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We live in NORTH BEACH MIAMI before. the cost of living is pretty expensive. it is a tourists destination; the majority of people who are living there are Hispanic. MIAMI is completely diffferent place from the rest of America. its like you're living in outside the US.

LOL..last night hubby and I were watching "play boy awards winning" there were these people who got awards for being good actresess and actors. the funniest thing was this advertisement with a big *enis and the woman said "wow *ock!" and she stick it to the wall and then sqeeze it.

they are one of my favorite water birds. sorry he got your fish though...

Ha ha no big deal really. I guess the pelican need it must be hungry; It was just exciting when you finally caught the fish most especially the big ones; and it was my first time experience fishing. . yes, I agree pelicans are very interesting sea birds there are plenty of them in FL.

I want to share my picture,this is my first fishing trip,we went in Lake Fork, Mineola, Texas,fishing is fun,cool and exciting.my husband is a very good guide.

WOW! what kind of fish is that? you've got more? ..............I love fishing too but my hubby is not into it. hes not outdoorsy type. But We tried fishing when we were living in FL. after 4 hours i've almost got a pretty big tuna unfortunitely the huge bird stole it and bring somewhere and ate it. so the man next to us who got plenty of fish decided to give me one fish and I was happy then but hubby ego was a bit hurt.

The Huge bird who ate the fish was called "PELICANS"

I want to share my picture,this is my first fishing trip,we went in Lake Fork, Mineola, Texas,fishing is fun,cool and exciting.my husband is a very good guide.

WOW! what kind of fish is that? you've got more? ..............I love fishing too but my hubby is not into it. hes not outdoorsy type. But We tried fishing when we were living in FL. after 4 hours i've almost got a pretty big tuna unfortunitely the huge bird stole it and bring somewhere and ate it. so the man next to us who got plenty of fish decided to give me one fish and I was happy then but hubby ego was a bit hurt.

After I retire from the Army I intend on retiring in the Philippines. I've googled the topic & haven't found as much info as I thought I would. Anyone have some insight on the best places to retire & other pertinent info?

I would try looking into Tagaytay Highlands if you love the peace and quiet.

Ditto! At the same time if you don't speak Tagalog or the local dialect forget it or learn it.

Only social life most puti have that don't know the language is drinking with other expats and chasing young maganda pinay.

Check on the medical also.

DON'T burn your bridges in your home country.

Is that the main reason why lots of foreign men most especially kano love to retire there in PI? pag wala ang pusa naglalaro and daga.

I'll be chasing my Pinay wife around!

orrr... your wife will chase you with BOLO..

It maybe it has something to do with the cultural differences but it is more something to do with the character and maturity with the person. also some people just have an odd a sense of humor. teasing with your spouse and make fun because you busted him about the receipt is kinda like you tease your friend NOT a spouse. there is a right time what and when it is approriate to tease your spouse without making them mad.

Sorry guys, if I share this

I talked to my fiance this morning and we are having fun with our conversation. He acted one specific position that I find it very cute,I find him very handsome when he is doing that kind of (chest out,shoulder stretched with a little kid face ) And I told him, I remember the time that we are together and I sometimes look at him doing the same thing. And I performed to him how he look like with he do such thing and we have fun, later I realized he stopped talking and he is doing something else on his computer So, I asked him, if something wrong happened that I did not aware of?At first he doesn't want to say anything ( because he said, he tries to let it go within himself first and try to just talk to me again when its gone, but he said its very hard to let it go ). Then he told me what is it, he said that , when we are having fun, it seems that I am making fun of him, that brought back his past when he is still a kid and he doesn't like that feelings I am sad about it.

I told him many times, that I find him very handsome and cute when he is doing his little kid actions (for my eyes) But still he feels so much pain and I feel sad and guilty about it,, it then the reason why he is feeling bad of himself, though he told me that its nothing about me or what I did, its just his feelings that took over that makes him feel that way

I tried to just let it go and told myself that it has nothing to do with me, but still its very hard on my part and failed to dictate my head those I feel that I can't do or say what ever I wanted this time after what happened He told me before that I will just let him feel what he wanted to feel and just let him express what he wanted to express to me without me being into it, that I find.. so hard to do

I don't understand my feelings now, I feel pain in my heart because of what happened, I don't know if I am just selfish that I am listening to what I felt inside, because if I let him know this, I think he will again tell me that I am not letting him feel or express what he is feeling inside him, its so hard on my part and I don't know where will I put myself on this kind of situations.. (my tears is falling) .

I love him so much and I don't want him to feel such, but he already did

Any way,sorry guys for this, but thank you so much for reading..

God bless you all..

Nope, it is not selfish when you are listening what you feel inside. you are human and you have feelings too. let him express what he feels and listen to him( if you mean that he wants to talk what happened to him when he was a kid?)

he hasn't moved on yet about his childhood nightmare. perhaps he need to talk to a therapy. him having a bad childhood experience is not an excuse to treat you this way.

you know, in order to have a happy, peaceful mind and less argueing; couple need to communicate what they really feel toward each other.

of course you love him if not why are you married him in the first place. just because you love him that much doesn't mean its only your responsible how the marriage works. you TWO have responsible to each other.

OP. how old is your husband? the way you describe he is overly sensetive. he shouldn't ignore you and treated you silent treatment instead letting you know about the thing he dislike so you'd be aware of it.

After I retire from the Army I intend on retiring in the Philippines. I've googled the topic & haven't found as much info as I thought I would. Anyone have some insight on the best places to retire & other pertinent info?

I would try looking into Tagaytay Highlands if you love the peace and quiet.

Ditto! At the same time if you don't speak Tagalog or the local dialect forget it or learn it.

Only social life most puti have that don't know the language is drinking with other expats and chasing young maganda pinay.

Check on the medical also.

DON'T burn your bridges in your home country.

Is that the main reason why lots of foreign men most especially kano love to retire there in PI? pag wala ang pusa naglalaro and daga.

Who can share here,i want some idea.hehe

guys,share me what you wore when you had your port of entry

It depends of the weather. that time it was summer here in US, so I wore jeans and blouse; also I brought jacket with me just in case very cold in Airport or inside the Airplane.

what about your shoes?

I wore 4 inches sandals I was comfortable I used to it even though I was doing a lot of hiking looking the gate number etc etc.

opps not 4 inches it was 5 inches sandals I am fond of high heels

Who can share here,i want some idea.hehe

guys,share me what you wore when you had your port of entry

It depends of the weather. that time it was summer here in US, so I wore jeans and blouse; also I brought jacket with me just in case very cold in Airport or inside the Airplane.

what about your shoes?

I wore 4 inches sandals I was comfortable I used to it even though I was doing a lot of hiking looking the gate number etc etc.

Who can share here,i want some idea.hehe

guys,share me what you wore when you had your port of entry

It depends of the weather. that time it was summer here in US, so I wore jeans and blouse; also I brought jacket with me just in case very cold in Airport or inside the Airplane.

Our good friends that were witnesses at our wedding moved near Baguio City last year. They had problems adjusting to life back in the Philippines, and developed breathing problems. One or more of the family of four is sick with some ailment at any one time. He is bored and spends his time at an expat bar, and has fallen completely off the wagon. She suspects he is cheating with every woman he meets, and has become addicted to pain killers. Not a healthy situation, especially with two kids.

Last year My husband and I taking vacation to PI. My husband met this guy in the Airport who brag a lot how he enjoyed his time in PI during visit of his gf (which is now a wife). he said he feels like a very handsome guy over there. he cheated her gf in countless times, had sex with different girl every night. and he even have plan to retire there in PI. anyway this American guy is short,bald and working in the factory but in the Philippines he's kinda king over there........in the US he is surely have a hard time finding a date or a girlfriend.

some foriegn men wants to be a big fish in the pond.

I bet my bottom dollar that this guy is old enough to be the wife's grandfather.

Our good friends that were witnesses at our wedding moved near Baguio City last year. They had problems adjusting to life back in the Philippines, and developed breathing problems. One or more of the family of four is sick with some ailment at any one time. He is bored and spends his time at an expat bar, and has fallen completely off the wagon. She suspects he is cheating with every woman he meets, and has become addicted to pain killers. Not a healthy situation, especially with two kids.

Last year My husband and I taking vacation to PI. My husband met this guy in the Airport who brag a lot how he enjoyed his time in PI during visit of his gf (which is now a wife). he said he feels like a very handsome guy over there. he cheated her gf in countless times, had sex with different girl every night. and he even have plan to retire there in PI. anyway this American guy is short,bald and working in the factory but in the Philippines he's kinda king over there........in the US he is surely have a hard time finding a date or a girlfriend.

some foriegn men wants to be a big fish in the pond.

Lahat ng natalo ni pacman deserve nila mabugbog kasi puro kayabangan pgdating sa ring wala nmn binatbat

One more thing bakit laging nanalo si Pacman because he always pray before and after his fight that is why he is truly blessed

Mabuhay ang Pinoy

Pacman won because he did the best; God did the rest( prayer help some) God blesess people who are humble and do their job well .

Mabuhay ka PacMan!!! mabuhay ang PINOY!!!

Hatton and his people cannot accept the fact that PACMAN is the best boxer champion in the world.

They always ended up with excuses, that Hatton guy never eat during the fight, and his manager said, Hatton did not follow his advice thats why Hatton failed the Fight. :rofl:

The whole thread is quite offensive, specially to our Pinoy VJ sisters, who have to put up with racist ####### here every day. Not cool to come here and advertise stuff like that.

It is... But cant blame them. Offensive or not "WE" filipina's cant deny that maybe 30% of us that married some foreigners are like that. I dont know..... Maybe lower, i hope lol. Really it is very embarassing sometimes not only for me but to all filipina that not doing wrong and more dignity than others. For now, atleast i have known like 5 of them. Toooooo bad. I feel bad with those guys but not my business. And i think Lotus is one of them lol. I just dont understand some of this L-) guy that they keep whinning and complaining how they been scammed with filipina but at the end they still want filipina again lol bunch of ****head. And hey... it's not only filipina... scammers are all over the world. So =D> to those guys married a right women and > to those losers that been scammed and keep yacking how bad filipinas are LOL. =))

JUVY

I am pretty sure I am NOT A SCAMMER.....I think you are one of them. look at you, you are married to the man who is like your GRANDFATTHER.

Oh ! before you tell me you married him because you are happen to be inlove; and age doesn't matter. That is an old adage I hear that a lot of times in OTHER FORUMS.

The whole thread is quite offensive, specially to our Pinoy VJ sisters, who have to put up with racist ####### here every day. Not cool to come here and advertise stuff like that.

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Not at all...I think you are the one who is racist here. you take my posts in the wrong way.

Advertising to warn my Fellow Filipinas about the facts are not offensive and racist.

if you find this offensive stop coming to this thread. if you still come back I assume you find way that the mod will lock up this thread; and I'm not sure what is your AGENDA is .

You're not advertising to warn your fellow women about the dangers of not getting to know your partner completely before marriage...you just have something against cherryblossoms (one site) so you're offering another dating site as an alternative. Same $hit, different name.

I was ALSO advertising to warn them. AND was suggesting the other site beause there are bunch of jerk guys in cherryblossom. this woman who is looking for husband. she put preferences in her profile saying she only looking for guy who is not multiple divorced and aged 25 up 35. but many men who are older than that are pushy still keep sending her messages and even mad at her for not answering the IM. some, when sending her message even call her "DEAR" how strange is that calling someone dear when even doesn't know you is a plain retard. THEY THINK ALL FILIPINA ARE EASY!?

There are some nice and gentlemen thou, they understand and respect that everyone has preferences. and no need to be mad for not being fits the age preferences. anyway she cancelled her account in CH.

For those Filipina who are singles and looking for love. there is free dating site;and you can join too in the forums. you will learn a lot about American culture. forget the cherry blossom there are a bunch of jerks there who will take advantage of your innocense. I observed many of these men in cherry bloosom they speak to you like they own you; and you are that easy to get.

http://www.plentyoffish.com

I dunno about the Cherryblossoms, but there are a lot of girls here who met their husbands at Cherrblossoms.com. And they ended up happy with their spouses. I guess not all of these guys who are looking for love on cherryblossoms are not jerks and losers.

In fact I also know personally there are many Filipinas who are married to good and sincere men.

The whole thread is quite offensive, specially to our Pinoy VJ sisters, who have to put up with racist ####### here every day. Not cool to come here and advertise stuff like that.

Not at all...I think you are the one who is racist here. you take my posts in the wrong way.

Advertising to warn my Fellow Filipinas about the facts are not offensive and racist.

if you find this offensive stop coming to this thread. if you still come back I assume you find way that the mod will lock up this thread; and I'm not sure what is your AGENDA is .

spartan' wrote date='May 1 2009, 02:22 PM' post='2892572']

Jerk and looser guys can be found in any dating site and in any place in the world. It doesn't vary on Nationality. Whether a guy is an American, European or Asian it doesn't matter. A jerk is a jerk and a looser is a looser. But on the other side, good and faithful men can also be found in any dating site and in any place in the world.

I was probably waiting for this one. I wasn't implying that only happen to American guy. there are bad apples and good apples everywhere.

It is just a matter of a woman's right choice and right decision. The very hardest and most challenging part in our lives is to seek and look for the right person for us. So, brain and heart must work together in balance to have the right choice and decision in life.

I agree, but it was just only a REMINDER to my Fellow Filipinas who are singles and looking for love. I did not force to any of them what they suppose to believe.

For those Filipina who are singles and looking for love. there is free dating site;and you can join too in the forums. you will learn a lot about American culture. forget the cherry blossom there are a bunch of jerks there who will take advantage of your innocense. I observed many of these men in cherry bloosom they speak to you like they own you; and you are that easy to get.

http://www.plentyoffish.com

I dunno about the Cherryblossoms, but there are a lot of girls here who met their husbands at Cherrblossoms.com. And they ended up happy with their spouses. I guess not all of these guys who are looking for love on cherryblossoms are not jerks and losers.

As I stated above NOT ALL MEN...good that happened to be you've found a good one because NOT ALL FILIPINAS are lucky to found a good and sincere guy. I only speaking for Filipinas who I've known personally here in US.

missmissy' wrote

I haven't told my SO about the foot fetish thing yet. Do you think he will be upset?

My guess is, he will not likely upset about it, if he is into it he probably will like it as much as you do.

Thanks!!!

I understand

missmissy' wrote

I haven't told my SO about the foot fetish thing yet. Do you think he will be upset?

My guess is, he will not likely upset about it, if he is into it he probably will like it as much as you do.