Farsider

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Right on.
You'll get through this. The heartache sucks, no doubt. But there is good news..... hundreds of thousands of single women are out there! . . . looking for a good man to love & be loyal to forever. You're better off leaving the cheater behind. Good luck to ya!

What do I "dislike" about America?... would be the better way to phrase the question. I will admit hating the KKK, but the other stuff I indicated were really "dislikes", not hate.
By "America" I guess you mean the United States? America can mean so much more.
Not a very well thought-out pole.

Yeah Cardinals !!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Yeah Cardinals !!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Yup . . . . there will be a long period (seemingly endless) where you will hear nothing. Then finally things will begin to happen as they review your petition and then either send you request(s) for more information, OR inform you that the petition has been approved and your ready for the next steps .
Don't worry... every couple going through this has to wait, and wait....... ..... and wait!

Yup . . . . there will be a long period (seemingly endless) where you will hear nothing. Then finally things will begin to happen as they review your petition and then either send you request(s) for more information, OR inform you that the petition has been approved and your ready for the next steps .
Don't worry... every couple going through this has to wait, and wait....... ..... and wait!

I have to agree with this.
Having said that.... we all know that there is more to this story (but practically speaking, time & space just don't allow us to post novels - lol) - my point being that without more background it is difficult to offer precise observations and advice. We all also know that there are at least two sides to every story. We have heard only one side, so there is another handicap in rendering advice.
My question would be (and you don't need to post a reply - may be too personal - and I'm only asking the question to give you something to think about).... Is this the first time she has gone ballistic like this? If not, then you do have a maturity issue to deal with. But if this IS the first time she has done this (and also said that she wants to leave you!), then you need to look closer at her relationships with other guys. Since we don't know you or her, this is a highly speculative comment I am going to make (so please don't be offended)... this sort of thing happens all the time - she meets someone else, falls in love - or she's just swept off her feet by someone else and thinks she's in love, then looks for any excuse to end the relationship.
Let's hope that is not the case. Assuming that this is just a maturity issue... you need to tell her that you love her, and that you realize there must be give & take in a loving, forgiving relationship. But... you also tell her that you will not tolerate BS like throwing things - that's just stupid and immature. And definitely make her replace whatever was busted up. If there are no consequences for her immature behaivior, then buddy, get ready for a long tough road ahead.