Lisa93

I meant we should have waited until our kids grow up. We had decided to get married because we wanted to be together and boys were good for a while. 
We didn’t expect this situation so we tried to fix for a year but it worsened. My son and I might go back to my country. Thank you all. 

I know.... but my husband is actually an counselor... that’s why he doesn’t want to get counseling and we decide to live separately to see for our kids. 
But thank you for your advice. 

Because I don’t want to be far from my husband like while I was waiting for K1 Visa in my country. 

Boys are trying to handle their anger focusing other things for over 1 year but that made themselves worse. We shouldn’t have involved them in our marriage. 

I know.... but my husband is actually an counselor... that’s why he doesn’t want to get counseling and we decide to live separately to see for our kids. 
But thank you for your advice.