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This is great. Still keep ur down low ok with these girl tho. Hope you're having such an amazing time.

I still have not told them anything about what I did concerning fraud reporting and his visa...

That's awesome that you guys can all commiserate together.

Has he tried to contact you at all since he was put out?

No. I haven't heard a peep. I don't care if he does though, I'd just laugh and hang up.

It does say, "FRA"

This fool is a bunch of donkey feed that has passed through the donkey! (I think that is a saying in Pashto, and if it's not, it is now!)

Why is he in the driver's seat in your 5 of 5 photo? Off the plane in Jamaica and then allowed to drive in Sweden? With a Schenegen visa from France? Man........

Sorry to hear that, you are blessed to find out now better then later.

its is a Schengen visa issued from France embassy in Kingston (for EU countries) and it is a visitor visa © for 90 days, and he was granted this visa easly since he already have US visa on his passport.

be aware that he will came to US after 90 days if you don't cancel his visa, cause he is not allowed to work or study with visitor visa..

For the driver seat, he can drive over there if he asked for international Driving licence in Kingston.( i know that is possible for people from other countries to drive at EU countries as a visitor)

Good luck

In the driving photo the steering wheel is on the right meaning the car drives on the left. Europe (except the UK) drives on the right but Jamaica drives on the left...

They were engaged in Jamaica when she was there a week after I left. So the right hand steering wheel makes sense bc the photo was taken in JA.

Not only is this guy a dimwit but also a psychopath. why would a person do that to another

he needs to be reported to Interpol for fleecing women in all these different countries.

OP I know you have began to feel detest by now . Maybe the idiot believes he can tell you

all this & still use the visa....This man is stupid & dangerous and really sully those men still

in Jamaica that are good intentioned towards their spouses/mates.

I hope there are good ones out there. I really don't want to see others go through this.

OP, please keep us posted and let us know if he contact you again. He was definitely carrying "belly" (grudge) for you. Be happy he is gone. Something tells me that he will try to enter the US when he departs Europe. He is not that smart.

He or She continues to call. I continue to not answer. I'm assuming it will stop soon.

This may be superficial as heck but...dude ain't even that cute!

Ha. Thanks, but yes he is...and he knows it.

Contact Swiss embassy ASAP!!!

What can they do?

So why is he trying to contact you, rub your nose in it?

With him, I really have no idea. He's cruel, so it's probably something harsh. Like wedding photos or sonograms or something.

I'll never know, as I won't take his calls and blocked the new number from my messengers.

OP, please keep us posted and let us know if he contact you again. He was definitely carrying "belly" (grudge) for you. Be happy he is gone. Something tells me that he will try to enter the US when he departs Europe. He is not that smart.

I don't see why he'd leave Europe. He told me they're going to marry, so he'll apply for some sort of adjustment at that point.

His visa has been canceled and the appropriate authorities from all countries have been notified. Including the Swiss.

He did call me last night, from his bright and shiny new Swiss number. I didn't answer.

Thanks again everyone. Your kind words have helped a lot.

To him I say: FYAH FI YUH and good riddance.

She is right.. Maybe they would remove the post if she didn't, otherwise I would definitely expose him. It's her photos, he sent them to her, she can chose to do whatever she want with them. I'm furious for this man.

I'm Sorry if this is a violation of the rules.

Congratulations, you narrowly avoided marrying a complete and utter psychopath. I'm sorry he hurt you, you don't deserve it (no one does, not even that Swiss lady) but you got lucky in this case. Let him stew in his evil ways. Onward and upward for you, friend.

Thank you. I don't blame her and I do not wish her ill. I do not think she knows a thing about me or our engagement/time together. I believe she is an innocent victim as well.

It's hard for me to tell if it's legit or not with photoshop these days. That's a class C visa. Maybe u should google what class C visa into Switzerland is used for. One of the pic she took a selfie, the pic in the room can be anywhere, just not not about the boarding pass.. Hmm.. And that's his finger and leg in the pic where he's holding her hands right.. I don't know what to say, just get everything for him that involve you cancelled and if you feel like you want to try and jeprodise his visa to Switzerland, all you can do is maybe contact the embassy. Otherwise just take a break, cry if you want, party and be happy.. To hell with people who may judge you.

I'm the only one who has photoshopped those photos. Just to remove personal info. They are unmodified other than that. http://www.izitru.com/

http://www.ambafrance-uk.org/How-to-read-a-Schengen-Visa,21475

So he's in France on a short stay visa?

These are the @#$%^ that make it hard for good people. You did nothing wrong and the hurt will pass. Be glad that this happened now rather than after you got married to him. The best thing you can do is move on and live a happy life. He will not prosper, karma will get him. I assume you are Jamaican born and it might be hard to explain to the people around you what happened but don't let anyone make you feel guilty. You took a chance on love and that's commendable. That chick probably knows nothing about you and he's just trying to make you feel bad. You have missed out on nothing but pain. Call embassy, cry, delete him and move on with your life.

I know, I feel so bad he did this bc it does impace future filers. I apologize to all of you for his horrible actions.

I'm not Jamaican born, I am American

I'm trying to understand why he shared all the photos with you? to grind it in?

One evil man. Try to remind yourself that having this all happen now was a blessing. You got to see who the guy is before you married him.

(((hugs)))

I know, thank you. I'm experiencing serious dissonance between heart and mind at the moment.

Here is what he sent me, you guys tell me if it is legit. I think it is.

I smudged up faces and names.

Here is wha he sent me, you guys tell me if it is legit. I think it is.

I smudged up faces and names.

Did he showed you just a stamp or did he sent u a pic with the visa? Since he's so conniving and could possible be in Switzerland, if he ever message u again, just use your trick on him and say you don't believe him and you still believe you will see him soon and if her persit cussing and being rude try to get him to send a copy of the visa page, tell him you won't believe until you see the visa. I hope this will work if you do not have a pic of it already.

Here is what he sent me, you guys tell me if it is legit. I think it is.

I smudged up faces and names.

Thank you, everyone for your kind words and advise.

Yes, I did cancel his flight. I did this as soon as I found out about him going to EU.

Fortunately, I have an attorney who helped with the immigration process. She is making the appropriate calls/sending emails to ensure the authorities know the situation. The visa will be invalid ASAP.

She is also able to see if his visa has been used for entry to the U.S. and is monitoring it. It has not been used yet. I really do believe he is in Switzerland.

The U.S. visa did come through about a month prior to the Swiss one. He just decided she was the better option; she isn't "a pain in the ###".

I am done with him; I know it's better. It just hurts. I still can't wrap my head around him sending me the pictures and calling me with all the details. When I asked him why he stayed with me the whole time he said "you put me against you in my heart and I wanted to screw you over".

^^^ this was my thought too....something sounds fishy and throwing the Switzerland curve ball might give him the time he needs to get into the US using the visa he has in hand. You need to get things rolling here fast to have the visa cancelled, it may already be too late, who knows he sounds like a real piece of work ugh.

Nope, He is in Switzerland. He sent photos of the stamped visa yesterday.

What?! So basically he was involved with two people just seeing which visa arrived fastest?! I'm so, so sorry for you and all the heartache you must be feeling. Sounds like you had a lucky escape overall - although I know that will be of little comfort right now!

What does he mean 'she's ok about you'? Like you're supposed to be fine with being used???

Yes, "she is the better woman" because she is OK with every little thing. Apparently she doesn't mind that he was with me at the same time, doesn't question his lies, sent him money on demand, etc.