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And oh ...where did you get that I chats with other men?? my husband will sure get mad at you for accussed me for it.

Len wrote: It is quite un-classy to be a married woman who visits and chats in a dating site and then come here and say brother scandal has no class. You wish you had half the class he has.

lotus: i can almost promise you. your husband will assume you are chatting there if you visit there.....so quit going there & avoid any problems later.

No problem, my hubby knows about it that i'm only there just for the forums never talk to other men. infact he knows my password.

What is wrong with you?? do not put that in my mouth because I did not mean that brother scandal has no class. I assummed he just joking about it.

If you insisted that I have no class then that's your opinion.

Len wrote: It is quite un-classy to be a married woman who visits and chats in a dating site and then come here and say brother scandal has no class. You wish you had half the class he has.

nm

TOO LATE NOW I ALREADY QUOTED YOUR POST

Do I look like I care? Little girl, you need to grow up. Married women should not frequent dating sites, it is quite disgusting. and now, welcome to the ignore list. Troll.

OF course little girl you didn't care, if not why would you deleted it and changed it to "nm" ?

And oh ...where did you get that I chats with other men?? my husband will sure get mad at you for accussed me for it.

Len wrote: It is quite un-classy to be a married woman who visits and chats in a dating site and then come here and say brother scandal has no class. You wish you had half the class he has.

What is wrong with you?? do not put that in my mouth because I did not mean that brother scandal has no class. I assummed he just joking about it.

If you insisted that I have no class then that's your opinion.

Len wrote: It is quite un-classy to be a married woman who visits and chats in a dating site and then come here and say brother scandal has no class. You wish you had half the class he has.

nm

TOO LATE NOW I ALREADY QUOTED YOUR POST

When she sticks her hand down your crotch and her tongue down your throat on the first date --- that's usually a pretty good sign that she's into you.

no class

Heck...I am in the wrong website...just a pure mistake...supposed to be posted in the dating site.

I was in a hurry to watched my favorate telenovela..when I posted this.

Dating site??? #######???? If you are on a dating site what are you doing on VJ? trolling?

There is a dating site with forum I visit the forum once in a while but I'm not looking for someone.

no class? and you have lots visiting a dating site while on a family immigration website??? puh-leaze

What is wrong with visiting with other forum?? the forum are NOT only for people who are looking and dating. and oh for your information my husband knows that i'm visiting in that forum.

it seems like you cracked up for yourself??

edit: I never said I visited LOTS OF FORUMS..IF I WILL WHATS WRONG WITH IT??? WHATS SEEMS TO BE FUNNY??

When she sticks her hand down your crotch and her tongue down your throat on the first date --- that's usually a pretty good sign that she's into you.

no class

Heck...I am in the wrong website...just a pure mistake...supposed to be posted in the dating site.

I was in a hurry to watched my favorate telenovela..when I posted this.

Dating site??? #######???? If you are on a dating site what are you doing on VJ? trolling?

There is a dating site with forum I visit the forum once in a while but I'm not looking for someone because i'm already married.

Heck...I am in the wrong website...just a pure mistake...supposed to be posted in the dating site.

I was in a hurry to watched my favorate telenovela..when I posted this.

Who make the first move to give a hint that you really like him/her?

for men: Do you like a woman who is agressive and make the first move to tell you that she likes you?

just wondering what men think about it.

What they should say is that if you can afford it - it's the best.

If you can't - you are fvcked.

Most people in the US have health insurance

The appointment takes weeks or months before you finally able too see your doctor in US . also it depends where you live though. but most mostly it takes longer.

unleast you have a walk in clinic avaible in your area then thats a different story.

Oh..can anybody tell me why US has the best health care in the world??

it takes weeks or months schedule before you can see your doctor?? is this ONE OF THE BEST REASON?

Good lord. Has anyone actually claimed that the US has the best HEALTH CARE in the world?!

Nah,,ridiculed because the marriage failed?? now a days it is normal to have failed marriage..only narrow minded people will do the ridicule thing.

as for the topic...sure she feels homesick and in shocked for her new invironment, also she might be confused whether she want to stay in the marriage or not. perhaps she changed her feelings toward him. it is a different feeling when you living in one roof that's the time you will know exactly who really is the person you married for. also if he really making her happy and she really love him she will survive for this hard trials.

good luck I hope you can both solve this problem

RUN FOREST RUNNNNN....while you're self esteem still intact.

It seems like it may be too late for that.

it may be too late for it but he should drop this b!tch if he wants to live a happy life.

Why is that ghey when you promised to each other during ceremony "for better or for worse, for richer or for poorer, in sickness and in health till death do us part" ??

Ummm... if you want to have a serious conversation on VJ you shouldnt try to do it in the OT section .... try somewhere else....

Thanks,I never know that this "off topic" is not meant for a serious discussion. since I already started this here I'd just let it be. it's up to the people whether they want to take it seriously or not.

RUN FOREST RUNNNNN....while you're self esteem still intact.

Why is that ghey when you promised to each other during ceremony "for better or for worse, for richer or for poorer, in sickness and in health till death do us part" ??

I considered myself a somewhat funny...but most people (atleast in the internet world) can hardly tell if I'm joking to them or not but people who really have a sense a humour will laugh my homurous way of talking anyway.

It seems the guy developed a cold feet. he may be reliazed that's a too much responsibilities for him to handle the reason he ran-away.

This is ONE of the reason Women should not to get pregnant soon while still in the process. make sure that you are all done the immigration papers before you decide to get PREGNANT, you never know.

Also there is a posibility he may be just got an accident somewhere and lost his memories and coudn't remember his family. so, it's better to report him to the police make sure if he still alive or what.

Well, I'm sorry o.p. you married to a loser

in england my indian friend made me scrambled eggs, but she just made an omelet and then cut it up. is that normal? i was kinda like ####### this is not scrambled eggs!

Indian scrambled eggs is different from what you guys are used to. But its not really you just make an omelets and cut it up. More like you add onion, bell pepper, carrots, peas and stuff with the egg and also our regular chilli powder, we call it "bhujji"

It seems yummy!

I want to live forever as long I stay young and strong if not then I should die before I play my sh!t.

remind me of my neighbor who has a mother of age 89 she no longer recognize her children and to any other members of the Family, not only that she also playing with her pooo and eat it.

for the o.p. question..no, I do not want to live forever whether young or old it will be a boring world. I don't even want to live my life if I am in my 70's. I've seen old people are wortless specially here in America

While I am young and energetic I enjoy life as I can.

Ok, this is a general statement international relastionship or not. the old adage" promises are made to be broken" is indeed true.

During the wedding day the couple promised each other " for better and for worst till death do us part" is a lie and the majority of people broke thier promises because if they keep thier promise then why in the hell alot of marriage are broken. many people have been married many times. I know marriage is not easy and is complicated; and both people should work it out to keep the marriage intact. but I really think is not a good idea to make a promise to a person most especially you're not 100% sure about everything.

how many of us are divorce and remarried and then again make the same statement during the wedding "for better and for worst till do us part" is a big lie and you have been saying it every time you get married to a different person.

I really think that the priest should not make the couple vows. just my thought perhaps a food for thought.

Yeah OP you need to bring it up and then hubby will lose all trust as you looked into his things. I had a similiar problem about phone calls, however i know where my man sleeps and that is the important thing. So the choice it yours. Bring it up or let it go..........

If there is someone who will lost the trust, it should be her since her husband was cheating on her. he lied and tell her about it but he still lying and probably never tell the whole story.

it is wrong to looked his things but you can't blame her on why she behaving this way because her husband is not honest to her in the first place.

Hello to you all,

first of all I have been following your forum and it's been very useful for me and my husband. I recently got my green card to US and I'm moving there this summer. Everything has been fine with me and my husband. We are very much in love. But I have something that is bothering me sometimes. I did find out over 6 months ago that he kissed another girl when we were engaged (this kissing thing happened 2 months before our actual wedding). My way of finding this out wasn't really nice towards him (checked his emails where he had mentioned this to one of his friends) but after all I did discover this and he had kept that as a secret from me. That hurt me a lot. He was visiting me at that time and we discussed about it. I was very mad to him for few days but before he left to US, I wanted to forgive him. I didn't want to believe he is not the same man I felt in love with and married. I know everyone makes mistakes.. Some might think kissing is not that big of an issue, but for me the fact that he lied and asked advice from his girlfriend of should he tell me this or not, was painful. I thought his friend was my friend too. I felt so betrayed. Anyways, he is regretting it and said that the kiss didn't mean anything to him. It was just a kiss and perhaps he was trying to figure out his true feelings towards me. And that was it. He promised me that. But I still haven't been able to leave that behind me. It sometimes bothers me but I don't want to bring that topic up with him. I don't want to constantly remind him of what he did to me, that is just wrong. I'm just hoping that I can let this be and trust him completely. I think it's stupid to let this ruin everything we have. We have waited over a year for my green card and us to be together finally. It just feels good to let this all out.. I want to hear what do you think about this if you would face problems like this?

Thank you

Do you really think it is just a plain KISS? I read somewhere in the local forum they have a different term for "sex" when the guy cheated he will or call it as "it just a "KISS" but not really a kiss but sex.

I'm sorry that you experience this, cheating is never been ok. if you still feel bother of what he has done, then your gut feeling is correct that there is a big possibilities he still doing it to you. then its time to think about it whether you want to stay with this cheater husband or not. its a sad world to know that he claimed he loves you but he hurts you feelings. his action does not match with his words.

said that the kiss didn't mean anything to him. It was just a kiss and he was trying to figure out his true feelings towards me.

to me, I don't buy this bs.