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I demand poetry.
Set to music, sung by no one other than yourself, in the pale moon light.
That's my offer. Take it or leave it.

Dear VJ Members!
It has come to my attention that you've pretty much told and discussed with each other what a horrible person I am because of what i typed in this forum, So, so I really feel like I should apologize to you all cause I KNOW i owe you all a sincere apology for what has been said and done.
Well, SO, would you please allow me to apologize for what i said and wrote on that day, I can't deny that my behavior was extremely inappropriate, immature, and lacked the respect VJ Members deserved. It was a disruption really, It was not my intention to create such an awkward and embarrassing situation, It was embarrassing, I can’t say what made me do something so silly. Perhaps I just have a very flawed sense of humor or my terrible read of situations. Whatever the cause for my bad behavior, it was inexcusable.. I'm normally not like this. While I,m not excusing myself from my unprofessional actions, I believe I acted the way I did because of my fatigue, bad day and thoughts that consumed me after getting the 221 g. however I learned that nobody appreciated my poor behavior, Only SOME VJ Members did, the ones who still believe i'm not a scammer nor a bad person etc..
Anyways, In the future, I have every intention of curbing my thoughtless actions and learn to adjust my behavior befitting the environment and situation and If there was any good that came out of this unfortunate experience, it is that I have grown and learned alternative approaches to these situations.
Again, I'm sorry for my actions and I hope that we can put this matter behind us. As i hope we can continue to maintain this friendship. I look forward to keep in touch with you cause you became a bit part of my life and you will be a part of my life in coming years, Of course if none of you mind, If you don't feel that you wish to forgive me, or you don't wish to have any contact with me, I understand. However, please know that I am deeply sorry for what I have said to you all and would like to do whatever I can to repair this kind of friendship.
Hopefully, this will be one of things we look back to and laugh. Until then, I’m willing to do everything I can to make it up to you! So, If you would like to continue this conversation or if you have any thoughts in this, please feel free to share, Thank you.
Zyzz.

I have to admit, a Zagray apology video would be pretty amazing. He'd apologize and then insult you immediately afterward.

Thread closed for violations, among other things. Goodbye Z.

Not anymore you're not.

Look Zagray since you came to VJ I knew there was something off about you. They way you claim to love your old lady yet try to sneak in little flirty comments. The way you attack people that tried to help you. I m not one of your fan club members and never will be. I just pray for the older lady you have duped into getting you the willly wonka golden ticket.

I wasnt going to comment until I seen this act of desperation... I mean come on ZAGRAY.. you get banned and make up a new name and come in here wishing yourself the best... i mean really???? This is why I stopped commenting long ago to this guy and his topics. Here's a tip for you playa playa next time choose another letter of the alphabet to exploit maybe L for loser. SMH

Well, look at it this way: the smell of blood is not something Z and his fiancee will have to deal with much longer anyway, as her "monthly" will stop very soon (if it hasn't already.)

Omg...well inlovewaiting its very entertaining to say the least haha. I can't even get mad. He's very immature. What do we expect lol one thing for sure, I've never read an interview update so interesting haha. Well I'm glad my bloody stink is finished for the month or I'd see this all in a different bitchy light for sure. Well z you def get a medal for craziest person in MENA. A good fiance? On not sure, but keep this up. I'm entertained.

i've got nothing else.

You have a lot to learn in this life and a lot of growing up to do. Until then, you will enjoy the hard knocks of life. Why any 46 yr old woman would want to teach a boy how to be a man instead of marrying a mature adult is really beyond me. God help her.

Or lack there of

We asked for interview details not what you were looking at during the interview. We wanted to know about questions asked, how you answered, how long it was, etc. I don't think anyone here gives 2 sh!ts about whether or not you were checking out the CO's tits.

While yes, many if not most men will check out females other than their wife or fiancee, it's unnecessary to share this fact with everyone. That's not being honest, it's being uncouth and piggish for lack of a better word. If your fiancee finds it cute then share it with her, only. The rest of us don't want to hear the details of your wandering eyes. Nor do we appreciate the comments about women smelling like blood? That's pretty repulsive and quite insulting.

Bye bye now...weren't you going to be leaving and act as though you never knew this forum?

Zagray, please read over the Terms of Service for Visa Journey. http://www.visajourn...m/content/terms A few members warned you that your comments were inappropriate, and instead of listening to their advice, you became defensive. You then made comments that included personal attacks on another member and another that was offensive and misogynist (you can look up the word online), both of which violate the Terms of Service (TOS) for Visa Journey.
There is a difference between speaking your truth so that people can hear what you have to say, and speaking your truth offensively so people react negatively to what you are saying - or how they interpret what you are saying. It is a good thing to be honest, but you also have to take responsibility for your words and the reactions they cause. When you claim that you are completely honest, and then become upset when others who are equally honest with you about your 'honesty', well, you can't have it both ways. You don't need to 'sugar coat' things, but there is always a way to speak your truth without becoming insulting or offensive. Many people claim they are just being honest with their comments when in fact they are really just being lazy- too lazy to bother to take the time to work out how to say what they need to say without hurting or attacking or offending someone else in the process.
Please take the time to 'think' about what impact your words might have when you write them - and change them if the impact is not appropriate. I understand you mean some of your comments in a humourous way, but humour that insults another person or group of people isn't a good form of humour and is something you should avoid. Please remember that this website includes men and women from all around the world as members and chose your words more wisely.

Listen it is just my personal opinion ...I get you on this sometimes it is tough on here but is it more beneficial than not to find VJ.
It is at these times you really dont shine!!!
Maybe that is why some people dont take you serious. That is just gross and immature.

Zagray, I will not feed into your bull ####### here anymore. I am done here with you and I hope others will ignore you as well. You don't deserve VJ and all the respect some of the members gave you. Good byeeeeeeeeeeeee

Agreed. The comment about the CO's breasts shows the lack of respect for women and general inappropriateness that, I think, we've all grown to expect from Zagray.
Zagray, while I've tried to be supportive of you, I can see that you really aren't taking this visa seriously. Not only that, I don't feel you take your relationship very seriously either. But it's your life and if your fiancée finds your egotism and misogynous ways charming, well I can't say that I pity her for how this will all play out.

So agreed with you.... Immigrating to the US is a big dream for a lot of people out there, and such interview processes should not be trivialized or downplayed.

Zagray,
I guess the lesson well learned here is your poor fiance that you claim to love and miss while having the nerves to say you were "looking at the CO's breast" I hope she finds a man to love her and not a man who is a womanizer. You have showed your true colors here today and I hope others don't find your topic cute and funny.
That was your interview by the way...... Don't expect another one

Totally inappropriate....
- looking at her breasts - when she had paid you respect and you do this to the interviewer?

I'm kinda surprised you needed to ask this question in the forums, and not just talk to your fiance about it, and get some reassurance from her....Being an American, I'm sure she's had plenty of shots.

Did you know that "kids" can mean "young goats" in English ?

Arabic is alright, I guess. I prefer French or Spanish, personally.