Jan... and i was Confirmed that Easter.. i already had the Other two..

ps.. the RCIA classes are for people coming to the CHURCH, Converting.. or Missing their Sacarments..

Yeah i know i still have to do 2 and 3 but not gonna do it unless its possible for me to marry her in the church, so my next question is why do i have to have my civil union annulled by the church if my civil union isn't recognized by the church?

Ok so i am baptised catholic and my Fiancee is catholic, i was previously married and divorced Civily only and from what i have read the church doesnt recognize this as a marriage? my question is if i can still marry in the catholic church as my new future wife wants to do this and bear in mind we will also have a Civil ceremony first and later would like to do the Church ceremony in the Philippines.

Grrr im even more confused than before!