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she in hospital for 2 weeks, she fine now, but need to take medicine twice a day

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I know you have to take a medical exam before entering the US. How did she pass with something so serious?

medical exam ( lung, heart..) but not mental exam

Are you and your wife living with any other family members right now?

we live with family before but now, they will not allow us to live with them, my sister in law have 2 baby, 1 5years old and 1 newborn, they think my wife may harm the kids.

You indicated that you could not add your wife to your health insurance policy. Was this because too much time had elapsed between your wedding and the date on which you tried to add her? Most employers' plans allow for a 30 day period after a life-changing event to report the change; 45 days to provide proof of the change)? Was she denied for lack of an SSN? Insurance plans often ask for this, but it is not absolutely required; I got my wife and son added to my plan prior to them receiving their SSNs. There are usually appeal procedures in place. You may want to see if such procedures are in place with your employer and/or their plan.

Take care and may God bless you both!

Joe

I think she was denial because the time too long since our marriage, but when we marriage she did not have SSN and they wont add person without SSN.

WHOA!!!!

I work in HR...you cannot change your insurance plan except during open enrollment UNLESS you have a life-changing issue: birth of a child, marriage, divorce, or death.

Go talk to you HR representative. YOu should be able to add your spouse to your medical insurance plan.

They allow to add when life-change events occur, But my marriage certificate said 2007 now 2011. they tell me to request exception, but they still denial, So I have to wait.

Is insurance from your employer or did you buy the policy on your own?

the emploer insurance said it is not in open enrollment period so they re fused to add her in plan.

have to wait 3 months more for the open enrollment.

but I dont care about insurance now, what I care is she is alone at home in sickness could lead her to die

You can't force her to go back to Vietnam if she doesn't want to go.

If you still love her then you should try to make sure she takes her medicine every day. A lot of mentally ill people are perfectly normal as long as they take their meds.

Your employer doesn't offer medical insurance?

I'm not forcing her go back to Vietnam forever, she got 10 years green card, she can come back to US anytime.

I'm unable to take care of her myself, so I need her parents take care of her, because they are not working like me.

for some reason my health insurance refused to add her in my insurance plan. Now I think the hospital will bill me more than $50,000

her sick is kind of funny, she refused to take medicine at home, so when the police come or in hospital then she agree to take medicine

I'm scared while I'm not home she may kill herself.

I'm trying to do the best thing for her

She was OK when she take medicine on time, but since she out off medicine the condition become worst .

I don't think she got serious problem, and not paying to much to her medicine.

hello all,

Finnaly I got my wife come here in US for about 6 months, Now she got serious mental illness(this kind of illness is hidden by her parents, they just said she have a little depression) , and I send her to hospital for treatment right now, She still not have insurance yet.

her symtoms is just like "Schizophrenia" but in very seriuos condition, she may not wearing a pant and walk around the house.

My family member, is very angry at her parent, they dont want to let her live in our home anymore.

I know she need very good care but I work full time and may not take care of her carefully

What I should do now, I was thinking about send her back to Vietnam for her parent take care of her, but her parent may not accept that, she may not agree to come back to Vietnam.

There is no limit to the number of spouse & fiance visas issued.

who tell you that ?

Looked over the evidence but did not want to grant a visa based on what we submitted. She had letters from my senators but evidently after a 4 year relationship and 3 visits by me to the consulate I am still trying to pull a scam. I am curious what they benefit by keeping me and my fiance apart any longer.

due to the huge amount of visa application and limited number of visa allow to be issued. you have to wait for another year.

if every applicant got visa, the hole Vietnamese country will come to US ?

sound 100% got pink, but still depend on age different and picture look

Can you post the blue sheet? (with sensitive info block out)

well, I guess her husband got pink sheet(due to the poor CO), then Mr Le Thanh An make a final review and decide that the fake marriage.

it is very tough to pass another interview .

Speak like a Pro! Time will tell you've picked the right choice.

those foreigners think they understand Vietnamese women more than Vietnamese people

Can the timeline and 10 year residence be done together on 1 notarized stamp? Does it need to be in 2 separate notarized stamp

how can you put 2 in 1 notarized ?

notarization is always free at bank

If I make a trip which will be my 4th trip to Vietnam and put in my timeline. Will it increase my chances of getting pink? Has anyone tried it before? Will it make a difference.

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I smell denial or AP in process.

I hate to said Congrats to people while I'm in denial

So my wife called home to VN the other day, her oldest sister ask her when she's sending money home so that she can have spending money for Tet. My wife and I already agreed that we were not going to send money for Tet this year. But the fact that the sister in law just assumed we were going to rubbed me the wrong way. Not angry and PO'ed, just a bit annoyed.

I still don't understand how her family servives. I get that they don't have a mortgage. But no one works in that family. Everyone is perfectly capable of working, but no one has a job. It boggles my mind.

We normally send money home twice a year, Tet and in the fall for her mom's memorial. 500 each time. I just don't know how they survive. That money isn't going to last that long. I will not send them money just for living expenses (food, utilities, gas, etc). Medical emergencies are fine, I have no problems shelling out for that.

And it's not like they are living off bags of noodles. Seems like they eat well, have internet, cable tv. I don't know how they do it.

In Vietnam, nobody want to know where you got the money; money in your pocket is yours no matter you rob it from bank or rob from old man.

most of family in Vietnam has no job, but they still live very well and the youth go to coffee-shop twice a day wonder where do they got the money ? they still survived.

they may sell lottery ticket for living, they can be a hooker for living... If I was living in Vietnam I'm sure will selling lottery ticket for a living cauz all properties from my family being robbed by the VC 35 years ago

your wife family still in luck cuz they have a girl live in US who can help them continue surviving

http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/programmes/from_our_own_correspondent/9367223.stm

you guys should eat it daily

don't send anybody a penny, they have their hand, why send them ?

Just wanted to share a true visa horror story.

A viet lady was sponsored by this "nice" american viet guy. Once in the US, he kept her practically locked in the house and only fed her instant noodles everyday. He didn't let her have any friends or visitors. One day, she managed to escape and eventually made her back to HCM city. She was my fiancee's neighbor.

this may be reason why a women runaway from a Vietkieu

http://www.nydailynews.com/news/ny_crime/2010/12/16/2010-12-16_ly_huong_vietnamese_martial_arts_star_convicted_of_parental_kidnapping.html