DeniseFrance

don't you understand that they will only do something if it's going to help them get re-elected? The average voter does not have our problem. So all you can do is sit and wait just like the rest of us.
the office workers? most of them actually enjoy to see others suffer, it's just part of human nature.

dream on

sad story, back in the good old days he would have had no problem visiting.
it seems like you have less rights if you are married.
no wonder there are so many illegals here in the USA.
a backward system, I might say.

sad story, back in the good old days he would have had no problem visiting.
it seems like you have less rights if you are married.
no wonder there are so many illegals here in the USA.
a backward system, I might say.

It seems your husband is a freaking abuser.He had sex with over 200 different women WITHOUT condoms before getting married, it means that he doesn't have any self respect then do not expect he will respect you either...without condoms 200 women? what a jerk... Get tested, and remember you can't travel back in time, but you can make smart choices to protect yourself NOW!. Life is way to short to spend it in poor relationship.

"Any chance that I have HIV/AIDS? i'm freaked out!"
I have been where you are.
You should be tested right away - but optional
YOUR HUSBAND NEEDS TO BE TESTED - NOT optional
he is the one who has slept with over 200 women, not you.
so obviosly HE needs to be tested ASAP.
And, yes you will both be nervous until you get the results.
Then 6 months later you both should be tested one more time(just for HIV though) - for peace of mind.
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welcome to the human race

yes, but life is so short, it's just not fair.

I have a better template. The LangChe also works though.
Email To: NVCINQUIRY@state.gov
EMAIL Subject: <NVC CASE NUMBER> - <FULL NAME OF BENEFICIARY>
NVC Case Number: <NVC CASE NUMBER>
USCIS Receipt Number: <USCIS/CIS RECEIPT NUMBER>
Petitioner's Name: <FULL NAME>
Petitioner's Date of Birth: <MONTH/DAY/YEAR>
Beneficiary's Name: <FULL NAME>
Beneficiary's Date of Birth: <MONTH/DAY/YEAR>
Form DS-3032
U.S. Department of State
CHOICE OF ADDRESS AND AGENT
For Immigrant Visa Applicants
Dear Sir/Madam:
My name is <BENEFICIARY'S FULL NAME> and my NVC case number is: <NVC CASE NUMBER>
I appoint <PETITIONER'S FULL NAME> as my agent to receive mail about my application.
Mail from the U.S. Department of State concerning my immigrant visa application should be sent to:
<FULL NAME OF PETITIONER>
<STREET NUMBER AND NAME> <APT. #>
<CITY STATE AND ZIP>
<COUNTRY>
Phone: <PETITIONER'S PHONE#> Email: <PETITIONER'S EMAIL>
Sincerely,
<FULL NAME OF BENEFICIARY>
Email: <BENEFICIARY'S EMAIL>

face it, there are many people that get married to a US citizen to have a better life here in the USA.
I would guess 50% of the time this is the main reason.
Just like many women marry men for there money, etc...............

I wonder if VJ gives her money for all her hard work?
anyways, I can't think of anybody more helpful than Saylin here on VJ !