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Thank you all for the help,,,
looks like I will be the one traveling again ,, been there before lol,,,,,,,, just thought It could have worked because I never saw a  C/1 before ,  it’s huge expense to go back and forth from states every month or month and half ,,,,,,,,, I guess I can just build my miles up lol ,,, and no I’m not one to just go get a k1 Visa .. takes time to know someone ,,,, 

The C/D visa can only be used if she obtains or resumes employment and is using the visa in conjunction with that. It cannot be used in place of a tourist visa.
 
...it's not the best English, but it seemed pretty clear to me.

That's very helpful. Thanks a lot! 

1. He has to establish domicile in the US and move back to the US before or together with his foreign spouse. The spousal visa is for family unification. I’m sure his wife wouldn’t want to leave her husband and move halfway around the world without him.... 
 
2. Yes. He has to fill out an I-864 to show that he meets 125% of the poverty guidelines. The I-864 includes dependants  in the household size. He will not be able to use his income from abroad to meet the requirements of the i-864 unless the income will continue from the same source once he moves back to the US.
 
3. Not meeting financial obligations such as child support can have an impact on the immigration process. Not sure about the spouse support though. How can he still be on the hook for that five years after your divorce? Come on, you don’t need your ex to support yourself anymore. It’s 2017, women are strong, independent and fully capable of taking care of themselves. Let him go and start leading your own life.

5 years and you're still getting spousal support? You sound like that's all you care about. You want him to stay overseas because he'll make more and you're worried you'll get less. 
 
If he makes above the poverty limit and establishes domicile in the United States (he could use a family member's in the United States) 
Then he should be able to qualify and you will need to learn to be happy about it or at the very least accept it. 
 
Get on with your life. 

If Mrs. T-B. had pulled any of this, before or after marriage, her shapely hindquarters would have been kicked back to Ecuador on the first available vehicle.  It sounds as though you've tried everything within reason, but she won't compromise; therefore, cut the ties, heal, and look toward someone who's interested in a true partnership.

K1 hit it on the head  You are not visiting! I had this conversation with a co-passenger and an attendant on my flight hahahah