fatimazahrae

Thats not true.

The answer to the question is 'patience and perseverance'.

I came in may found job in july.I don't remember # of resumes sent everyday but in total may be more than 1000 resumes before finding first job in sales in which i had no experience.I remember of moulding my resume according to job requirement.

It also depends on the area you are trying to search and job market of your city.

A good suggestion to you is 'try to socialize with local people in your locality or city'.

Good Luck!

yes you are right. i just send a few resumes to few jobs , may be 6 applications in 3 weeks or 4 weeks, i pick just the jobs related with my career , but i think i can send more resumes in the coming days hopefully i find something, i badly need a job

My hubby was in the same situation as you a month and a half ago. He has no degree only management and retail/leisure industry experience. He just kept applying on indeed and also went to local temp agencies. He has finally found a great job at a gourmet grocery store. It just takes time and patience. I know it can be frustrating but hang in there

Thank you, happy for your husband, i hope i find a great job like him

hi, no body here !

Hi everyone, i'm wondering how did you find your first job in USA?

i moved to USA more than 3 months now , i apply in jobs online like in indeed or careerbuilder but no body contact me , i just receive sometimes emails telling that they can't go further with my application, i think its not easy possible to get hired while hundred of people they apply online in the same time like me, and they may have degree from USA, my question is:

How did you get your first job? have you applied online ? or you got hired with a different way of applying for job?

i know i may have to get a degree in USA to find the appropriate job, the job related to my career, but i still have no degree here , i just have degrees and a lot of experience from my home country that's it,

Thank you for sharing with me your experience of finding a job ,

Have a good day

Iam i reading right? she is getti g advice to go live back with him so he can abuse her so,she can get him put in jail? Someone should NEVER go back to live with an abuser... What if the next time is serious harm or death? Nobody should be advising that she go live with him so that he abuses her again so she can get a case opened... That is possibly the worst advice I have heard! She needs to move forward on her own, with the help,of whatever resources offered to her...

we don't advice Sara to go live with him, we know that the case is closed , & now she can start a new life , we were looking for advices to help her move on because she deserve a happy life , when i said if he beats her again he will go to the jail and the case will reopened just i was giving example to anybody who think there is no evidence show violence happened ,and may be she was just joking or looking for something because he can go to the jail next time if he beats her or beats anybody with police call or without

Has Sara considered going home to be safe with her family? (Not trying to be mean here).

She didn't decided yet, she can't just go home & she is still married, she needs to decide if she don't want to stay with him she should file for divorce here then go to her home, or she can stay here too if she want

He won't be able to beat you again and again as you say, IF you leave the house. If you really fear for your safety this shouldn't be up for discussion.

Their are plenty of places to seek help and programs to get you on your way to independence. Don't get hung up on the fact that he didn't get charged.

Someone doesn't go to jail and charges brought against them just because he was accused of something , you need evidence. Don't give him the evidence , because next time it might be a lose /lose situation. If every man who brought an immigrant spouse was sent to jail because his wife accused him of battery, there would be an awful lot of innocent men in jail. I'm not saying yours is the case, just giving you some insight into the" beyond a reasonable doubt". Your husband doesn't need to be charged in order for you to seek help in a shelter.

Hi, Why everybody try to help Sara , & u keep talking about the green card and immigration , u answered before this poor woman rude answer , she already has a green card, & how she call the police and she think about her status while she has no money and no place to go ,she even couldn't kicked him out from the house , her husband is simply a US criminal man , & there is a lot of US husbands/wives like him , they play with the feeling of the international women/men until they join them then they start doing what they want, they think their foreign spouses cant do anything , Sara if she is traditional Muslim woman , this doesn't mean he can do whatever he want with her, he didn't bought her from her family , she is human , and she wont him to beats her, & she will keep calling the police anytime he will try to beats her & they will open the case and he will go to the jail ,

I know you have been amazingly helpful to Sara, but I think this is extremely bad advice. She should not go back in the hope he changes, because that hardly every happens. She deserves to find someone who respects her, but before that, she needs to find her little niche in her new country on her own two feet, not with someone who clearly had no interest in even helping her do so/integrate into a new life here...much less the real bad stuff.

Yeah she deserve someone who respect her,

if she get divorce or separation can SARA remove the condition on her green card by waive the joint filing requirement because of what's happened (violence) ?

am here Sara dont be mad, yes this is like proverb (how many man needs a woman and how many woman needs a man ) this is not the end of the world, u really deserve a happy life , when i met you i knew what kind of woman you are , u are amazing believe me, u can stay with him if he changes , i know he was scared lastly, if he dosnt changes divorce him, i know u have been taking ur time to talk about divorce subject ,we ll talk later about everything

tomorrow everybody will tell u what next ?

everybody will tell u what 2 do , i will let mimolicious know whts happnd, nd her husband may talk 2 u on skype

Bad news!!!!!! Sara she is unhappy , she went today to one of the people they help her, to talk about tomorrow, and if she can go to the court, one moment she wanted to call the detective ( they already called him during the week but no answer) the detective answer finally, to find out that her husband he will go tomorrow to the court and he will go back to his house and he is able to beat her again and again, the case is closed . She don't know why they closed the case before the arraignment she was told from the people they help her that it can happens, she is not the first one who her case closed , may be because of lack of evidence ,!!!!!!!

i'm very unhappy like her,

Yes when i talked to Sara she told me that her husband was going to tell the judge that he needs to support his wife , and his wife needs him, he was going to beg the judge if he see he is going to the prison, but since her husband he started asking the lawyers and asking his relative who works with a police in another city he understood that he can be safe just by insisting that he didn't do anything, not guilty- no context, i told Sara to just keep telling them exactly what's happened and if there is no prison, at least he may have jail if he says something that leads to jail ,

Sara she wish they don't drop out or withdraw the case , she will be happy if they give him jail or just something, especially now her husband is optimistic after the help he got from lawyers and some relatives to keep saying -not guilty- he needs his wife's help now , she told me he was scared from the prison , now he wants the case to be closed because he is thinking how he will pay the bans, hehe already

i understand what SARA she needs , they didn't asked anything from her , last week the police take enough injury pictures , one friend here in visa journey explained to me why she want to know what means this medical personnel,

SARA is thinking to have all the violence evidence in the future not now and she doesn't want to miss anything now, in case if there is a divorce between her and her husband, and in case if she stay in the US and want to remove the condition on her green card by herself, she asked one friend here that she may need like i said , in case if she stay here and not moving to her home country witch is my country too, she may need a medical personnel , sara she do not understand what means this medical , if its just normal consultation witch she can do now , or its medical who must be taken in the day when her husband abused her to show the injury in her body ,

i hope some body can help here , i really wish if i could know the answer

do not worry SARA , you will get an answer today

hi mimolicious hi everybody, the restraining order is issued , i picked number 1 and number 2 , no contact ..........................and stay away , i was not aggressive to pick move out , because i know i will have problem to pay the rent, if he move out and the people they help me they can't do much ,and i do not deserve to be in shelter +after 28 days i need to have income to move to another shelter and i have no income so i had with their help and advice to pick *the worse restraining order* but like they said it wont change the judge decision , like they said and its good too, after 20 days i will have hearing with *husband* and next week he will be in court alone, he said he will insist to not guilty in the court to change the felony to misdemeanor, /i don't talk to him/ the restraining order not served yet , 2 days issued, today he asked me (i knew he is lying), to help him sign paper for his bail , i knew his cousin he already signed paper while he was in jail, i said No,

now people they advice me, what to do everyday, i contacted the detective but there was no answer back to tell him i co operate with them, the lawyer who works with me contacted the detective too , after several phone calls , busy lines, she left a message , that i'm there with them and i'm ready to co operate with them , but there is no call back, , next week , i don't know what will happens with him when he will say i didn't do anything, and what will happens, 20 days later in the hearing date when i will insist that he did everything and i will make sure they understand why he stayed at the house after the jail,

now i need medical personnel , to have with the violence evidences , can somebody tell me what means medical personnel ? i have kaiser permanente health insurance joint with him, i would like to see a doctor , but i don't know how much it cost this medical ? and what means this medical its just normal medical consultation or its something different?

Thanks

Congratulations sara , am glad you succeed to request a restraining order, i understand you , i imagine how you move from place to place with no car in this the hot weather in south cali, no friend to ask, no body, what did you do is great , do not think because he stayed in the house with what you called worse restraining order, it means you are helping him and not co-operating with the police, you had no choice , if they see he needs a prison they ll put him in prison, if they see he needs jail they will not hesitate , or long time restraining order, enjoy now your time in San diego , have a friends and do not think too much

i think u re asking for medical personnel for the future as evidence while you may remove the condition without him if you divorce him , i think you need just to see a doctor use the card you have , am not sure if the medical personnel in the form i751 is something different than seeing a normal doctor or not ,

they will help u here in this post do not worry

Moroccan like you (fatimazahrae)

One post has been removed for not answering the OP's question and for directing the thread off on a tangent, as evidenced by subsequent posts (also removed) that were judgmental and unhelpful.

The OP's question is poorly worded, and some respondents assumed that she was asking about herself. Her timeline indicates that her visa has already been approved, so it's at least equally likely that she's asking hypothetically or on behalf of someone else. However, we don't know this yet.

OP, please clarify the basis for your query: why are you asking the question?

-- Is a female friend of yours (in another country) being petitioned by someone charged with that crime?

-- Or, have you learned, after the fact, that YOUR husband was charged with that crime earlier?

-- Or, are you asking out of curiosity?

im in the behalf of my friend asking , her husband abused her while ago, and she is interesting if he will be able to marry again and bring another woman to US , she hope that he will never be able to do that again ,

Charged or convicted?

husband arrested charged with a felony crime, then they changed it to misdemeanor, just charged , no prison

Hi everyone,i have a simple question,

i have heard that a battered husband, charged with a domestic violence can't sponsor /support another wife to join him in his country?

is this TRUE?

witch domestic violence is this: felony or misdemeanor?

big thanks

i'm with you mimolicious , this woman is alone, and its normal for her to take time to understand the process, she has nobody , no friend, no good English , no car, she still didnt contacted us yet , because she just walk , or may be she just take a bus, i understand her perfectly, she thought everything will be clear and easy because he is in jail and she is at the house until Wednesday like they told her, to find out herself with him again at the house, now she started from all over asking what to do, the restraining order , or shelter something to keep her away from him , how can she think now about divorce how she will do that too, and if there is any free domestic advocate online who would help for free singledadtous help her with that, i imagine she call and call all day to have legal assistance ,they may answer her calls , or voice mails they may not they may help they may not ,, she is doing her best, hopefully she can just have place where she can live until court day, i pray for her , hope she can come back soon

Pardon - OP is the LPR, not the husband.

Husband is a USC.

regardless of dropping the case or no,

it , in no way affects her immigration status

or

her ability to file RoC alone, based on a divorce.

this concept of 'getting another card' based on violence, doesn't work, based on her visa type, green card type - it's a slog that is not even needed. What would work? divorce, then file the RoC.

yes this is what i meant her ability to file ROC lone based on a divorce because he abused her, i have seen in some post something like waiver ..

if she help him and if the case may be droped , then what ? she will be able to RC alone ?

.i was just letting her know to do not help him now ,

yes Sarah i understand u perfectly , sweet woman like you who don't prefer to request restraining order against him, just because of her value i understand , we are from the same country , culture, i do understand u, but like you said you should have the opportunity to speak to counselors inside of thinking too much

and one think like DARNELL he said the case might be dropped, on court day, the knowledge people here can help you concerning your status because you just came to US, if they drop the case will you be able to remove the condition on your card by yourself , based on domestic violence or no ? ask this question if they drop the case , because you are helping him now in way or another, that means when he love to divorce you, you may don't be able to get another card based on violence,

they will answer you don't worry

sorry this is happening to you SARA , i think the bail amount they gave him can be changed in the court , i know friend , they charged her husband who abused her $50.000 till know i don't know whats happened to him in the court , i need to call her , it seems like the bail amount they gave him is too much like his wife she said because the officer in the day of the investigation told her the amount will be around $2000 if she is not mistaken, i'm not sure , may be he has abusive history, for the amount to be $50.000 or may be this is normal/ symbolic number, until court day

Each state has its own rules etc but it took me 1min on google to find this:

http://www.dmv.ca.gov/online/dlstatus/welcome.htm

Thank you, i was looking for something like that,

i will see what i will find

why nobody answer here?

i just worried , i don't know how much time people they wait to get this id card , thanks again in advance for any help

hey guys no answer, ?

Hi VJ friends, i have applied for ID card 1 month ago, i still have not got anything in the mail , is there any possibility online at the DMV website to know the status process for the ID?

Thanks