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Not only is this guy a dimwit but also a psychopath. why would a person do that to another
he needs to be reported to Interpol for fleecing women in all these different countries.
OP I know you have began to feel detest by now . Maybe the idiot believes he can tell you
all this & still use the visa....This man is stupid & dangerous and really sully those men still
in Jamaica that are good intentioned towards their spouses/mates.

I didn't misread anything... "you said you went through the same thing with everyone saying he was a scammer"... hense identifying with her circumstance of people saying her fiancee was a scammer. Key words being 'went through same thing'... nope.. don't believe I missed anything at all.
Everyone on this thread has only tried to give her sound advice. She has never met this man before. Over cam he can be anything she wants him to be. He can be anything he wants to be. Its just plain unwise thinking to try to bring someone, a stranger, into your home that you've never met before. And talking over skype doesn't qualify as meeting.

It is not likely that he will be granted a tourist visa, he must show very strong ties to his country (research this site what that is) to qualify
and even with strong ties evidence he probably won't get it and there goes money down the drain again which you don't have to waste.
Make a loan, borrow it if you have to and go during off season when you can find a cheaper ticket.
Go to the Sub-Saharan forum and ask where they got their tickets online and where is a safe place to stay in the city he lives in.
Nigeria is totally safe if you understand the country on a deeper level not just listen to the surface stories.
Meet his family and friends. Extremely important for your embassy !!!!!
Get to know one another. Take lots and lots of photos with his family as evidence for your next petition.
Research here what front loading means and follow that advice. You can keep wasting hundreds of dollars just winging it or you can
take the advice from those who have gone before you and get it right.
I advise you to visit at least 2 to 3 times before you file because weekly we hear of denials for not enough time spend together.
If you can stay for a couple of month even better to really immerse yourself into the culture and family.
This is a very difficult journey and there will be many bumps on the road.
We were denied with 4 trips and it took us 5 years to be together.
Get to know each other face to face, not just screen time, you can also marry there IF you are certain he is the one and file a CR1 instead.
When K1's get refused and returned they expire, a spousal visa CR1 has a second chance to overcome any potential hurdles.
You have a lot of thinking to do.
Just don't blindly jump into marriage or engagement not having spend time together.
If I had a dollar for every time someone on here 100% believed their relationship was real but they were used for a green card I would
have a sack full of money.
No one wants to believe that their relationship is not real until it happens to them and they become a statistic.
I don't think it's right for someone to tell you to run just because their relationship went sour but I am a firm believer in getting to really know
someone face to face before taking such a huge step. Reality and romance don't mix sometimes and you have to get out of your
heart and into your head to think things through.
I really wish you the very best and a successful journey with your next petition.
If you don't get several visits in your K1 will likely be denied and you have wasted time and money and have to start over a third time.
Before you know it you have spend thousands of dollars and wasted several years and still aren't together.
Take it slow and get it right.

Report away. If you have been on VJ long enough you will understand why alarm bells are ringing loudly in this instance.

The posters on here are only trying to give you sound advice. I'll be straight... to commit to marry someone you have never met is not exactly best thinking. To bring a stranger into your home, from another country, or anywhere that you have never met is not the best thinking. You may think you know him, but you do not. The person you talk to on the internet is just an image. He can be anyone you want him to be. When I met my fiancee I spoke to him on the internet for over a year. Your mind conjures up all types of images of who he is, what type of person he is, how tall us he, .... mostly your imagination. Yes, he fills in facts... but it really doesn't hit home. When I finally met him in person I had to get to know him all over again. It was a strange adjustment for me. But I traveled to him to meet him. I didnt bring a stranger into my home. I met him, his family... I spent time to get to know him. This man you met, or any other... domestic or international. ... your only asking for trouble bringing a complete stranger into your home. Safety first. That being said.... I also agree with the others... it is a requirement that you meet in person. And for a high fraud country he would not be issued a visitors visa.

If you're concerned about finances or the safety of Nigeria, perhaps a trip to a neutral country where you both need to travel? He can go to the Dominican or Barbados visa free.

I am not the one who bashed your relationship so I am not sure who you directed this second 'enough is enough' comment to.
I have been nothing but supportive with common sense advice.
By the way....my husband is Nigerian and we are very happy and I wish you the same.
I don't know you or your fiance and just made the comment that a bit of investigating is good for anyone anywhere, abroad or in the US.
I don't feel that is bashing your relationship at all but cautionary and well meaning.
Glad to hear you did your homework on him, then we are in agreement, not so ? Then why the ruffled feathers.

There are bad apples in every country, every part of the world. Ironically the divorce rate amongst Americans is one of the highest. All anyone can say is take your time, pray about it and get to know him well. There are no guarantees in life not even amongst those marrying from low fraud countries. Divorces are running rampant right here in the US. Make sure you seek advice from your parents, close friends and Clergy if applicable. I'm very happy with my Nigerian man but sensibility is required.

Financial hardship won't do it. Either you both have to be so sick that you can't travel and proof it or your social customs forbid to meet.
Even if you would be approved by USCIS for a very good reason, you wouldn't be approved at the embassy stage.
You must also show proof of meeting the financial aspect, 125% poverty guidelines, if you can't afford a $900 ticket then how will you be able
to show financial support ?
You will be denied, sorry but those are the hard facts. You are wasting a whole lot of time and money, withdraw the petition, go and visit
and re file with the proper supporting evidence. Your flag is Nigeria and your consulate shows Armenia, which is it ?
Lagos is hell to go through and not having met will never result in approval, there are couples who have visited several times and still get denied.
Why you feel you must marry someone you have never met in person is something you should explore.
Have met in person within 2 years before filing this petition, unless you establish that either:
The requirement to meet your fiance in person would violate strict and long-established customs of your or
your fiance's foreign culture or social practice; or the requirement to meet your fiance in person would result in extreme hardship to you.

Another desperate woman who thinks she alone can change a man. I don't know why some women set such low standards for themselves.
They are playing the same movie over and over in their lives, just with different men.
They don't believe they are worthy of respect and love so they settle once again for the scum of the earth and these men know it and exploit it and that is the reason this game continues.
He is a spoiled brat and not being held accountable to his actions by this other woman and gets by with whatever he wants. For now.
Knowingly staying with him is just ludicrous. Miss Swiss will soon sing the song of lamentation while Mr. Hot Pants moves
on to another victim with a smirk on his face. SMH. He has no clue that what goes around comes around... eventually.
OP I applaud you ! I would have done exactly what you did.

This ^^^^!!
Stay strong! Rooting for you!

I am glad to hear that you are strong and getting through this and broke all contact with him. You go girl

I spoke with the Swiss lady. Sent her photos, chat logs, texts, etc. Showing that he is not being honest with her about things. He was in the background saying he had broken up with me, etc. So I sent her his texts saying "I love you" from days ago.
She says she knows he's a liar but she hopes he will grow tired of lying and he will stop. She says she knows hes been cheating but hopes now that he is there he will stop. She says he knows he wanted $ and that she hopes she can show him love is not money and he will change.
She married another man when she was 19 who was only after a visa. I told her she did the exact same thing again.
It's her choice if she wants to believe anything. I did what I would have wanted someone to do for me. I can let it go now.

An RFE means you have to send in more evidence or possibly fix a form error. No need for an attorney. Often just rereading instructions and paying attention to detail.

The cost of AOS should be figured into the cost of the getting the partner here IMHO. If you do not AOS, you cannot get a driver's license or a job, and you have no status in the USA. Technically you can be deported. It's highly unlikely to happen; they'd most likely say hey, do the AOS, but it's there, none-the-less. Some people use it to control their foreign spouses.
There is nothing that says you MUST AOS within a certain time frame, but you essentially become a homebody if you don't. You can't even volunteer for many jobs.
Also think of this this way, if you can't afford $1070, what happens if the car breaks down? What happens if the US spouse gets hurt and can't work but doesn't have insurance to cover that? People fall in love and don't think about the cost of a two person household. It can be more than double a single person.

Please do just as "Ryan H has suggested.
I know you feel like the world just feel on top of you.
But, this man was not for you, if he is this kind of person.
His "Swiss sweetie" will get her's later on, he is a "bad apple" and will not change.
A week from now, you will see that your friends told you, you are way better off to find out now, not a year from now.
I still feel really bad for you, may whom ever you believe to be the supreme being, give you comfort, and peace, I can imagine how I would feel, you are hurt now, it will turn to something
different in a few weeks.
Please do not let him "weasel" back into your life.

You don't feel it right now but he was not the one for you and if he's doing this to you and her trust he will do it again. Pray to God for him,forgive him cause honestly he's not worth it and you deserve better. My bff is married to a Jamaican man and one bad apple or all bad apples make it hard for everyone. At the end of the day he can kick rocks. I really sincerely hate this because this makes it hard for anyone.
In case you don't have it Im sure your attorney does here is the info.
Consulate-General of Switzerland in Kingston Address c/o Swiss Stores Ltd.
107, Harbour Street
Kingston
Jamaica Phone local: (876) 948.9656
international: +1.876.948.9656 Fax local: (876) 922.8403
international: +1.876.922.8403 Email swissco@mail.infochan.com Make sure this MOFO can NEVER get entry in the US and that the EU perhaps can also really check his BUTT. Dont take his calls, delete any every bit of him from your life period.

He obviously wants people to know, he sent them to her. I would say let people see, it's what he wants. That's her decision and I respect her for it which is why I say she's so nice not too.

Depending on what date that Schengen visa was issued, yes he could have possible used the valid U.S visa as one of his evidence to prove he would depart France on the stamped date they will give him to. Other embassy easily grant visa when applicant have a valid US visa since most people prefer to travel and live in the U.S.. I truly believe this ???? planning on traveling to the U.S. soon.
According to this he could apply for the shcengen visa 15 days prior to when he would like to travel.
I'm happy your lawyer is on to it.. Have some comfort food and watch a comedy.. We are here for you.

American fiancee cannot cancel his visa. However, she can provide evidence to the swiss authority that this guy is just fishing for ways to go to the first world country and that he was dishonest about his intentions with swiss authorities and thus they should cancel the visa.

From my attorney: "I am so sorry to hear this. I will forward these details to USCIS and CBP so that he cannot enter the U.S. on his K1 visa and they have a record of his fraudulent intent."
in regards to reporting the Swiss Visa: "We can and I just did notify both the Swiss authorities and the U.S. Embassy in Jamaica and the Jamaica passport agency (PICA)."

You don't owe an apology to anyone.
On behalf of my people. We're sorry you came across one of the scums that are from our country. We don't like them either. Please don't hold it against the rest of us. Promise most of us are nice people with honorable intentions. There are just a few that were taught manners by wild goats and don't have any comprehensions of human decencies.

It does say, "FRA"
This fool is a bunch of donkey feed that has passed through the donkey! (I think that is a saying in Pashto, and if it's not, it is now!)
Why is he in the driver's seat in your 5 of 5 photo? Off the plane in Jamaica and then allowed to drive in Sweden? With a Schenegen visa from France? Man........

I agree. I believe at some point he will come to the U.S. I Know how majority of these Jamaican men thinks, and I know at some point he well Rip that Swiss woman off and run to the U.S. and live illegal like some have done.

I'm am so sorry to hear about this. I can only imagine how much you are hurting now.
Guess what!! She's not a better woman than you, I bet if the k-1 came through before the Swiss visa he would be there with you. He was using both of you and at the end when everything document filed was successful, I think he closed the woman I liked most.
As the other fellow member advice, please report to the embassy and all other necessary immigration services incase this skank ditches the woman in Swiss and want to come to the U.S. BE STRONG NOW... others go through worst, it's better to find out earlier rather than later when you have invested more in him/marriage you both would eventually have.