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Just an update: no receipt yet as of today or check being cashed.

Hello: My aunt applied for ger husband's adjustment of status and docs were sent to Chicago lockbox. The file has been recieved and signed for in March 26th. As of today no receipt from uscis no that the check has been cashed. Is this normal? Is anyone else experiencing this delay? Thank you

Her not having an ssn won't cause any problems. Her passport is her identification. Once she gets the residence, she can apply for job, ID or driver's license, ssn, whatever she wants.

You won't need an ssn for the immigrant. All you need is her passport for identification. Also when you go to ss they will ask the reason for the ssn and it won't get to you until 2 to 4 weeks from application. In my opinion take passport and get your license to marry and than go get married. Once married apply for adjustment of status. Once approved get your ssn

My aunt is in the same boat. UPS delivered the file on March 26th. Nothing has been recieved from uscis not a text or email or a letter and they didn't cash the check either.

Ok so another question: Can the father apply for his son's n-600 using his own uscis account? Or should he create a separate account for his son? By the way the son is 4.5 years old The reason, we ask is because the website stops us in the date of birth and social info detecting the stored info of the father. Thank you in advance.

Ok so another question: Can the father apply for his son's n-600 using his own uscis account? Or should he create a separate account for his son? By the way the son is 4.5 years old The reason, we ask is because the website stops us in the date of birth and social info detecting the stored info of the father. Thank you in advance.

Hello: I have a friend who is trying to get a certificate of citizenship for his son. His son was born before the naturalization of the father occurred. The son is less than the age of 18. The son and the father live together and the son was admitted into the United States as a permanent resident a month ago. We got confused on whether he needs to file N-600 or N-600k? Thank you

No derivatives involved

In the US

Sorry based on marriage and op is about 50 years old and yes including i130 and I 765

Hello I'm aware that the fee for AOS will be changing this April 1st. Does anyone know the details of how much it will be to do AOS with I130? Thank you

Thank you

Yes he is. Do you know by any chance the correct filing fee that should accompany the package?

Hello: So my wife's cousin got married and wanted to file for AOS for his new wife. He didnt know he can send all the paperwork together so he sent only I130. Well I130 got approved and they want to know can they apply for AOS with employment authorization and travel authorization using the approved I130 or does he have to start over? Also he wants to know the filing fee? If anyone knows. Thanks in advance.

I'm sorry that you have to go through all of this. It hurts hearing the stand that some men think they are entitled to when it comes to women. The way I see it there are 3 options: * Counseling: and that depends on whether you think you relationship is worth working for. * leaving him and applying for vawa based on emotional abuse (you will have to provide proof, I'm not sure what kind of proof you would need) * leaving him and leaving this country. Which you might have to way your options especially if you are all by yourself here. (Not impossible to overcome being by yourself, but possible to build from 0) If anybody can guide you on the evidence you would need, number 2 option is the way I would go in my opinion. However as I said before, you are an intelligent and free woman. You know what's best for you and your future. The fact that he said what he said about an unborn baby is beyond my imagination. Not all men are like him I promise.

This might be weird but, I took the liberty of calling cbp and calling you "my friend" to get you the info. According to the lady from cbp at the Detroit land port: you all can come and bring your documents with you for entry even though that you are still waiting for your appointment at the embassy. I assume the documents would be the same as the CARBA evidence. I hope that helps

Your best bet is to probably call cbp and ask an agent directly. Or see if you can call an entry point and request to speak to someone. They will give you the most accurate answer. +1 313-226-3141 That's the number to cbp entry point in detroit

First of all, I apologize. I just seen this post of yours and I just seen its not the first big fight. But I still see first time of crossing the boundaries Your husband realizes he crossed the line hence him apologizing. Is it genuine? Only God and him know. But what you can do is: communicate and establish your boundaries and also give him the unltimatum: "[husband name] in this relationship i respect you but i also expect respect back. You crossed a line yesterday that if it was someone else, the consequence wouldve been them eliminated from my life. However i feel our marriage is stronger than that so here are my expectations(lay them all out). If we agree on them, only time will show how genuine your apology is. However if those boundaries are crossed in the future, this is the outcome (walking away, seperating, divorce.. your choice)" and see what he says. If he truely loves you, he will change for you. If not save yourself the headache and get out. Tell him also that since you are his wife, you are here to help him to improve his situation. One more advice: when you feel resistance from your husband for talking about an issue that you know has to be talked about, dont act like no you gonna listen to me. He will shut down on you and he wont hear anyone. Please watch this video: You can see the difference in the guy's face between both ladies and how they communicated with him. (I know it's a different subject in the video but you get the idea) After watching the whole video: I don't know about the perfume part 😂 but that's up to you too. I'm kidding I'm kidding, I'm just trying to make you smile. Win your husband and I promise, he will move mountains for you. This method if you decided to go with it, comes after establishing you boubdaries. Dont do it before that.

Ok I will respond to your long rambling one paragraph at a time: Anger is not an excuse, never was never will. It's better to walk away when angry rather than saying stuff you don't mean. However many people don't know when to walk away and they say stuff they don't mean in order to feel they won the argument. Is it right? No. Can it be changed? Absolutely, with COMMUNICATION. I don't know how you concluded that in my relationship, that my spouse and I call each other names? Maybe ignorance or arrogance from your part. I quoted the op's original post, which indicates that this was the first time. That she "THINKS" this could happen again (I underlined the word and bolded it for you too). Again I'm not saying the guy is an angel but humans make mistakes especially when angry. COMMUNICATION to establish BOUNDARIES is necessary (what I've been trying to say from the begining) walking away from the first argument doesn't establish your boundaries. Also what made you conclude he doesn't care? And if the op divorces her husband, I'm gonna be offended? That's a new one, I don't know the op, the op don't know me. It won't affect me in any way or shape. Congrats on coming close to your retirement and your 15th year anniversary. But I'm pretty sure your boundaries were not established without COMMUNICATION which what I've been trying to say the whole time. Im sure communicating doesn't make you miserable or in a bad marriage, I thought it would actually make your life with your spouse better. My views are dangerous to opinions that encourage spouses to walk away from a marriage just because one spouse made a mistake which is absolutely dangerous to humanity. If it's a repeat l, absolutely I got your back and I would say get out. But these two love birds just got married, they just had their real first argument. Why ruin their marriage by telling them to divorce when they can fix it? Op: you are an adult woman who is intelligent and knows what she wants from her spouse. I'm not advising you to stay in an unhealthy, unhappy, disrespectful relationship with your husband like these people are trying to make me sound like. What I'm advising is, since this is the first time your husband disrespected you in a moment of anger. Communicate your expectations to establish your boundaries. If such behavior re-occurs, than walking out is the strongest solution and divorce is an even better solution because you already established your boundaries. This is only an advise I'm not saying you should do it. You are a free woman who can chose how to direct her life.

Thanks for assuming that was my experience, but you know what assuming makes out of you. But to each their own. I value a relationship (especially a spouse), and I think those need harder work than walking away. Good night

But as you said OP is an adult and they know what's best for them. I might be to old school, but I dont give up without fixing first. If fixing is not an option for me than I walk away. Apologies if my views are too outdated.

I agree. But you can't factor out the human part. Every single human gets angry and says what they don't mean. What does that mean? Divorce and walk away? No, communicate and if the issue is not fix, than walk away and divorce.

This mentality is the reason why divorce rates are higher than 50 years ago. It destroys the fundamentals of marriage which are communication, respect and working together. Those 3 come even before love. Love fades away after a short while. Learning those 3 will make you dive deeper than love itself.

I didn't say tolerate it. I said communicate your expectations which should include respect from that spouse. The issue with many newly weds is they expect the other spouse to meet their non communicated expectation like that spouse is able to read minds. It doesn't work that way. Communication of expectations, goals and other stuff should happen before marriage in order to be in the same page and that would eliminate the being surprised by unknown things in marriage; which a lot of newer generations run to divorce as a solution. Divorce should be a last resort, not an lightly chosen option. Sit down with your spouse and figure it out, that's how old school did it and they learned to love each other with their flaws. Again I didn't say tolerate the behavior, I said communicate and if it happens again than use other option which might include separation or divorce. Men are not mind readers, and women are not either. Instead of walking off of a relationship because something simple, put your feelings aside and fix it. The true BS will be giving up at the beginning of the road because the man expects to be treated as king or the woman being treated as a queen when both are not on the same page.