Martiniolive

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i am going crazy. i admit it. thats good. i have an husband that is in ap. Only 2 months, I have so many secrets. AP is not that what is killling me. I dont care if its year. Thats not whats bothing me. I expect it. I am really depressed. Tammy i am not right. I am beyond.

I have a question for all the muslims please. And I will try to cut to the chase. When asked "how long my husband thinks we will be together'? his answer is "we can not know the future, only god knows the future"....he says thi8s is what his religion teaches. To me this is too vague an answer (especially after going thru the visa process!) Well after I explained to him that altho noone can control things like the weather or nature etc...we can still control things like getting a divorce or staying together forever until one of us dies. He than says yes we will stay together until one of us dies but we can not know what will happen in the future, and than he used this example : If we are going somewhere in the car, and we put in gas etc but when we go to start the car it will not run, what can we do? #######! I am not talking to him now! So am I just really missunderstanding...or is he missunderstanding his religion or does muslim religion teach this reguarding marriage?

Yeah It happens sometimes

How fun is redecorating?!? its theraputic i swear. lol I just spent this weekend rearanging furniture.

The only "ME" deco I have ae two handmade pali pillows that i have displayed.

Someone mentioned craiglist..yes yes! LOVE craiglist. Also thrift sotres sometimes have sheets or duvets ect.. if you find a fabric/pattern you like you can make your own curtains to cover the vertical blinds. Or.. if you dont want to sew.. lumber+batting+fabric of your choice+staple gun= 20 minute valance

I did this with the living room windows. I should take a pic huh? lol

On its way...

Lisa

do u feel older

Well I faxed my husband in morocco to test my fax and it is perfect! I think they are screwing us around for some inconcievable reason! They Su%$!

now they are faxed emailed and mailed!!!!!! If they still don't get them...I understand why peoplke try to cause harm to the consolates!!!!!!

That is the same fax number that is posted on the consulate web site: Fax: 212-2-220-4127

http://casablanca.usconsulate.gov/contact.html

It is completely possible that they have in fact received your faxes...but the fax is not getting to where it needs to go. I can tell you that their organization is not the best, and there are quite a few locals who actaully work for the consulate and do have access to the fax machine, are answering telephones, etc. So it sure wouldn't suprise me if "someone" is receiving your faxes and not forwarding them on to the CO handling your case.

I remember when our file was returned, I went back to Morocco and made a personal visit to deliver a letter to the CO who returned our file. My letter went into the hands of a local security guard, they would not let me hand it to anyone else. Now...tell me the CO really saw that letter which was addressed to her personally by name.

I absolutely agree with sending everything email, mail, DHL...every way you can get it to them. I can say that if you send it DHL it has to be signed for, even if it is a security guard, so there is a way to trace back whether they really got it or not. I certainly would do all of it and leave no stone unturned, and keep track of every single phone call, email, etc. If in fact your file is in fact returned you can provide all of this with your additional ongoing evidence after an NOIR/NOID is received.

Good luck to you...I keep trying to come back to the site to see if there is any word on your case.

~Kiyah~

thanks Kiyah. I swear we are having the worse luck eeevvver!

Ok.....as suggested I emailed the letters to the consolate and my hubby. Hubby will print them out and fax them to the consolate in morocco from morocco and he will also mail them to them from morocco . I will try again to fax them from here to morocco and lets just hope they do not run out of fax paper LOL. They will get these letters from every possible avenue so...if they still don't get them...there messin with us! Thanks for the sweet scan offer Yvette! "Love letter".....you two are so cute

Martini....not sure of the fax number.....BUT, what about attaching them and emailing to the ivcasablanca@state.gov email address? If you do not have a scanner....you can fax to me at work (303-433-5044) in the a.m. and I will scan and email back to you..THEN you can email to them. I know! seems a round robin way of doing it....but might work!

Let me know, I will check back in the morning!

Rajaa.....I think Martini needs to be our first "L.O.V.E letter" candidatel! What do you think??

L.O.V.E. Letter

L-Looking after

O-Our friends/families

V-Visa

E-Experience

See you guys in the morning!

Yvette

yeah how'd I get to be senior????? Is the consolate in charge of these boards????? LOL

How fun is redecorating?!? its theraputic i swear. lol I just spent this weekend rearanging furniture.

The only "ME" deco I have ae two handmade pali pillows that i have displayed.

Someone mentioned craiglist..yes yes! LOVE craiglist. Also thrift sotres sometimes have sheets or duvets ect.. if you find a fabric/pattern you like you can make your own curtains to cover the vertical blinds. Or.. if you dont want to sew.. lumber+batting+fabric of your choice+staple gun= 20 minute valance

I did this with the living room windows. I should take a pic huh? lol

On its way...

Lisa

do u feel older

B)

thanks for the tip on DHL Turia sweetie. Howze that hubby doing??? Is he driving yet?

I emailed them to ask them for their fax# but that one is the one on theyre website. But maybe someone else that was faxing them has a different number. I may have to fedX these to them but I hate to pay the $150 fee.

As if I am not going crazy as it is! The consulate keeps saying they

are not recieving my fax's!!!! I sent them sooo many at least 2 times

where are they going???????????

Please do any of you have the correct fax#? I have 21222204127

Do they post it on their website? Or have you emailed them to confirm its the correct number?

DHL is cheaper than fed ex

HAHAHAHA I gave him a lesson today and had to go have a beer after. Does that tell you something?

Wait a minute...Rajaa what does that mean "Senior Member"?????? Does that mean I have been on this forum for a long time or ???????? I'm not sure it's a good thing LOL

me tooo rooting for you ... i'll keep the vigil with you too if you like???

Amal I put your suirrel siggy picture on my msn and my husband thought they were having sex so had to remove it. Funny because I did not even think of that

martini, I have no idea what the fax number is but I certainly hope everything gets worked out ASAP!!!

Yes everytime. Also it faxes great here in USA. I am going to email them to my husband and he can fax them from morocco. Also I am going to fed X then to my husband to bring to the consolate also. I never paid so much for a husband in all my life! LOL

The number you quoted is the one I used a couple of years ago. Did the fax machine you used seem to indicate it went through?

thanks for the tip on DHL Turia sweetie. Howze that hubby doing??? Is he driving yet?

I emailed them to ask them for their fax# but that one is the one on theyre website. But maybe someone else that was faxing them has a different number. I may have to fedX these to them but I hate to pay the $150 fee.

As if I am not going crazy as it is! The consulate keeps saying they

are not recieving my fax's!!!! I sent them sooo many at least 2 times

where are they going???????????

Please do any of you have the correct fax#? I have 21222204127

Do they post it on their website? Or have you emailed them to confirm its the correct number?

DHL is cheaper than fed ex

I emailed them to ask them for their fax# but that one is the one on theyre website. But maybe someone else that was faxing them has a different number. I may have to fedX these to them but I hate to pay the $150 fee.

As if I am not going crazy as it is! The consulate keeps saying they

are not recieving my fax's!!!! I sent them sooo many at least 2 times

where are they going???????????

Please do any of you have the correct fax#? I have 21222204127

Do they post it on their website? Or have you emailed them to confirm its the correct number?

As if I am not going crazy as it is! The consulate keeps saying they

are not recieving my fax's!!!! I sent them sooo many at least 2 times

where are they going???????????

Please do any of you have the correct fax#? I have 21222204127

As if I am not going crazy as it is! The consulate keeps saying they

are not recieving my fax's!!!! I sent them sooo many at least 2 times

where are they going???????????

Please do any of you have the correct fax#? I have 21222204127

Thank you yvette, Thank you so much......I hope we hear some good news soon, you know how it is...no one else can know how these days are for us in AP limbo........you die a thousand deaths and still wake up in the morning LOL..........I will call casa again tomorrow morning, and fax them also...and email them .....Oh I am so happy for you and hope your daughter hears good news also. My husband wanted my daughter to meet his younger brother but my daughter would eat him alive hahah she's a double handful for any man!!!!! In fact I never think anyone here is good and sweet enough for his brothers, they are such nice respectful men. Martini AKA Virgintini

Martini...Every day..and in every way that you need..call me, email me, whatever, because this is not over yet, and i will do anything you ask! THANK YOU!

SIMO GOT HIS VISA TODAY!!! I AM NOT KIDDING! HE CAN PICK IT UP TOMORROW!!!!

Thank you again MENA....for last night! I could not have made it through another night of waiting without you!!!

Martiniolive...it was the letters! Do NOT give up!!

Brnidokiegurl....like I said...you are right there!!

Rajaa...you kept the vigil all night Shoukran Bzaaf Bzaaf!!

Nawal, Amal, Sereia.....words cannot express.....

Thank you SOO much!!!

congratulations!!!!! I hope the letters help us too .......I am all choked up for you..........

Martini...Every day..and in every way that you need..call me, email me, whatever, because this is not over yet, and i will do anything you ask! THANK YOU!

SIMO GOT HIS VISA TODAY!!! I AM NOT KIDDING! HE CAN PICK IT UP TOMORROW!!!!

Thank you again MENA....for last night! I could not have made it through another night of waiting without you!!!

Martiniolive...it was the letters! Do NOT give up!!

Brnidokiegurl....like I said...you are right there!!

Rajaa...you kept the vigil all night Shoukran Bzaaf Bzaaf!!

Nawal, Amal, Sereia.....words cannot express.....

Thank you SOO much!!!

congratulations!!!!! I hope the letters help us too .......I am all choked up for you..........

Hello/Esalaams!

Just a quick hi to everyone ... after I donnow how long without Internet .... and going from one doctor to next ... being sick then better, Eid and everyone coming to see my son!

Again thank you for all the emails and SMSs. All so so sweet!

My son is getting better from his jaundice elhamdullah since we are taking him to foto therapy. But they have found out 2 new things: 1, fungal infection on his little pee pee that they said stemmed form the hospital he was born in ... what a surprise. It looks like very bad diaper rash but only on his pee pee. He is suffering, crying all night long but I am praying the cremes and tonics are working. 2, They found irregularity in his heartbeat ... going throu whole load of tests for this! Trip to France up in the air ... since no papers yet ... and we will only go if his tests come back saying that something is wrong with his heart.

My hemmoraging stopped, but went back several times for re-stitch ... seemed like I will be in line for one of the "nice" vaginplasty (OMG I cannot believe I am saying that) they do in France! Not to mention numerous internal infections I will not speak of here.

I had way too much sh** from the ppl here almost to the point I almost called it quits with the husband ... but some friends, foreigner who are like my family here came to visit me ... really one special lady who pulled me thou/which put me straight... I took a breathe ... had loud music blasting, screaming, crying, running throu all the motions

Special hello to Kathleen, how have you been? I tried calling you but everytime I try it just rings and rings... finally eats up my card so I gave up! SORRY! I pray for you daily ...

Also hello to Dorothy, Jen, Noura, Karima, Staash, Moody, Amal and all the bunch!

boy Henia, sounds like you came thru hell...but you made it out!!!!! God bless you and your family. Never think to get a divorce always there is another way

As of 12:07 Georgia time Mohammed has his visa in hand!!!! All that remains is to get him here....thank God!!!!

Yes!!!!!!!!!!! Hope we are next!!!!

SIMO GOT HIS VISA TODAY!!! I AM NOT KIDDING! HE CAN PICK IT UP TOMORROW!!!!

Thank you again MENA....for last night! I could not have made it through another night of waiting without you!!!

Martiniolive...it was the letters! Do NOT give up!!

Brnidokiegurl....like I said...you are right there!!

Rajaa...you kept the vigil all night Shoukran Bzaaf Bzaaf!!

Nawal, Amal, Sereia.....words cannot express.....

Thank you SOO much!!!

congratulations!!!!! I hope the letters help us too .......I am all choked up for you..........

I would say that as long as your birth mother is not "showing" as such in any legal documemts, you should be ok.Or as ling as your wifes birth mother is not showing on any legal doc's too

After, My father passed away in india, At the age of 14, my uncle adopted me at the approval of my mother & brought me to US in 1994. I received my green card through adoption & have used my adoptive parents names in all official documents.

Now, I'm a US citizen who wants to bring my biological mother from india which I cannot do due to adoption.

Now, I'm going back to india to get married. Can I put my biological mother as my wife's mother & use my mother name in I-130, I-129F, G-325A, I-485, instead of using my wife's biological mother name. so that, my wife can apply for her when she becomes citizen.

basically, I want my biological mother to become my wife's mother.

My question is:

does immigration still has my orininal parents name?

will it safe to do this?

is it worth to take chance?

plz advise me on this issue. I will realy appreciated!

TinaMsea your timeline freaks me out.....I130 sent 06 approved 08???? Yikes girl!

We have been waiting, apart, for 856 days, not that I'm counting. That's 2 years and almost 5 months since I've seen my husband. Like S and S, we each have our good and bad days. It doesn't get any easier the longer it is and we always hold out hope that one day soon we'll finally be together. But neither of us will give up, even if I have to move there.

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