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  1. On 2/27/2019 at 11:27 PM, David1987 said:

    Well that is quite an exhaustive list already and m surprised they asking more on top of dat. Like I don't even have half of that. I got no kids cuz we keep trying and he won't just get pregnant. We don't have a house together and the rent is on his name. He is more than twice my age and I'm the breadwinner in the house. So if there's anything they've seen before I'm not part of that and they sure would ask me for an rfe and maybe they will...

    What m tryna say is u don't need to change your house title or deed to put her name...just show evidence of a travel trip or something u did on valentine or dinner date receipts. Something that is genuine and unique to you two other than the formal and forced evidence they are used to. They want something refreshing. Surprise them..I know far more ppl who provided far less evidence and got approved far sooner than us

    This is very true, I sent my response to the RFE earlier in February and my application got approved on Feb 21 and got the card after a few days. We are pretty young gay couple in NYC with no children, property, or anything "adult"-y to show. However, we sent utility bills in both of our names, lease, affidavits, emergency contact information and a ####### ton of pictures ranging from drunken make out snapchats to half naked instagram photos to birthday parties. Most of the documents were very casual and we explained it in the cover letter that we have no interest to own properties or to have children anytime soon. I think it lacked the polished or professional look you'd imagine they want, but it was very real and we were very honest about what the marriage means to us. It worked out well, so don't fret over making the application/response to RFE super precise, just make it real :)       

  2. Saw some scary posts (thankfully I didn't find this thread before travelling lol), and I posted this positive one on October filer folder but here it goes:

     

    Just for the peace of mind for anybody travelling, I just came back from Bangladesh (10 days) without my hubby. Landed at jfk, showed my expired GC and 18 month extension letter, they did take me to another room for further review but that seemed only for verifying the originality of the letter, no interview or anything like that. Gave me everything back without question after half an hour (there were other people going under further review so it takes a bit). TLDR; As long as your letter is real and your background is clear, travelling into the country is no issue at all :)

  3. Just for the peace of mind for anybody travelling, I just came back from Bangladesh (10 days) without my hubby. Landed at jfk, showed my expired GC and 18 month extension letter, they did take me to another room for further review but that seemed only for verifying the originality of the letter, no interview or anything like that. Gave me everything back without question after half an hour (there were other people going under further review so it takes a bit). TLDR; As long as your letter is real and your background is clear, travelling into the country is no issue at all :)

  4. 33 minutes ago, NeedMoreCoffee said:

    Just make sure you update your name and address with USPS too :D Mail man wont hand you your mail if they dont have your Name attached with your new address on file. Especially when they are federal documents involved. This has happened to me loads of times :/ 

    Haha yes, I change with USPS the day before I move in. Learned it the hard way when a stupid cheap medical bill went to collection agency because I never even got it .....

  5. Hi all, just found this thread. I filed mine in Oct 21, 2017, and got NOA and Biometrics done by Nov 2 (which now I am finding out was super fast? since some of you have not even got biometrics appointment yet??......)

     

    Now my notification is stuck on that March 5th case received at your local office step, and the case inquiry for beyond March 29 but honestly I do not see the point of doing that since people from 2016 are still stuck at this process haha. Thought it would be helpful to share with you October filers :) 

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