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After 3 years of "overtime" im officially 8 weeks pregnant. I had to go through and ultrasound every week for 3 weeks and serious bleeding in between, my third ultrasound finally showed my baby with a heartbeat.

God is great !

Joe and Myla

If you want a prenup all your property ( real or personal ) before marriage belongs to you exclusively and vice versa.

Whatever is acquired during the marriage belongs to the two of you.

As simple as that.

Don't be an enabler. If you keep sending they will also just keep sitting around . You are not the first and wont be the last.

go to walmart or most targets and you can get a prepaid cell phone with a certain amount of minutes on it,, before sending it activate everything for her so that when she gets to the usa all she has to do is turn it on,,add your nomber to the memory and she doesnt even have to worry about remembering youre #,,just a suggestion,,phones in the airports here in usa are a little confuseing for newcomers and without a ccard almost impossible to use good luck

This is what Im going to do when my Mom comes in May this year. Send her a prepaid cellphone..Im sure it will work

If you still have time before your trip, why not have your passport ammended to your married name? If you need to go to Washington for a personal appearance then go..sooner or later you will renew your passport and personal appearance is a requirement. I renewed and ammended mine before my trip and it was easier..my passport and greencard with the same names.

I worked as a nurse in Malaysia for 3 years so I had to obtain a Police clearance before my interview. what I did was go to the website of the Malaysian Embassy and downloaded the form. i then attached documents as proof of my employment there and submitted the same , with the fee to the malaysian embassy in Manila. I called the embassy and talked to somebody from there to expect my application. I had no problems at all, I went there personally during my medical to get the document.

goodluck

You have more than enough..goodluck!

The lower the exchange rate the better!!!

Went through SFO immigration in 2007 and it was a breeze. Just a few questions like " address in the US" purpose of the relocation" name of fiance...very easy.

Goodluck!!

P.S. Nobody will help you unload your luggages so exercise those arm muscles

I'll just do less thinking about the situation and go with the flow.

Am I happy with her? YESSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS. Would I care for her YESSSSSSSSSSSSSSS. Would I respect her YESSSSSSSSSSSSS!!! Would I trust her yes! until further notice.

My husband and I are surrounded with FIL-AM couples who have GIGANTIC age differences...yours is nothing!

First couple : She is 30 and He is now 75....they have a 5 yr old daughter....they got married when she was only 25 and he 70....BUT, they seem genuinely happy and she takes good care of him.

Second couple : She is now 35 and he 70...no kids. Been married for 7 years and still very happy

I can't say age doesn't matter, cause it mattered to me when I was "searching" but bottomline is its all about preference!Take care of yourself, be confident and secure in your age.

Goodluck!!!

We hae a big FIL-AM group here composed of couples from Ocala, Williston, Beverly Hills, Inverness which are part of Central Florida....we do get together a lot. A nice group with no issues at all

Welcome to Florida!

KSP strikes again

For future purposes, especially if there are properties involved, and to have PEACE OF MIND..continue your annulment in the Philippines and DONT remarry until the decision has been final and executory. Your citizenship is immaterial..as long as you got married in the Philippines while being a Filipino citizen, our Philippine family laws will haunt your status unless changed under our courts .

Goodluck!

If he is already here in the US, there is not much the group can do. Although they can still file the case and there will be a standing warrant of arrest for him if he decides to come back for a vacation. Our Philippine government has no jurisdiction on him now being here..as long as he didnt commit any crime here in the US, he should have no problem adjusting his status.

Sorrt to hear about your mom's predicament

In marriage , I believe that you always have a choice. You love this person and you want to make things work out, no matter how big the problem is. But if you tried everything and one of you is still miserable because your ways are so different, there is no need to stay.

I am praying for both of you . Goodluck

Its the first sign to stay away

My husband and I have a wonderful FIL-AM group, in fact we are going boating today, and we just love them. Different personalities and yet we all get along so well.

You have the choice , so dont get stressed. If you feel they are acting high and mighty, ignore them. Life is too short to be stressed by people who think they are better than others

Have fun!!!

Any reason why they are holding her visa?

I waited for my visa on hand before booking my ticket.

Anyway goodluck:)

I work the morning shift ( 7-3) and because I have an hour drive to work I wake up at 4:45am. My Joe usually wakes up with me, makes coffee and fix my coffee container to sip while I drive, he fixes my lunch too and start my car..all these while I shower, get dressed and fix myself. Then he walks with me, kisses me bye and goes back to bed. When I arrive at my workplace I call him to say I made it safe, this is about 6:35 and he is up again ready to start his day.

He never fails everytime I go to work.On top of it, he makes me laugh, 24/7. He just makes me feel so loved 24/7

There are a thousand reasons why I love this man, he just makes me happy.

Thats what happens when you play with nature.

May her soul rest in peace.

Sometimes things are better ironed out in person. Since you already have the visa and the ticket, why not come here and make use of the 90 day period to really get to know each other " in person"...if things still dont work out within that period, the go back to the Philippines.

It is still worth a try.

Goodluck

For my husband Joe : Happy Valentines!!!

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You and I together through eternity....

Myla

A CENOMAR ( Certificate of No Marriage) is only required for beneficiaries who has never been married in their lifetime ( single never been married ).

For your fiancee, she needs to get her MArriage ceritficate with annotation of her anullment.

Goodluck on the journey.

for myself te, I can feel that he loves me. He doesn't like arguments that he said I always build. Yes, we argued coz of her and I agree with him. It's unfair for my side that he has friend to run and I don't. He only acts like that if I build up arguments with him. His mom told me that he really don't like it. He told me couple of days ago that he loves me but he never expected that the marriage gone this way and so did I. But I can't just sit and shut my mouth.

Btw, His mom is in my side.

If he really loves you, you will be a very happy wife , not miserable. I would never tolerate such treatment...let alone from my husband. But people are built differently. You want to stay married to this person despite being unhappy..I guess you will have to lay on the bed that you made.

Goodluck may you find peace and happiness in the future.

Thank You!

Its been awhile since my last post, was able to read all your response. Thank you for expressing your advice and sympathy that in some way it made me feel better. It made me realize also that I need more myself to love before the other half. Id like to say that your posts guys made me stonger and that I need this marriage to work and not just sit and cry in one corner and that i need to do things that will make him realize also my worth.

Recent news that i heard from him is the friend is in prison now for 6months. Dont know exactly why but she has ticket of driving without license, used other names and others. As of today we are bit fine however, i can sense that his treatment with me has been changed differently he doesnt greet me in the morning or even kiss me. I could careless, if he treats me that way fine.

Again Thank you....

What I dont understand is why you have to put up with this behaviour?? Obviously he doesnt love you , so why stay?

You deserve better. Its time to leave .

Hubby taught me all the way..no shouting no yelling...been driving by myself for more than a year now and so far no accident..knock on wood.

My biggest achievements so far when it comes to driving is sending and picking up my husband from Tampa International Airport...did it 4times already. First time, I was shaking but the last two times, I was singing my life away.

I love driving in the US!