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    pookaphilus got a reaction from marklovetina in NBI   
    I also agree...just get a new one to be safe..as far as I know it's only good for 6 months..God bless..
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    pookaphilus got a reaction from tommy_melissa in Second K-1 Visa   
    oh..did I miss something??..we were just trying to explain things and give you some thoughts to ponder..if you ever felt that we might not be helping you, we shouldn't have waste our time responding.. ohh btw, here's more since you said that we "should" pay attention...hmmm..I'll take risk to what I perceived that has happened..I'm not psychic but it's somehow possible...here's the scenario..you mentioned on your past post that you even gave her your consent to marry the man(as far as I can remember)..wow, are you that important to her??...hmm, it made me think, you know, the same thing scam girls do, marry their petitioner then find a way to divorce them, applied for her GC and get marry again with the person they really love..simple as using another person just to get what she wants..made me think that the original petitioner was able to find out regarding her intentions or maybe caught her...sorry to say this but it really make us wonder how come she will still keep your address/phone #..and oh btw, she's so lucky coz the man whom she will get marry also lives closer to where you live at least it was easy for you to get to the airport when she called..& you're having a great time dating now..btw, does she have a round trip ticket or you will be the one paying for her ticket back..if you really do care for her, you could have just tell her to go back to Phil as soon as she can..then she can notify the embassy regarding what her petitioner did to her(if she was telling the truth)..then maybe, you can start having a new relationship together..you can't use as evidence of meeting the times when you are together now since the USCIS knew that she should be there spending that time with the petitioner and get married...it's not too late if you want to start a "genuine relationship"..after maybe a few months,then after you can visit her in Phil, you can file for I-129F..by that time, the embassy will not see any fraud and you may be able to use your old emails, chatlogs..which shows that you met for quite long already then didn't work, then you get acquainted again..there's been alot of cases like this before & they were able to get approval again...
    we're not here to judge..we all have been through with the same difficulties of these visa petitions..we are here to share & learn from others...it's really sad to know that people doesn't care at all whether they step into or hurt other people just to get what they want(KARMA knocks sometimes..better watch out..)..as to the OP, you seem to know the answers to your questions..why won't you just stop asking then..we really hope & pray you find solution to your problems..we are here to help and we are sorry if we ever made you feel bad..God bless you!!..
    P.S. - to the admin..when it comes to respect, I have respect for everyone as I do for myself..I don't have any intentions to insult the OP with regards to the statements I wrote above..I was just explaining because he tends to question each member's attentiveness regarding his post..hoping for your understanding..Thank you. -Maria
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    pookaphilus got a reaction from TBoneTX in Second K-1 Visa   
    oh..did I miss something??..we were just trying to explain things and give you some thoughts to ponder..if you ever felt that we might not be helping you, we shouldn't have waste our time responding.. ohh btw, here's more since you said that we "should" pay attention...hmmm..I'll take risk to what I perceived that has happened..I'm not psychic but it's somehow possible...here's the scenario..you mentioned on your past post that you even gave her your consent to marry the man(as far as I can remember)..wow, are you that important to her??...hmm, it made me think, you know, the same thing scam girls do, marry their petitioner then find a way to divorce them, applied for her GC and get marry again with the person they really love..simple as using another person just to get what she wants..made me think that the original petitioner was able to find out regarding her intentions or maybe caught her...sorry to say this but it really make us wonder how come she will still keep your address/phone #..and oh btw, she's so lucky coz the man whom she will get marry also lives closer to where you live at least it was easy for you to get to the airport when she called..& you're having a great time dating now..btw, does she have a round trip ticket or you will be the one paying for her ticket back..if you really do care for her, you could have just tell her to go back to Phil as soon as she can..then she can notify the embassy regarding what her petitioner did to her(if she was telling the truth)..then maybe, you can start having a new relationship together..you can't use as evidence of meeting the times when you are together now since the USCIS knew that she should be there spending that time with the petitioner and get married...it's not too late if you want to start a "genuine relationship"..after maybe a few months,then after you can visit her in Phil, you can file for I-129F..by that time, the embassy will not see any fraud and you may be able to use your old emails, chatlogs..which shows that you met for quite long already then didn't work, then you get acquainted again..there's been alot of cases like this before & they were able to get approval again...
    we're not here to judge..we all have been through with the same difficulties of these visa petitions..we are here to share & learn from others...it's really sad to know that people doesn't care at all whether they step into or hurt other people just to get what they want(KARMA knocks sometimes..better watch out..)..as to the OP, you seem to know the answers to your questions..why won't you just stop asking then..we really hope & pray you find solution to your problems..we are here to help and we are sorry if we ever made you feel bad..God bless you!!..
    P.S. - to the admin..when it comes to respect, I have respect for everyone as I do for myself..I don't have any intentions to insult the OP with regards to the statements I wrote above..I was just explaining because he tends to question each member's attentiveness regarding his post..hoping for your understanding..Thank you. -Maria
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    pookaphilus got a reaction from SuperDuper! in Second K-1 Visa   
    :thumbs: ...for sure he will..I've read about his past topic regarding his question if he would be qualified for filing a fiance visa even if his ex-wife has a restraining order on him from 10 years ago when he pleaded guilty to a charge of aggravated assault...I hope he was able to find answer for that problem...so far, it really makes me wonder about the whole scenario..I would agree to James & Cynthia's post..It's sad to know that she used the other guy and you knowing that one and still wanna pursue her, is gonna be another "sad story" in the making...we are sad to hear stories like those & people here in VJ just don't want you to be another victim or another OP of a new "sad story"...God bless!!
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    pookaphilus got a reaction from Mariye & Ky in Second K-1 Visa   
    oh..did I miss something??..we were just trying to explain things and give you some thoughts to ponder..if you ever felt that we might not be helping you, we shouldn't have waste our time responding.. ohh btw, here's more since you said that we "should" pay attention...hmmm..I'll take risk to what I perceived that has happened..I'm not psychic but it's somehow possible...here's the scenario..you mentioned on your past post that you even gave her your consent to marry the man(as far as I can remember)..wow, are you that important to her??...hmm, it made me think, you know, the same thing scam girls do, marry their petitioner then find a way to divorce them, applied for her GC and get marry again with the person they really love..simple as using another person just to get what she wants..made me think that the original petitioner was able to find out regarding her intentions or maybe caught her...sorry to say this but it really make us wonder how come she will still keep your address/phone #..and oh btw, she's so lucky coz the man whom she will get marry also lives closer to where you live at least it was easy for you to get to the airport when she called..& you're having a great time dating now..btw, does she have a round trip ticket or you will be the one paying for her ticket back..if you really do care for her, you could have just tell her to go back to Phil as soon as she can..then she can notify the embassy regarding what her petitioner did to her(if she was telling the truth)..then maybe, you can start having a new relationship together..you can't use as evidence of meeting the times when you are together now since the USCIS knew that she should be there spending that time with the petitioner and get married...it's not too late if you want to start a "genuine relationship"..after maybe a few months,then after you can visit her in Phil, you can file for I-129F..by that time, the embassy will not see any fraud and you may be able to use your old emails, chatlogs..which shows that you met for quite long already then didn't work, then you get acquainted again..there's been alot of cases like this before & they were able to get approval again...
    we're not here to judge..we all have been through with the same difficulties of these visa petitions..we are here to share & learn from others...it's really sad to know that people doesn't care at all whether they step into or hurt other people just to get what they want(KARMA knocks sometimes..better watch out..)..as to the OP, you seem to know the answers to your questions..why won't you just stop asking then..we really hope & pray you find solution to your problems..we are here to help and we are sorry if we ever made you feel bad..God bless you!!..
    P.S. - to the admin..when it comes to respect, I have respect for everyone as I do for myself..I don't have any intentions to insult the OP with regards to the statements I wrote above..I was just explaining because he tends to question each member's attentiveness regarding his post..hoping for your understanding..Thank you. -Maria
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    pookaphilus got a reaction from TBoneTX in Second K-1 Visa   
    :thumbs: ...for sure he will..I've read about his past topic regarding his question if he would be qualified for filing a fiance visa even if his ex-wife has a restraining order on him from 10 years ago when he pleaded guilty to a charge of aggravated assault...I hope he was able to find answer for that problem...so far, it really makes me wonder about the whole scenario..I would agree to James & Cynthia's post..It's sad to know that she used the other guy and you knowing that one and still wanna pursue her, is gonna be another "sad story" in the making...we are sad to hear stories like those & people here in VJ just don't want you to be another victim or another OP of a new "sad story"...God bless!!
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    pookaphilus got a reaction from Nigel&Meggie in Second K-1 Visa   
    :thumbs: ...for sure he will..I've read about his past topic regarding his question if he would be qualified for filing a fiance visa even if his ex-wife has a restraining order on him from 10 years ago when he pleaded guilty to a charge of aggravated assault...I hope he was able to find answer for that problem...so far, it really makes me wonder about the whole scenario..I would agree to James & Cynthia's post..It's sad to know that she used the other guy and you knowing that one and still wanna pursue her, is gonna be another "sad story" in the making...we are sad to hear stories like those & people here in VJ just don't want you to be another victim or another OP of a new "sad story"...God bless!!
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    pookaphilus got a reaction from Filipina35 in AOS IS ABSOLUTE TORTURE   
    :thumbs: ...worth the wait!!!...I'm back into painting again(was a teacher in the Philippines)!!..it really helps me..I'm very thankful that my husband works here @ home so I'm not really sad or bored at all..try to find and start some hobby..cross-stitching or crochet maybe..or you can do volunteer jobs near your area..have a good day..God bless!!
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    pookaphilus got a reaction from liz0215 in Heartbroken and deceived---need help/advice   
    @ Admin..hehehe..kindly erase my post above..typo error..lol..thanks..
    wow.. ...wow..you've almost make the most of what you can do just to make sure she feels @ home...lucky her...as for some of us here, we don't have any TFC/GMA's..nor we go out always...but still, we are happy with our lives here in US..my husband doesn't earn much but he is striving to provide our needs everyday...there are times that I am sad and misses my family back home(it's pretty normal I guess)....but after all, to think and be contented and be happy with your new life with the person you love the most is far more important than anything(if it's true love!!)..and specially if you both have/share the same goal(to start your own family and love each other unconditionally) and you respect each other...misunderstandings are pretty normal....but before the day ends, you would really smile and look back to where you both have started/gone through and the LOVE you have for each other...
    your wife my have her own goals and some of her wants weren't met..even if how hard you try to make everything work, if she is not happy, she will never be happy about it..and maybe you were one of the props in one of her goals(sorry to say that.. )..sometimes,it's really about "contentment"..and "communication" really plays a very important role to any relationship...and I would also agree to what other fellow members here have said..once a cheater will always be a cheater...giving chances are always there..but knowing that you will still end up into bad terms after every chances you will give is really a "stupid" thing to do...she asked to go home, then let her wish be granted...it's not punishing her but it's the "right" thing to do..
    They said, "it's ok to love someone with all your heart...but always leave something for yourself"...God has plans..you just don't know...just have faith coz you will find and be with the right person for you who deserves your utmost LOVE & RESPECT....God bless us all..
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    pookaphilus got a reaction from fil01 in Heartbroken and deceived---need help/advice   
    ...I also agree..a relationship without trust will never go forward...trust is one of the most important ingredients of living happily together..dishonesty is a form of disrespect..report her to the USCIS and try to stop her AOS..and make sure you kept copies of those chatlogs..that's a good evidence..if she will threaten you, report her..sorry to hear about what happened..so sad to know that as well...just have faith..God will provide..
    btw, I understand Bisaya/Cebuano..I was born in Davao..God bless..
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    pookaphilus got a reaction from jamster in Heartbroken and deceived---need help/advice   
    ...I also agree..a relationship without trust will never go forward...trust is one of the most important ingredients of living happily together..dishonesty is a form of disrespect..report her to the USCIS and try to stop her AOS..and make sure you kept copies of those chatlogs..that's a good evidence..if she will threaten you, report her..sorry to hear about what happened..so sad to know that as well...just have faith..God will provide..
    btw, I understand Bisaya/Cebuano..I was born in Davao..God bless..
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    pookaphilus got a reaction from Tahoma in Heartbroken and deceived---need help/advice   
    ...I also agree..a relationship without trust will never go forward...trust is one of the most important ingredients of living happily together..dishonesty is a form of disrespect..report her to the USCIS and try to stop her AOS..and make sure you kept copies of those chatlogs..that's a good evidence..if she will threaten you, report her..sorry to hear about what happened..so sad to know that as well...just have faith..God will provide..
    btw, I understand Bisaya/Cebuano..I was born in Davao..God bless..
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