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chikings

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  1. So glad to hear you've gotten your interview date. We got ours for Oct. 22, 2012. (Whahoo) I would just tell your fiance to make sure he speaks from his heart, because for people who are truly in love, it's shows. He should also know all basic facts regarding the relationship, but I think you know that already. The person that sent prayer to all of us going through this process, thank you.

    Thannk you!!

    congrats

  2. Well at least Kingsley speaks English well. My Fiancee has limited English knowledge but she's so cute with that Nigerian bold face thing of trying to pretend that she understands. I have been coaching her to please ask for an interpreter and to not answer the question if she doesn't know it and ask for clarification.

    She'll be okay though and yours will be too. We are a few days after you.

    It makes no sense for me to go if they won't let me in but we'll see. I've been seeing tickets for ~$1,000 on United so we'll see.

    I'm actually comfortable now and I've actually backed of off grilling her with Q&A sessions so that she can relax a bit. She knows all my stuff like where I work, where I live, my kids names. my Ex wives (yes I have two of them - lol) names, our engagement date, my trips to Nigeria, how we met, names of my siblings whom she has all met.

    I am confident of a successful interview. I have done the prep work and the Star of David shines the way ahead "He will merit to bestow a bountiful gift on anyone who grasps the Shield of David.".

    Yeah you got your date!! That's cool.. Yes it will be well for us.. I think we will take a break too, because I know he feels the wieght of this ..like it's all up to him.. Which of course it isn't but as the man, you know how he's feeling .... lol, lol, It would be great to be there ,but got to save for his homecoming here.. Ok thanks for sharing it helps...

  3. Congrats on your husband upcoming interview! Seems like he made the october date right? Well, from the description of your fiance being such a laid back person and good command of english language, that's a positive step to answering all the questions that might be asked. If there's a question he doesn't really understand, he should ask the co to repeat that question. He has to grow this confident and try as much as possible to stay calm all through and he will be successful with his interview. Nothing to worry about ok. My prayer is with you sister God bless you

    that's a good thought.. he can use his personality as a positive! and stay calm.. thank u!!

  4. Ok I looked at the board today and it went form 3 three of us having interviews to five and mine is not posted,is the 19th of October. Anyway just wanted to ask how is everyone doing?? Anyone nervous, anxious?? I'm nervous as He**. I don't know if my Kingsley is ready.. He is such a laid back, calm talker. I practice with him, his answers are correct but lack.. hmmm emotion or like uniqueness, like the answers could be for anyone and not personal ...I guess that's what I'm trying to say.. He speaks english very well, but says we Americans talk so fast(lol we talk fast??), it's hard to understand sometimes, he is hoping for an Nigerian officer..

    So any suggestions?? Does that even matter? I have sent everything I can think of.. I won't able to be there ,that's why I made sure to be there this July and Aug. before work started back up. So we have some more evidence to show. How many of you are going with your fiancee to the interview? Well just checking in hoping to get some,tips, support, feedback , prayers ... all the above. God's favor to us all!!

    peace,

    Chi

  5. ok I guess i was sleeping on this one.. or maybe just thought I had it covered. so with the affidavat of support. How many years do u need to be making the correct income level??? I have the tax transcripts, how many years do i need to send. 2?? 3?? or what. I also was going to send 3 months of payroll direct deposits and my last 2 years teaching contract. I guess I could find the other 2 if i need to??

    Peace,

    Chi

  6. This has been the longest, emotional journery I have every been through.. But it's not that it gets easier,, it's you get stronger,your faith get's deeper and you realized that this realationship is the one worth this battle. You realize that you are stronger than you every thought. So you please don't be hard on yourself, get close to your support system and keep the communication encouraging , with your fiancee..

    Peace,

    chi

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