TearsOfBabylon

Hey hey girl! 
Walk on fighting with your chin up high!
I do respect a lot that you're straight out and realistic and not running behind a phantom.
Like someone else said differently earlier: This guy must be blind to not see the great person he's pushing away. 

I can totally understand your feelings, and how you are torn between hoping and walking away. I've spent much, or better wasted much lifetime on a wrong person, who hurt me in the worst ways. I was fighting alone as well, and it took an eternity until I had the strength to just give up and let go. After that I was in my nutshell, decided to stay single forever. Well, you can see: Someone opened the nutshell and lurked in.
Never loose faith!

I think, what you are doing is right. See what happens if you back off, and if nothing happens til NOA2, you know what you have to do. 
Whomever with it will be: I wish you the best of luck and tons of happiness. 
Your heart will tell you the right to do, and if it can't fully decide, let the mind and brain help it.

Glad you're still with us and will remain!
Big hug from potatoland! :*

It's my birthday today and this year is the hardest birthday and I know its because I am not with him. My family is doing a great job though. My fiance sent me a card that says Loving You on the outside and then on the inside it says Still the Best idea I ever had Happy Birthday. lol Corny but I love him so much. He says he has a gift for me but wants to give it to me in person.

Me too!
My tentative plan is so perfect I do realise though that things are highly unlikely to happen according to it

@Estibaliz:
Before I forget: When you're in SLC, we have to meet up for coffee americano, once we go to West Point, UT for visiting his parents!


Hooooorraaaaay Whiners! 
It's June finally, and we can go on whining!!!  I hope the first of us will get a NOA2 soon, so we can breath and know they're really touching March!
I'm still not freaking out about the wait.. something must be wrong with me!

@Estibaliz:
Before I forget: When you're in SLC, we have to meet up for coffee americano, once we go to West Point, UT for visiting his parents!


Hooooorraaaaay Whiners! 
It's June finally, and we can go on whining!!!  I hope the first of us will get a NOA2 soon, so we can breath and know they're really touching March!
I'm still not freaking out about the wait.. something must be wrong with me!

@Estibaliz:
Before I forget: When you're in SLC, we have to meet up for coffee americano, once we go to West Point, UT for visiting his parents!


Hooooorraaaaay Whiners! 
It's June finally, and we can go on whining!!!  I hope the first of us will get a NOA2 soon, so we can breath and know they're really touching March!
I'm still not freaking out about the wait.. something must be wrong with me!

That would be so nice 
And nothing is wrong with you. What's the point on freaking out? Keep it cool, you are closer
 

@Estibaliz:
Before I forget: When you're in SLC, we have to meet up for coffee americano, once we go to West Point, UT for visiting his parents!


Hooooorraaaaay Whiners! 
It's June finally, and we can go on whining!!!  I hope the first of us will get a NOA2 soon, so we can breath and know they're really touching March!
I'm still not freaking out about the wait.. something must be wrong with me!

I never meant to be rude, so I apologise if you thought that was my intention. That's not me.
 
I thought your attitude is endearing on how much your miss your fiancee and it was a friendly joke because I think we all will be very happy for you when you get your NOA2. Nothing else.

That's good you're taking pills! I'm taking them too. I'm better now. I can eat basically anything without caring. I'm so glad that phase is gone out of my life. Weight doesn't really bother me much, although even though I have a thyroid problem, I can eat quite a bit. I guess it's luck lol. 
 
Yay, it's finally June. Hopefully soon we will see the approvals rolling in for March. 

I'm sorry, I didn't mean to offend you. I wrote that as a friendly joke.
Actually, it's worth admiring that you are always willing to share your feelings.
Waiting is hard for all of us, and I do apologise if my attempt to lighten things up sounded rude to you.

Yep, he meant NOA1. The day he gets NOA2 we'll have fireworks on VJ
 
Happy June, March filers
 

Oh wow! Tough story you have! I hope you're better these days?

Nah, I only gained weight for no reason, and I think now I know why I was so edgy all the time.
I haven't seen a doctor in years, so who knows for how long I have that already.
Seems like it made a jump to the worse januarish... but since I'm on pills now it will be fine!



Yaaaaaaaay, whiners! The day after tomorrow we have JUNE!

Juuuune 🎉I want to see our months forum filled with approvals! It'll make me so happy  not expecting mine til July likely since I'm towards the end of march filers but you never know!!!! ❤️ In a few short months, this gap in distance will be a memory and we'll allllll be with our significant others which is SO exciting to think about. Like, I think people who are not going through this situation have no idea what it's like. Sometimes I ask my friends "what are you guys up to?", and they reply that they're just sitting at home watching tv with their boyfriend/girlfriend and I'm like, uhh you have no idea I would give anything just for us to finally be together in the same place, permanently, not just vacations to visit each other ha! It's now been three months that we've been apart since our last visit and I'm just annoyed at the wait, like everyone else I  just want the waiting to be over lol. Let's all put good vibes out there!!! Xoxo

Finally June is here 🎉 I expect a few lucky 🍀 people to receive their NOA2 ☺ not long now for us all God willing 83 day mark for us since filed ☺ who'd have thought it would go so quick 😁 

Ours is scheduled for July too! I hope we all get our approval before the 100th day mark  

It's already June over here! 😊😊😊 OMG! I'm sure next week we'll see comments here that they already have the noa2! 😊😊 Our petitioners should start checking their mailboxes ❤ Can't waaaait!

good hear from you.
remember my story about my first k1?, i guess you red it, my first k1 i went to interview , i was approved but i was put in AP for long time , the long ap destroyed my relationship, but it was the best thing that God could do, now i am with a vey good man, and i am so happy.
dont get marry just thinking that the things will be better getting marry.
if he isnt the right person for you just listen God, God will bring the right person to your life

Hi my beloved March Whiners! I appreciate the concern about how I'm doing. I'm doing as good as one can hope for considering the circumstances.
 
I'm slowly getting over the loss of my fur baby. There's still times where I wake up in the middle of the night expecting to hear her snoring, but alas there's only silence & my fan going. I got her ashes back last Friday so she's finally home (kind of morbid, maybe... but I somewhat feel better having her close). I keep having to argue my family down to not get me another dog as they think it'll make me feel better. I just can't do it right now and wouldn't be fair to not mourn her loss the right way.
 
I've been trying to keep busy so I don't sit for too long and start thinking about everything. My mom and step dad recently opened up a Mexican Taco Truck (it's so funny seeing a Cuban woman making Mexican tacos.. never thought I'd see the day) so I've been spending my weekends there mainly helping out and getting paid in free tacos (yumm..). We're participating in a Food Truck Festival this Saturday so that should be fun. Also keeping busy at work as well. I know I'll most likely be getting layed off in Sept, but I just don't have any nagging feelings of looking for something else yet. I know God will let me know when it's time and when he's opened up the perfect position for me. Working out has been a great stress reliever too. Been trying to work out every day and I work out with a trainer 3x a week who has been a great friend, mentor, therapist, and drill sergeant. He listens to me and then makes me work out so hard I'm too tired to think about anything else afterward. Best part is he doesn't flinch when I begin to cuss him out for making me run LOL.
 
I finally started going out too and went dancing Friday night with my sis and a co-worker to this lounge that has Latin Nights on Fridays. I'm usually a hermit who stays home and watches Netflix or the Fire stick all night, but I had a blast and was able to salsa dance my worries away for the night... I'm hesitant to say I met someone at the lounge. We danced, had good chemistry and he was patient when I tried leading him instead of the other way around LOL! But, I'm not ready. I'm not ready to even think about anything at this point because I'm still stuck on my ex-fiance... I guess I can call him that now. It's been almost 2 months since I've talked to my ex and I've tried to reach out to him to no avail. I think it's safe to say that it's over even though I have this feeling telling me not to give up. I just can't fight alone. I guess it would be different if he actually responded to my advances, but because he hasn't I have to kind of give up. I'll keep the visa going at least until it gets to the embassy and see what happens from there; I hope things change but I also know if it doesn't then I'll have to move on sooner or later.
 
I continue to pray and put faith in God. I'm trying not to worry about the things that are going on and that I'm unable to control. God always gets his way and will make sure what's yours will be yours and what's not for you will go away forever. He always has a way for you to learn your lesson even if it has to be the hard way because your hardheaded. So we'll see what happens.
 
I'm praying for you March filers to get your NOA2 ASAP. We're finally in June! Can you believe? And here we were in March and April talking about OMG CAN JUNE/JULY COME ALREADY?!?!!?! Why is it taking so looonngg?!?! and BAM we're here! LOL!! We have some really special people in our monthly thread and I can't wait for everyone to be with the loves of their lives and begin their new chapter with their other half.

Yeah, compared to so many upcoming years together this wait is chicken #######!
We gotta stay positive and keep us up with stuff like that!  

Though I hate that the estimated date moves in the wrong direction!
I hope middle September is still possible.

I'm scheduled for July as well =/ Oh well, atleast we are past May now =)

Even a day is long enough... How dramatic is that? Hah
But the good thing is, this time, when you get to see each other again, it will be forever 

Curious to know how long that has been. Our longest time apart was 10 months, and at a time things were not as bright as nowadays, so yep... that was hard but we made it
 
And BTW, I also hope Jennifer (aka CubaandChill) is doing fine
 
 

It will be the last time we do see each other till I can immigrate to USA 🇺🇸 fingers crossed 🤞🏻 

I hope you'll have yours forever at that time. Because my NOA1 date is 11 days after yours, haha!

Lucky people, you can see each other so often. 
I'm glad we're dealing with this distance so good. Others would die having not seen the significant other for the amount of time I haven't seen mine.