Silas Ibrahim

1 hour ago, Redro said:

Usually advice is to bring updated evidence to USCIS interview if you are called for interview. 
USCIS might decide to waive your interview. If they think the evidence you submitted is insufficient and they want more updated/ current evidence of real marriage/ relationship what do you plan on sending in? 
You don’t just need best wishes, you need a plan. 

The evidence that I have, I already sent in with my I-751 filing.  The only other evidence that I can show is from sending her gift’s, money for bill’s, and food delivery.  We have a car in both our name’s, and the two affidavits from her kid’s, we no longer have a joint account, nor authorized user’s on each other’s accounts.  I want to add her to my pension, but I do not have her social security card anymore, and she say’s that pension’s are for loved one’s, so I have no way of adding her to it.  I don’t know what else to do other than talk to Hacking as suggested.

1 hour ago, Me and her said:

I believe many factors that you have listed may warrant competent professional advice.  I do not believe this site can give you the advice you are seeking.  Perhaps others may direct you to competent immigration attorneys....  best wishes.

I don’t know if a lot of my questions and responses are being seen, I looked up trolling that the guy say’s he believes of me.  I don’t know why he would think such, when I am baring my personal life with strangers in order to get answer’s and figure out which route to take, in order to receive an approval on my pending I-751.  But to all who gave me considerate response’s, whether hopeful, or hopeless, thanks so much.  And thanks so much for your best wishes, seems like I will really need them.

7 minutes ago, Redro said:

VAWA was not an option for you. VAWA is for people who do not have a green card. 
Your option was to file I751 with abuse or divorce waiver. 
When did you file VAWA? And did you withdraw VAWA after you decided to file I751 with your wife? 

The shelter that I lived in about a week or so advised me to file, and I told them to cancel it when we got back together, but I don’t know what the outcome was.  I was reported for abuse on her in my country, but she did not cooperate with authorities.  The VAWA was June of last year.

5 minutes ago, Boiler said:

It is certainly odd to want your Abuser to go with you to a ROC interview.

We are both guilty, that’s why.  She reported me before, but did not get me locked up.

4 minutes ago, Rocio0010 said:

Why not? You're not living together, she's not going to counselling... so?

She want’s counseling, not me.  And I am not sure of what might happen, anything can change, but I will be talking to a lawyer.

4 minutes ago, Redro said:

So, you are just going to wait for a decision from USCIS without adding evidence of working on your relationship or even trying to work on the relationship? What will you do if the case is denied? 
Did you inform USCIS that you and your wife are no longer living in the same residence? 

I really don’t know what to do, I have never experienced this before.  I want to get a lawyer now, before it is decided.  No, I haven’t informed USCIS of my move, but since I have been gone for several month’s now, my wife has told me to contact them.

3 minutes ago, SalishSea said:

Either we’re being trolled here, or OP has managed to check every fraud box known to mankind.

 

If this story is real, you’ve got an uphill (both ways, in the snow) battle ahead of you.

My friend’s from other countries, that I work with have given me advice to file VAWA and I did, only I went back and we filed together after the filing of the VAWA petition.

4 minutes ago, OldUser said:

I would

Thanks I will talk to Hacking about my case.

19 minutes ago, Me and her said:

You did not answer the third question.  Are you staying until you receive the 10 yr green card?

No I am not

7 minutes ago, Me and her said:

I believe many factors that you have listed may warrant competent professional advice.  I do not believe this site can give you the advice you are seeking.  Perhaps others may direct you to competent immigration attorneys....  best wishes.

Thank you for your help 

3 minutes ago, Redro said:

Why do you not want to file for divorce? 
With your history of wanting to file VAWA/ spousal abuse and not living with your spouse for the majority of your marriage inside the US- it sounds like it would be better to file with divorce waiver. 
I would definitely hire a lawyer though, this case sounds very complicated and if there are accusations of fraud you want someone to help you respond to those points. 

I told her that we should put everything in God’s hands, and see where he leads us.  We are both unsure of the future, and even though it is very complicated right now, and she doesn’t trust me, I think that with time we might be able to overcome our problems and move forward whether we are together or not.  Thanks for your responses!

2 minutes ago, RambaCat said:

Do not count on this. Your case sounds complicated. Consider getting yourself a lawyer, a divorce, and amending your petition to a divorce filing - especially if it isn't likely that you will mend your relationship. That is better - in my opinion - than waiting until you have a 10 year greencard to divorce, as right now, there are a lot of red flags that could be interpreted as fraud.

 

Will my chances be better for an approval, if I do everything you said, or will I be wasting my time?

12 minutes ago, Boiler said:

 

I just wonder how the interview would go, with your living situation and past history. It is not the normal situation. What do you expect her to say in response to these 

Just now, Me and her said:

You did not answer the third question.  Are you staying until you receive the 10 yr greencard?

I don’t know what she will say really, but she will not lie, she’s a Christian, and wishes me well.  No, it’s not for a green card, I won’t be filing for divorce.

1 hour ago, Rocio0010 said:

Not only that, but the wife didn't know about his living arrangements.

He sent his wife money regularly.

He also had an affair with another lady and got her pregnant. 

He bought one of her "roomates" a phone.

He tried to purchase a car with the "roomate".

 

So in answer to your question, I think he's trying to game the system... And I am not an IO.

I do love my wife, we just have too many problems.  She think’s that I was trying to use her, but I am not, she still wishes me well, she is older, and a Christian.

8 minutes ago, Boiler said:

I have seen quite a few cases but would be hard pushed to think of one similar to yours.

 

OP is Original Poster - you

 

ROC is Removal of Conditions.

Thank you 

1 minute ago, Boiler said:

https://www.youtube.com/@HackingImmigrationLawLLC

 

Jim Hacking an Immigration Lawyer who has a show on You Tube was mentioned, his next one is tomorrow at 2.30 central time, you can call in and get free advice.

Thanks, I will check it out!

Just now, Boiler said:

 

I just wonder how the interview would go, with your living situation and past history. It is not the normal situation. What do you expect her to say in response to these issues?

I heard that they are waiving interview’s for I-751, but I don’t think that she will say much of anything, but I know that she will not lie about our separation’s.

Just now, Silas Ibrahim said:

Okay thanks for clarifying.

Do I need to get a lawyer?

3 minutes ago, Boiler said:

I have seen quite a few cases but would be hard pushed to think of one similar to yours.

 

OP is Original Poster - you

 

ROC is Removal of Conditions.

Okay thanks for clarifying.

6 minutes ago, Redro said:

Questions before I respond: 
1. ) Do you currently live with the spouse you filed ROC with?

2.) Are you working on your marriage or is divorce inevitable? 
2.) Are you only staying with the spouse while waiting for the 10 yr GC? 
 

No, we are not together, I don’t know if she will take me back this time, because of my living situation.  We aren’t working on the marriage, she want’s to go to counseling, but I declined.  I don’t really know if I want to continue on in the marriage either, so divorce is possible.  She doesn’t trust anything that I say anymore.  I will not file for divorce.

4 hours ago, Rocio0010 said:

By whom? 

 

That’s a red flag in your context 

 

Yet another red flag

 

Another one 

 

That’s a hard one. 

 

Please tell me you’re a troll.

 

If you’re not, you’re in big trouble.

I’m in big trouble, how?  Do you know of anyone who has been in a similar situation, and their outcome?

1 hour ago, OldUser said:

I hope this is some joke or trolling.

OP, if not, you're in big trouble. Be ready to be denied ROC and removal proceedings. There was no bonafide marriage in this case.

No OldUser, is not a joke, and what is meant by trolling?  What does OP and ROC mean please?  And I can be removed?  Is there anything that I can do to prevent it?  Thanks 

1 minute ago, Boiler said:

If you are called for an interview will your wife attend?

Yes, I think so!  Last time we talked, that was my understanding.

54 minutes ago, Redro said:

@Silas Ibrahim working on I751 vs actively reviewing effectively means the same thing. 
You are just waiting for your next instruction: RFE or call for interview. 
If you are separated from your spouse now I would file for divorce. It doesn’t sound like you are planning on getting back together.

I would also like to add- the time you spent together before you received the green card probably doesn’t matter. USCIS wants to see evidence of your marriage after you moved to the US. They’ve already seen the proof you sent in when you lived together before you moved here. 

Thanks Redro, so do you think that the evidence that I have will be enough?  We had much more during the I-130 process.  Will any of the mistake’s I made cause issue’s if cause problem’s if I divorce and go through the process alone?  I appreciate your kindness in your response to my concern’s.

1 minute ago, Silas Ibrahim said:

And also, what will happen when the case is pending in the NBC and USCIS receives online tips of marriage fraud, even though my spouse and I lived together 2 years abroad and I received my CR1 at that time, but we separated twice within the two year’s of being abroad, but filed an I-751 jointly, but separated two months after the filing, and had only been back together two months before filing?  We only have a car together in both our names, wised it as evidence of a valid marriage, two affidavits from her children, no bank accounts together after closing an account that we both shared, and now have separate accounts?  We lived together a year before separation the first time, and I started sending her gifts and helping pay bill’s by sending her money, after I left the second time, and never bought gifts for her before, and the first separation, I barely sent anything except for, for her to pay a bill that we once shared, and for my bills before I started paying them myself.  We have few pictures together within the two year’s, no vacation’s to show, and I accused her of DV, and tried to bring a VAWA petition against her after leaving the first time, but ended up going back, and filling together.  Will immigration believe that my love for her is real, and that we entered into the marriage for love?  I also had an affair with a lady that claimed to be pregnant by me, and am currently living in a two bedroom apartment with two other foreign women, that my wife did not know about, and I also lived with them before, and bought one of them a phone worth over $1,000.00, and we tried to get a car together, and her name appears on my credit report, even though we were denied the purchase of a car.  What if any problems am I facing with them knowing all of this?  Thanks 

By the way, my wife is nearly 20 years my senior.

2 minutes ago, Silas Ibrahim said:

What does it mean when the automated phone system say’s, we are working on your I-751, rather than we are actively reviewing it?  And what does it mean when you can no longer view the statu, and history of your case in your online account, and it show’s this

And also, what will happen when the case is pending in the NBC and USCIS receives online tips of marriage fraud, even though my spouse and I lived together 2 years abroad and I received my CR1 at that time, but we separated twice within the two year’s of being abroad, but filed an I-751 jointly, but separated two months after the filing, and had only been back together two months before filing?  We only have a car together in both our names, wised it as evidence of a valid marriage, two affidavits from her children, no bank accounts together after closing an account that we both shared, and now have separate accounts?  We lived together a year before separation the first time, and I started sending her gifts and helping pay bill’s by sending her money, after I left the second time, and never bought gifts for her before, and the first separation, I barely sent anything except for, for her to pay a bill that we once shared, and for my bills before I started paying them myself.  We have few pictures together within the two year’s, no vacation’s to show, and I accused her of DV, and tried to bring a VAWA petition against her after leaving the first time, but ended up going back, and filling together.  Will immigration believe that my love for her is real, and that we entered into the marriage for love?  I also had an affair with a lady that claimed to be pregnant by me, and am currently living in a two bedroom apartment with two other foreign women, that my wife did not know about, and I also lived with them before, and bought one of them a phone worth over $1,000.00, and we tried to get a car together, and her name appears on my credit report, even though we were denied the purchase of a car.  What if any problems am I facing with them knowing all of this?  Thanks 

What does it mean when the automated phone system say’s, we are working on your I-751, rather than we are actively reviewing it?  And what does it mean when you can no longer view the statu, and history of your case in your online account, and it show’s this