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dillon.. philly, PLEASE pray for me.. dis ex of mine.. he is OFF THE CHAIN!!!

why did he just tell me theres no way i should need all of that money for child support, and i am STEALING his money to take care of my house wife of a husband..

i had to cuss his rass out, but now im scared he will retaliate and not bring my youngest to church on sunday.. she is in the xmas play and he will have them beginning Friday.. (smdh).. had i remembered that he had them on winter break, i would have told her she could not participate.. spare her the hurt when he refuses to bring her..

i pray im wrong..

Q He done lost his Damn mind! Mek mi guh wuk some Juju pon him! His jealousy has gone too far these are his children for God's sake!!!! Document everything Q he is not even being rational at this point! This is for the kids that is what's important and so he wants to let them suffer cause his pride is hurt and he can't keeps his emotions in check! He should be ashamed of himself

IRRATIONAL is RIGHT.. this is why i tried and tried to explain his behavior to that judge and why i did not want to share custody.. guess he thought i was just another complaining baby mama.. no sah.. dis run deep

that alright...what he reap he will sow..

he gonna tell me he will talk to me AND roger at my daugh's basketball game thursday??? Roger don't have nothing to do w/ this, but keep playing, and imma let him bumbaclaat yo rass like Dillon hubby did her ex LOL!!!!!!!!!!!!!

For those who haven't heard through VJ gossip...we are expecting a baby due next summer

I'm pissed because Mr. HealthNut is eating everything in sight. I ran into him twice in the streets last week buying junk food...cakes, cookies, candy bars...It's his choice because he work out everyday but why hide?

I had to see a dietician last week said I was told I can eat peanut butter and mayo. Damien he said they are too fattening and unheathly...blah blah blah. I got them anyway.

Well I just decided to make a snack...celery with peanut butter...why is the entire jar almost gone??? Looked at the mayo jar...almost gone. WTH?

Sometimes I think the men eat more when the woman is pregnant than the pregnant woman. Congrats again...bet you are going to look really cute with a big belly.

It's scary....I've never seen him eat so much. Maybe I should hide my snacks

shemmy you can SECRETLY hope he gains bout 5 lbs from all dis i would

For those who haven't heard through VJ gossip...we are expecting a baby due next summer

I'm pissed because Mr. HealthNut is eating everything in sight. I ran into him twice in the streets last week buying junk food...cakes, cookies, candy bars...It's his choice because he work out everyday but why hide?

I had to see a dietician last week said I was told I can eat peanut butter and mayo. Damien he said they are too fattening and unheathly...blah blah blah. I got them anyway.

Well I just decided to make a snack...celery with peanut butter...why is the entire jar almost gone??? Looked at the mayo jar...almost gone. WTH?

Sometimes I think the men eat more when the woman is pregnant than the pregnant woman. Congrats again...bet you are going to look really cute with a big belly.

It's scary....I've never seen him eat so much. Maybe I should hide my snacks

LOL.. mi cyann believe damien act so???? i gotta pull his healthnut card, guess roger is crazy all by himself now LOL

dillon.. philly, PLEASE pray for me.. dis ex of mine.. he is OFF THE CHAIN!!!

why did he just tell me theres no way i should need all of that money for child support, and i am STEALING his money to take care of my house wife of a husband..

i had to cuss his rass out, but now im scared he will retaliate and not bring my youngest to church on sunday.. she is in the xmas play and he will have them beginning Friday.. (smdh).. had i remembered that he had them on winter break, i would have told her she could not participate.. spare her the hurt when he refuses to bring her..

i pray im wrong..

Wow....I hope he is not that petty.

baby yes.. a friend of mine had a pretty princess party.. she had a party coordinator make custom princess attire for the kids.. knew about it a mnth in advance.. my girls didn't get to go, cuz their daddy said they didn't need to be around my friends

YEEESSSS dills,

sometimes i wish he was one of those dad's that never came around.. but i know thats selfish of me..

For those who haven't heard through VJ gossip...we are expecting a baby due next summer

I'm pissed because Mr. HealthNut is eating everything in sight. I ran into him twice in the streets last week buying junk food...cakes, cookies, candy bars...It's his choice because he work out everyday but why hide?

I had to see a dietician last week said I was told I can eat peanut butter and mayo. Damien he said they are too fattening and unheathly...blah blah blah. I got them anyway.

Well I just decided to make a snack...celery with peanut butter...why is the entire jar almost gone??? Looked at the mayo jar...almost gone. WTH?

maybe it was one of those likkle jars shems??? maybe???

dillon.. philly, PLEASE pray for me.. dis ex of mine.. he is OFF THE CHAIN!!!

why did he just tell me theres no way i should need all of that money for child support, and i am STEALING his money to take care of my house wife of a husband..

i had to cuss his rass out, but now im scared he will retaliate and not bring my youngest to church on sunday.. she is in the xmas play and he will have them beginning Friday.. (smdh).. had i remembered that he had them on winter break, i would have told her she could not participate.. spare her the hurt when he refuses to bring her..

i pray im wrong..

its at an immigration ofc nat.. usually the application centers.. they will give you the address in your notice

irie.. i love love love the one she has w/ beyonce "telephone".. mann i can so relate to that..

i hate a busta tryna mess up my vibe while im having dance therapy.. CHO!!!

thats good you got it dara.. i had never heard of that either, sounds cool..

girl i don't know WHAT im getting the girls.. they only get 1-2 gifts becuz the gifts now cost 200 and up so they already know it ain't raining presents round here..

my oldest def wants lady gaga cd so i can pull that, i will see what else, maybe the nintendo dsi

my youngest hasn't said nothing buot nothing so we'll see..

dara, did you take them to see the princess and the frog yet?? im going tonight.. mi cyaan wait fi see di likkle brown princess!!!

Everything is sooooo expensive I have no idea what my youngest is going to ask for

I could hook you up with Lady Gaga Monster Fame edition but I doubt you want to give her a bootleg although my son doesn't care he just wants the latest music LOL.

I want to see this movie soooo bad I have to get there this weekend it did really well at the box office that is fabulous!

i don't mind bootleg

she is a gaga maniac, she won't care either

I just looked it up it is like $179.00!!!! Why do toy companies do that to parents!!!! I'm made for you Dada.

$179???? is she gonna DO NAILS Professionally and make some of that money back??? I am a nail tech and my equipment doesn't cost THAT much!!!! that's crazy.....

Yes it is. My one friend just asked me did I get al the accessories to go with it. I told her whatever isn’t in this box oh well...

you know i said the same thing da, i saw an extended preview on disney and i was like WTH????????????

this look like she turn into a frog at the beginning of the dang movie!

thats good you got it dara.. i had never heard of that either, sounds cool..

girl i don't know WHAT im getting the girls.. they only get 1-2 gifts becuz the gifts now cost 200 and up so they already know it ain't raining presents round here..

my oldest def wants lady gaga cd so i can pull that, i will see what else, maybe the nintendo dsi

my youngest hasn't said nothing buot nothing so we'll see..

dara, did you take them to see the princess and the frog yet?? im going tonight.. mi cyaan wait fi see di likkle brown princess!!!

Well I love Christmas music and songs! My favorite of all time is "Silent Night" by The Temptations...I know its kinda wrong, but I love to slow drag off that song. Another fav is "Let it Snow" by Boyz to Men! Those two songs always have me in the spirit and snapping my fingers, air singing with a pretend mic in my hand!

I'm with you Dens I like to Slow dance to certain Xmas songs too and then lay down by the presents ....LOL

everybody gotta do that at least once!!!

thats true for ssa to get the info from dhs nat, but what she means here is that AFTER you apply for the ssn, it takes 2 weeks for everyone else in the world to have verification that number is valid in THEIR system..

we had filed for walmart card few days ago and they could not verify his ssn.. just applied for a best buy card tho and its THERE!!!!!!!!!!!! yayyy he was denied tho, not enough credit history LOL

Dag Quana what a good way to take us up and then back down again…lol

how ya think i felt??? LOL

Boom bye bye Buju....................

http://www.dancehall.mobi/buju-banton-comp...t-affidavit.pdf

Lawd why would he allow himself to get involved in this, the consequences and ramifications of this is mindblowing SMH.

SAME thing i was thinking! i just called to tell roger, all he could say was DAMN

buju.. come on???

congrats heavensent!

glad you got hubbys ticket irie, WOW he will have so much fun.. i can't wait till roger gets a chance to go back a yaad!

Dang, that I-94 replacement fee is $320!!! Highway robbery.

Someone told me it takes 2 weeks to get fully into everyone's system. They have to upload that stuff. Forget who said that? The bank maybe.

I heard that on this site. So we waited 2 weeks to apply for the SSN.

Someone told me it takes 2 weeks to get fully into everyone's system. They have to upload that stuff. Forget who said that? The bank maybe.

Is there anything you can get before AOS like a bank account?

Yup! Bank account, SS card, driver's license (in some states, not Texas). Friday I applied to add Steven to my lease. I noticed when the lady made copies of his passport, she only copied the ID page and the visa. I'm glad she didn't copy the I-94 page as that expires this week; hopefully they'll use the visa page instead. I should find out today or tomorrow if they approve his application.

thats true for ssa to get the info from dhs nat, but what she means here is that AFTER you apply for the ssn, it takes 2 weeks for everyone else in the world to have verification that number is valid in THEIR system..

we had filed for walmart card few days ago and they could not verify his ssn.. just applied for a best buy card tho and its THERE!!!!!!!!!!!! yayyy he was denied tho, not enough credit history LOL

Mstee I think that is the most wonderful beginning on your journey to be married on UMOJA!

Umoja (Unity)

To strive for and maintain unity in the family, community, nation and race.

mstee you should have this symbol on EVERYTHING..if you can..like invitations, table decorations anything and everything...that is if you can. would make a nice matching tattoo for the both of you too!

Well I love Christmas music and songs! My favorite of all time is "Silent Night" by The Temptations...I know its kinda wrong, but I love to slow drag off that song. Another fav is "Let it Snow" by Boyz to Men! Those two songs always have me in the spirit and snapping my fingers, air singing with a pretend mic in my hand!

I would love to see that.

LOL, I'm doing it right now in my office singing "This Christmas"!!! I got the steps down as well...I need to take this show on the road...who's down????

the fireside is blazing briiiggghhhttt.. WE'RE CAROLING through the NIIGGGHTTT !!!

jq.. stay up ma.. ur granny leaves behind a great legacy i am sure...

my granny was OUR ROCK..she was in the a respiratory rehab, one min we were talking to her and the next she was gone.. i thought she was sleep, after a min my mom said "she not breathing" i said.. YES SHE IS.. and i went and touched her and...i say to myself if we had been expecting it maybe it would be easier, but prolly not..

that was bout 4 years ago. its hard just cuz like another yardie said, she was the reason my family stuck together.. its hard now, but we are trying..

Philly - I was teaching the GS last year about Kwanzaa... I made a couple really nice Kenorahs. I wonder if I have pictures to show you.. you would be proud. I even have some Kwanzaa crafts. A wreath made out of hand cutouts and a woven mat... we made them with construction paper.

I love the whole idea of Kwanzaa and what it celebrates.

So anyone into the Christmas music this year? I haven't gotten into it yet.

Tierra and I listen to the all Christmas radio stations and sing along!

My daughter was mad at me because I was doing karoke on comcast and made her sing along with me. The only one she sang was the twelve days of xmas lol

hmmm.. im not really into christmas songs. perhaps i should try to get something going tho.. i want my kids to have good memories..

my granny used to play the blues ones all morning.. "merry christmas baby.... you sure look good to me" or something like that LOL

mstee, good luck on finding another place.. those spots make a KILLING, i need to get me a room and rent it out.. my sister had hers at a hall that was kind of dumpy to be honest, but at $1900 its the cheapest she could find that would also allow her to have liquor and stay there till 3 am (we be partying i tell ya!!!)

the decorator REALLY made it look like something tho.. the table settings and backdrop was BEAUTIFUL

dw, keep dropping knowledge for us girl, it WAS requested right???.. and you warned it was graphic.. ppl could have stopped reading LOL

i kinda pinched mi legs together after reading but im good now LOL

philly, same w/ roger.. it said it couldn't verify his ssn on the jcpenney website, i think maybe he's not FULLY in everybody's system yet??? i work for SSA and i have NO idea

yeah finesse thats why i picked those stores, we shop there of course and i know anything he buys we will be able to pay it RIGHT off..

dw.. i don't believe in credit cards either, only had one ever in my life... its kind of a means to an end to establish credit history for a car and then a house, my divorce broke me (hopefully can sell the house tho) and i need missa to have a sparkling score LMAO!

good morning massive.. im in and out..

roger got his dl, opened a bank accnt, and got his ss card changed over to perm res so i guess he's official..

next get a walmart/jcpenny card for credit (any other ideas???)/ get a job/ get a car.. whew Praise God for victorious small steps

the ex hubby supposed to have the kids for christmas and gonna email me that i need to send them some money.. EHHNNN??? ya tink ca ya pay child support mi affi send allowance whenever dem cum round ya??? CHA

this is bout to turn into a war of words..or maybe not, cuz this is the season to be jolly LOL

everyone be blessed!

what a wonderful surprise lady c!! thats LOVE!!

Philly, I almost forgot to tell you...THANK YOU for the Rihanna DL....I've been enjoying it for a few days now!

Cool I'm glad you like it, I have Alicia Keys but the file is all jacked so soon come. I love the CD it really is good!

Philly, your story about your son & husband bonding over the Wii is precious. Hope the bonding continues.

I'm finding that I need at least 3 certified copies of my marriage certificate: one for AOS, one for JA Citizenship, and one for getting my passport updated. Plus I like having an extra for the occasions I need to show it, such as at the SSA & DMV. Had I known, I'd have gotten more copies the first time.

thanks Nat, we all love video games. I am a Mario freak and I thought I was good but they tear me up in Mario carts LOL. Yes I hope the bonding continues too! I have Rock band as well but its for the PS3 which conveniently disapeared I won't go there I'm gonna sell it since PS3 and wii are not cross-platform compatible

So you are going for dual Citizenship?

Philly

What up with my DL I need that new SNOOP DOG Muy hubby sings the part

:she wake me up in the middle of the night: since ima dog I give her what she like: his little head be bopping and eveything thats the only part he know

Haaa yeah I can get that one and Gucci Man if you want it.

that was MEEEEE jam q, LOL. then try fi lie and say he didn't mean for it to come to me..

then why when it came on in the car, he gonna tell my kids, that he dedicates that to me.. 100% FOOL!!

i don't know bout the cable jam q.. its been a year now, and i don't know how to decide what the kids can and can't watch which most of the time mean they watch everything..

roger didn't like that my 12 yr old was singing "smash the homeys" (rolls eyes)

Q I heard my youngest son on the phone with a girl saying" You can call me Flintstone I can make your BedRock " Girl WTH I thought that was the corniest line ever, then he told me it was a song but still hot mess, this is what our children are listening too!

omg philly.. me and my girls crack up at that song.. my youngest told me "mama.. he is stupid, what does mr flintstone have to do w/ it.. " i tried to tell her fred flintstone lived in bedrock, but then when i was going into the clarifiaction of what it had to do w/ the song.. i was like and i didn't look at roger but i bet he was like

ugghhh..i starting to rethink my boundaries for them LOL

I am so doing the happy dance right now.............Just made New Year's Eve Party plans!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

HEYYYY ... you going to sunray's party????