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with this Paper.

Dear VJ Members!
It has come to my attention that you've pretty much told and discussed with each other what a horrible person I am because of what i typed in this forum, So, so I really feel like I should apologize to you all cause I KNOW i owe you all a sincere apology for what has been said and done.
Well, SO, would you please allow me to apologize for what i said and wrote on that day, I can't deny that my behavior was extremely inappropriate, immature, and lacked the respect VJ Members deserved. It was a disruption really, It was not my intention to create such an awkward and embarrassing situation, It was embarrassing, I can’t say what made me do something so silly. Perhaps I just have a very flawed sense of humor or my terrible read of situations. Whatever the cause for my bad behavior, it was inexcusable.. I'm normally not like this. While I,m not excusing myself from my unprofessional actions, I believe I acted the way I did because of my fatigue, bad day and thoughts that consumed me after getting the 221 g. however I learned that nobody appreciated my poor behavior, Only SOME VJ Members did, the ones who still believe i'm not a scammer nor a bad person etc..
Anyways, In the future, I have every intention of curbing my thoughtless actions and learn to adjust my behavior befitting the environment and situation and If there was any good that came out of this unfortunate experience, it is that I have grown and learned alternative approaches to these situations.
Again, I'm sorry for my actions and I hope that we can put this matter behind us. As i hope we can continue to maintain this friendship. I look forward to keep in touch with you cause you became a bit part of my life and you will be a part of my life in coming years, Of course if none of you mind, If you don't feel that you wish to forgive me, or you don't wish to have any contact with me, I understand. However, please know that I am deeply sorry for what I have said to you all and would like to do whatever I can to repair this kind of friendship.
Hopefully, this will be one of things we look back to and laugh. Until then, I’m willing to do everything I can to make it up to you! So, If you would like to continue this conversation or if you have any thoughts in this, please feel free to share, Thank you.
Zyzz.

You can file for the cr1 visa straight away after your marriage!

msheesa~
With my personal experience ... I would have attempted to appeal (for lack of better words) the "soft denial" if I had the knowledge of what really goes on with the 221g back in July 2011.
Supposedly we have a right to approach the decision with in (90 days?) before they let it expire, right?
It might have be a futile attempt but it also could have saved me this waiting time apart.
So before her K1 is left to expire this is what I was writing about.
The money spent on my visits to my husband could have went to our future HERE at this moment within a new family
hence the question.
Just trying to help a person going through what seems I went through.
http://www.visajourney.com/forums/topic/2687-221g/

Since when does a simple question become such an issue that the claws have to come out? I'm not sure who pissed in your cheerios to feel that you need to attack.
My question was simple and straight forward; I am not being a grammar Nazi. Most education professionals that I know even in their day to day lives are fanatical about their own grammar and how their words are portrayed to the public. It's a matter of pride which made me think that the poster was a non native English speaker. That in itself is not an insult, after all aren't many if not a majority of the people on these boards’ non native English speakers? Why would that be offending?

From the bottom of my heart I need to express my thankfulness for this site and everyone that selflessly helped my husband and I through this process.
It is in no way of an exaggeration when i write I would not have gotten through this without VJ.
Whoa
Still dream like to think my husband and I have the approval to finally live together in the country of our choice. Awesome.
I assure you I will write my review in a few days...because I know personally how every bit helped me through the tough, sort of low times.
Everyone still waiting, please stay strong.

Running from the Dr's cabinet to the lab where they take chest x-rays , no more no less, bloodworks are done in the Dr's officer, as a resident of Casablanca, i highly recommend Dr Khadiha Zirari.
Running from the Dr's cabinet to the lab where they take chest x-rays , no more no less, bloodworks are done in the Dr's officer, as a resident of Casablanca, i highly recommend Dr Khadija Zirari.

I really like this post. i can tell i can see myself from another view after reading these.
thank you and sorry if i say something bad.
You're right i don't have to care of what others say here. I will try to ignore things that i don't like to read next times. and move on to next levels of my journey.
Good night.
Good night Darnell, Please don't get offended.
You're one of my favorite member.
It's late here i see you tomorrow.
Good night everyone.

I was wondering if you happened to know how long after begin denied that I need to wait. I should have just reapplied when we were denied then we would be making some progress instead of just waiting.
Thank you so much!

Thank you sooooo much!!
I have been on a hunt for a straight forward answer! I have posted topics and talked to people and no one was really able to give me an answer. You have helped lots!

This is very to the point, it's what VJ is all about.

Here is my story from Dec 2010, it took 4 months for the diplomatic pouch to return to the states, they send it from one consulate to another overseas. I then recieved a letter March 2010 stating they had it and just wait for them to contact me if they needed something they would contact me, after another few months inquired again and was told returned k-1 are not a priority and they review when they get to it, then in Aug 2010 the senators office was told this :
Hello Brenda,
I just wanted to follow-up to tell you the latest information I received in talking with the Vermont Service Center for USCIS. They told me that when a consulate denies a fiancé visa and returns it to USCIS, it is essentially a closed case. If you want to pursue another attempt at a fiancé visa, you will need to file a brand new I-129F application.
I am so sorry about this, but thought you’d want to know.
Sincerely,
This was after waiting 9 months. I don't want anyone else to go through what I did. And there isn't a thing you can do about it. So don't believe it when they say there is a review in k-1's returned . So I sent them a certified letter stating that I wanted my application cancelled, even though I never recieved anything official stating they cancelled. I gave them all the information about our case, EAC number etc. Make sure you send a certified letter of your cancelling the first k-1 before you submit the second. This was all advice given to me by the customer service person at USCIS. I don't remember the specifics but call and ask. In my case I went to Morocco and was married, so we didn't reapply for the k-1. God help us!

People were saying bad things about fiancee before i got the interview.. Many said i'm troll, scammer, fake etc..
I remember first time i wrote a post in this forum right after i got bullied by a lady cause she doesn't like moroccan guys when someone played with her feelings and some of her friends took the advantage by making joke about fiancee. The forum were that way before i came and they transmitted the infection to me. I never thought i would get to all these. and my intentions were good when i came here. was looking only for help and guidance.
Whoever is here don't have to bully someone if there's gap age or whatever. we're not here for that.
what i wanted to say above in that post is FROM NOW ON, if someone says something bad to me i won't reply back. one click on the button Report everything is gonna be fine later.

People were saying bad things about fiancee before i got the interview.. Many said i'm troll, scammer, fake etc..
I remember first time i wrote a post in this forum right after i got bullied by a lady cause she doesn't like moroccan guys when someone played with her feelings and some of her friends took the advantage by making joke about fiancee. The forum were that way before i came and they transmitted the infection to me. I never thought i would get to all these. and my intentions were good when i came here. was looking only for help and guidance.
Whoever is here don't have to bully someone if there's gap age or whatever. we're not here for that.
what i wanted to say above in that post is FROM NOW ON, if someone says something bad to me i won't reply back. one click on the button Report everything is gonna be fine later.

That's a part of your current problem, alas. It has some consequences, but it wasn't the only problem that you faced. It was a piece of the overall problems, but we tried to warn you. Judging by the outcome at CASA IV, you ignored the warnings we gave you. QED.
There are choices now:
1. USCitizen requests that the file is held at Casa IV until the I-134 arrives and asks for another adjudication or
2. USCitizen waits to hear back from USCIS after the casefile is returned. once She Hears Back, she has others choices:
a. if she's allowed to rebut the decision, she will be told what to submit.
b. if she's not allowed to rebut the decision, she will be told the petition is revoked.
Regardless, YOU must wait, as the other things to occur are on the USCitizen Petitioner, not you.
Good Luck!

one post making personal insults towards the op removed, along with one quoting. if you can't assist the op with his question, don't post.
further infractions will result in administrative action.

Copy and past yeah.. omg This is really so embarrassing, Please stop it, Don't make fun of me, This is not funny at all, I'm really blushed right now. Well, What i want you guys to know is i didn't come back here to impress none of you with my poor english, I know you're native speakers.. Yes you speak it well But please don't take advantage and show off with your language over someone who barely learn it and if i tried a little harder on internet to find the right words to you to apologize it's because i never had the chance before to write such things to the folks who speak english.. it's because i want to value this kind of relationship and You should know that it's something totally new to me to apoplogize to a bunch of people at once in one message.. I could write a tiny sentence to you all but i didn't want to, Cause people would say it's easy to say and i know it's hard to believe if i'm sincere about my apology or not but the actions speak louder than words and nobody can know my intention if it's really good or bad right now, I tell you something, only TIME will show you and help you to find out who's the real me.. And i just don't want to carry anymore what others think of me, I see some act as if it doesn't matter when i apologize.. Well, I don't know what more i can say, I'm accepting and not denying my mistakes and i'm living with the results.. well, this's the perfect time to let go of the past and The only thing that is left to say is I'M SORRY AGAIN.

Dear VJ Members!
It has come to my attention that you've pretty much told and discussed with each other what a horrible person I am because of what i typed in this forum, So, so I really feel like I should apologize to you all cause I KNOW i owe you all a sincere apology for what has been said and done.
Well, SO, would you please allow me to apologize for what i said and wrote on that day, I can't deny that my behavior was extremely inappropriate, immature, and lacked the respect VJ Members deserved. It was a disruption really, It was not my intention to create such an awkward and embarrassing situation, It was embarrassing, I can’t say what made me do something so silly. Perhaps I just have a very flawed sense of humor or my terrible read of situations. Whatever the cause for my bad behavior, it was inexcusable.. I'm normally not like this. While I,m not excusing myself from my unprofessional actions, I believe I acted the way I did because of my fatigue, bad day and thoughts that consumed me after getting the 221 g. however I learned that nobody appreciated my poor behavior, Only SOME VJ Members did, the ones who still believe i'm not a scammer nor a bad person etc..
Anyways, In the future, I have every intention of curbing my thoughtless actions and learn to adjust my behavior befitting the environment and situation and If there was any good that came out of this unfortunate experience, it is that I have grown and learned alternative approaches to these situations.
Again, I'm sorry for my actions and I hope that we can put this matter behind us. As i hope we can continue to maintain this friendship. I look forward to keep in touch with you cause you became a bit part of my life and you will be a part of my life in coming years, Of course if none of you mind, If you don't feel that you wish to forgive me, or you don't wish to have any contact with me, I understand. However, please know that I am deeply sorry for what I have said to you all and would like to do whatever I can to repair this kind of friendship.
Hopefully, this will be one of things we look back to and laugh. Until then, I’m willing to do everything I can to make it up to you! So, If you would like to continue this conversation or if you have any thoughts in this, please feel free to share, Thank you.
Zyzz.

Copy and past yeah.. omg This is really so embarrassing, Please stop it, Don't make fun of me, This is not funny at all, I'm really blushed right now. Well, What i want you guys to know is i didn't come back here to impress none of you with my poor english, I know you're native speakers.. Yes you speak it well But please don't take advantage and show off with your language over someone who barely learn it and if i tried a little harder on internet to find the right words to you to apologize it's because i never had the chance before to write such things to the folks who speak english.. it's because i want to value this kind of relationship and You should know that it's something totally new to me to apoplogize to a bunch of people at once in one message.. I could write a tiny sentence to you all but i didn't want to, Cause people would say it's easy to say and i know it's hard to believe if i'm sincere about my apology or not but the actions speak louder than words and nobody can know my intention if it's really good or bad right now, I tell you something, only TIME will show you and help you to find out who's the real me.. And i just don't want to carry anymore what others think of me, I see some act as if it doesn't matter when i apologize.. Well, I don't know what more i can say, I'm accepting and not denying my mistakes and i'm living with the results.. well, this's the perfect time to let go of the past and The only thing that is left to say is I'M SORRY AGAIN.

Dear VJ Members!
It has come to my attention that you've pretty much told and discussed with each other what a horrible person I am because of what i typed in this forum, So, so I really feel like I should apologize to you all cause I KNOW i owe you all a sincere apology for what has been said and done.
Well, SO, would you please allow me to apologize for what i said and wrote on that day, I can't deny that my behavior was extremely inappropriate, immature, and lacked the respect VJ Members deserved. It was a disruption really, It was not my intention to create such an awkward and embarrassing situation, It was embarrassing, I can’t say what made me do something so silly. Perhaps I just have a very flawed sense of humor or my terrible read of situations. Whatever the cause for my bad behavior, it was inexcusable.. I'm normally not like this. While I,m not excusing myself from my unprofessional actions, I believe I acted the way I did because of my fatigue, bad day and thoughts that consumed me after getting the 221 g. however I learned that nobody appreciated my poor behavior, Only SOME VJ Members did, the ones who still believe i'm not a scammer nor a bad person etc..
Anyways, In the future, I have every intention of curbing my thoughtless actions and learn to adjust my behavior befitting the environment and situation and If there was any good that came out of this unfortunate experience, it is that I have grown and learned alternative approaches to these situations.
Again, I'm sorry for my actions and I hope that we can put this matter behind us. As i hope we can continue to maintain this friendship. I look forward to keep in touch with you cause you became a bit part of my life and you will be a part of my life in coming years, Of course if none of you mind, If you don't feel that you wish to forgive me, or you don't wish to have any contact with me, I understand. However, please know that I am deeply sorry for what I have said to you all and would like to do whatever I can to repair this kind of friendship.
Hopefully, this will be one of things we look back to and laugh. Until then, I’m willing to do everything I can to make it up to you! So, If you would like to continue this conversation or if you have any thoughts in this, please feel free to share, Thank you.
Zyzz.

Dear VJ Members!
It has come to my attention that you've pretty much told and discussed with each other what a horrible person I am because of what i typed in this forum, So, so I really feel like I should apologize to you all cause I KNOW i owe you all a sincere apology for what has been said and done.
Well, SO, would you please allow me to apologize for what i said and wrote on that day, I can't deny that my behavior was extremely inappropriate, immature, and lacked the respect VJ Members deserved. It was a disruption really, It was not my intention to create such an awkward and embarrassing situation, It was embarrassing, I can’t say what made me do something so silly. Perhaps I just have a very flawed sense of humor or my terrible read of situations. Whatever the cause for my bad behavior, it was inexcusable.. I'm normally not like this. While I,m not excusing myself from my unprofessional actions, I believe I acted the way I did because of my fatigue, bad day and thoughts that consumed me after getting the 221 g. however I learned that nobody appreciated my poor behavior, Only SOME VJ Members did, the ones who still believe i'm not a scammer nor a bad person etc..
Anyways, In the future, I have every intention of curbing my thoughtless actions and learn to adjust my behavior befitting the environment and situation and If there was any good that came out of this unfortunate experience, it is that I have grown and learned alternative approaches to these situations.
Again, I'm sorry for my actions and I hope that we can put this matter behind us. As i hope we can continue to maintain this friendship. I look forward to keep in touch with you cause you became a bit part of my life and you will be a part of my life in coming years, Of course if none of you mind, If you don't feel that you wish to forgive me, or you don't wish to have any contact with me, I understand. However, please know that I am deeply sorry for what I have said to you all and would like to do whatever I can to repair this kind of friendship.
Hopefully, this will be one of things we look back to and laugh. Until then, I’m willing to do everything I can to make it up to you! So, If you would like to continue this conversation or if you have any thoughts in this, please feel free to share, Thank you.
Zyzz.

Copy and past yeah.. omg This is really so embarrassing, Please stop it, Don't make fun of me, This is not funny at all, I'm really blushed right now. Well, What i want you guys to know is i didn't come back here to impress none of you with my poor english, I know you're native speakers.. Yes you speak it well But please don't take advantage and show off with your language over someone who barely learn it and if i tried a little harder on internet to find the right words to you to apologize it's because i never had the chance before to write such things to the folks who speak english.. it's because i want to value this kind of relationship and You should know that it's something totally new to me to apoplogize to a bunch of people at once in one message.. I could write a tiny sentence to you all but i didn't want to, Cause people would say it's easy to say and i know it's hard to believe if i'm sincere about my apology or not but the actions speak louder than words and nobody can know my intention if it's really good or bad right now, I tell you something, only TIME will show you and help you to find out who's the real me.. And i just don't want to carry anymore what others think of me, I see some act as if it doesn't matter when i apologize.. Well, I don't know what more i can say, I'm accepting and not denying my mistakes and i'm living with the results.. well, this's the perfect time to let go of the past and The only thing that is left to say is I'M SORRY AGAIN.

Copy and past yeah.. omg This is really so embarrassing, Please stop it, Don't make fun of me, This is not funny at all, I'm really blushed right now. Well, What i want you guys to know is i didn't come back here to impress none of you with my poor english, I know you're native speakers.. Yes you speak it well But please don't take advantage and show off with your language over someone who barely learn it and if i tried a little harder on internet to find the right words to you to apologize it's because i never had the chance before to write such things to the folks who speak english.. it's because i want to value this kind of relationship and You should know that it's something totally new to me to apoplogize to a bunch of people at once in one message.. I could write a tiny sentence to you all but i didn't want to, Cause people would say it's easy to say and i know it's hard to believe if i'm sincere about my apology or not but the actions speak louder than words and nobody can know my intention if it's really good or bad right now, I tell you something, only TIME will show you and help you to find out who's the real me.. And i just don't want to carry anymore what others think of me, I see some act as if it doesn't matter when i apologize.. Well, I don't know what more i can say, I'm accepting and not denying my mistakes and i'm living with the results.. well, this's the perfect time to let go of the past and The only thing that is left to say is I'M SORRY AGAIN.

Dear VJ Members!
It has come to my attention that you've pretty much told and discussed with each other what a horrible person I am because of what i typed in this forum, So, so I really feel like I should apologize to you all cause I KNOW i owe you all a sincere apology for what has been said and done.
Well, SO, would you please allow me to apologize for what i said and wrote on that day, I can't deny that my behavior was extremely inappropriate, immature, and lacked the respect VJ Members deserved. It was a disruption really, It was not my intention to create such an awkward and embarrassing situation, It was embarrassing, I can’t say what made me do something so silly. Perhaps I just have a very flawed sense of humor or my terrible read of situations. Whatever the cause for my bad behavior, it was inexcusable.. I'm normally not like this. While I,m not excusing myself from my unprofessional actions, I believe I acted the way I did because of my fatigue, bad day and thoughts that consumed me after getting the 221 g. however I learned that nobody appreciated my poor behavior, Only SOME VJ Members did, the ones who still believe i'm not a scammer nor a bad person etc..
Anyways, In the future, I have every intention of curbing my thoughtless actions and learn to adjust my behavior befitting the environment and situation and If there was any good that came out of this unfortunate experience, it is that I have grown and learned alternative approaches to these situations.
Again, I'm sorry for my actions and I hope that we can put this matter behind us. As i hope we can continue to maintain this friendship. I look forward to keep in touch with you cause you became a bit part of my life and you will be a part of my life in coming years, Of course if none of you mind, If you don't feel that you wish to forgive me, or you don't wish to have any contact with me, I understand. However, please know that I am deeply sorry for what I have said to you all and would like to do whatever I can to repair this kind of friendship.
Hopefully, this will be one of things we look back to and laugh. Until then, I’m willing to do everything I can to make it up to you! So, If you would like to continue this conversation or if you have any thoughts in this, please feel free to share, Thank you.
Zyzz.

Copy and past yeah.. omg This is really so embarrassing, Please stop it, Don't make fun of me, This is not funny at all, I'm really blushed right now. Well, What i want you guys to know is i didn't come back here to impress none of you with my poor english, I know you're native speakers.. Yes you speak it well But please don't take advantage and show off with your language over someone who barely learn it and if i tried a little harder on internet to find the right words to you to apologize it's because i never had the chance before to write such things to the folks who speak english.. it's because i want to value this kind of relationship and You should know that it's something totally new to me to apoplogize to a bunch of people at once in one message.. I could write a tiny sentence to you all but i didn't want to, Cause people would say it's easy to say and i know it's hard to believe if i'm sincere about my apology or not but the actions speak louder than words and nobody can know my intention if it's really good or bad right now, I tell you something, only TIME will show you and help you to find out who's the real me.. And i just don't want to carry anymore what others think of me, I see some act as if it doesn't matter when i apologize.. Well, I don't know what more i can say, I'm accepting and not denying my mistakes and i'm living with the results.. well, this's the perfect time to let go of the past and The only thing that is left to say is I'M SORRY AGAIN.