darstar007

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Damara, thank you for the detailed and thoughtful response. Contrarian views are welcome too. I would just say that my case is more complex than I am able to reveal in this forum. There are multiple supporting evidence which would be used to bolster my case. When presented with this evidence my ex seems to have panicked that her act has come to light. She was willing to leave a few hundred thousand dollars on the table and cash out with a settlement for much less than she would have gotten if the divorce had played out. I am unsure of her or her mother's whearabouts at this point, but I just want to make sure the government is aware so that I am not on the hook if they decide to stay in the USA. I am under no illusions that it will be easy or quick, but it is something that I will need to follow through on.

Damara, thank you for the detailed and thoughtful response. Contrarian views are welcome too. I would just say that my case is more complex than I am able to reveal in this forum. There are multiple supporting evidence which would be used to bolster my case. When presented with this evidence my ex seems to have panicked that her act has come to light. She was willing to leave a few hundred thousand dollars on the table and cash out with a settlement for much less than she would have gotten if the divorce had played out. I am unsure of her or her mother's whearabouts at this point, but I just want to make sure the government is aware so that I am not on the hook if they decide to stay in the USA. I am under no illusions that it will be easy or quick, but it is something that I will need to follow through on.

Damara, thank you for the detailed and thoughtful response. Contrarian views are welcome too. I would just say that my case is more complex than I am able to reveal in this forum. There are multiple supporting evidence which would be used to bolster my case. When presented with this evidence my ex seems to have panicked that her act has come to light. She was willing to leave a few hundred thousand dollars on the table and cash out with a settlement for much less than she would have gotten if the divorce had played out. I am unsure of her or her mother's whearabouts at this point, but I just want to make sure the government is aware so that I am not on the hook if they decide to stay in the USA. I am under no illusions that it will be easy or quick, but it is something that I will need to follow through on.

Thanks for the reply but....you are wayyy off. First of all I did NOT fill out any form for support. My ex did everything behind my back until her mother arrived including forging my signature and financial information on form i-864a. Also divorce would NOT eliminate my sponsorship of her mother (it is easy to find this information on the USCIS website).
http://www.uscis.gov/green-card/green-card-processes-and-procedures/affidavit-support
"Note: Divorce does NOT end the sponsorship obligation."
This is not about revenge, this is about not being financially responsible for someone I did NOT agree to support

Thanks for the reply but....you are wayyy off. First of all I did NOT fill out any form for support. My ex did everything behind my back until her mother arrived including forging my signature and financial information on form i-864a. Also divorce would NOT eliminate my sponsorship of her mother (it is easy to find this information on the USCIS website).
http://www.uscis.gov/green-card/green-card-processes-and-procedures/affidavit-support
"Note: Divorce does NOT end the sponsorship obligation."
This is not about revenge, this is about not being financially responsible for someone I did NOT agree to support

Advice noted. Thanks very much.

Thanks for the reply but....you are wayyy off. First of all I did NOT fill out any form for support. My ex did everything behind my back until her mother arrived including forging my signature and financial information on form i-864a. Also divorce would NOT eliminate my sponsorship of her mother (it is easy to find this information on the USCIS website).
http://www.uscis.gov/green-card/green-card-processes-and-procedures/affidavit-support
"Note: Divorce does NOT end the sponsorship obligation."
This is not about revenge, this is about not being financially responsible for someone I did NOT agree to support