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Finally the sample has left Ghana via UPS.  It was tough getting the local office to understand that it was
pre-paid.  The package is expected in the US late Thursday 8/10.  We should know by 8/16 or so.  I will update then.

Thanks for asking. As a matter of fact the DNA package arrived in Ghana today.  Fed Ex was able to deliver to her house and she has it.  They are going to pick it up when its ready.  I pray she does it correctly.  I mean its not hard, she seemed to understand.  We will drop my husbands in the mail tomorrow.  We did not have too much lead time before the boys was sent off.  Once received by DDC it takes about 2 business days. I will be sure to return with the results.  May as soon as next week. 

Thanks for your comment.  Many who commented are from countries that are easy to immigrate from or those with great legal and child care systems that is not the case here.  I am a very self-reliant and confident person and realistic.  I understand the entire story and who knows who and what had to happen where my husband and I even to be in this situation.  Right now I am concerned for the child.  My sister in law is older and may not always be there for the child.  My current concern is the child. 
 
I contacted a DNA company they can do the DNA however it will not count for immigration.  Not sure why they are a AABB certified.  No matter we are scheduled and should have results soon.
 

OP - refers to Original Poster
 
I dont think people get the different cultures and norms.  If the father is not OPs husband and unknown man will be next to impossible to track.
 
OPs husband cheated with this woman.  If there's another man or men that's so far fetched to find when even the mother seems difficult to track.
 
i do think the child is of OPs husband as it seems this was an affair and she knew his address, sister's address etc.  sounds more like a full blown affair than a fling.
 
Take one thing at a time, do the DNA test.  I feel your husband may have made the child seem like Likely not his to reduce guilt.  If its negative then look at adoption options.
 
i respect your honourable intentions and happy to know inspite of issues with your husband you have put the unknown child first.

You guys are sooo right, if its not my husbands child and my sister in law is no long available to take care of him I will let him wonder the streets till he finds his dad.  Are y'all missing the point.  THE MOTHER IS GONE in a small country with millions of people.  If she did not know who the father was how am I supposed to know.  Thank everyone.  DNA test was the answer I was looking for, NOT JUDGEMENT. 

Which part are you missing?  Oh, you are stuck on the cheating!  Move on I have.  It is good for a child to be raised by his mother, it is sad the mother did not think so.

Wow, I am just trying to be a good person.  The girl left the child, we are not sure if she id dead or alive.  She just left the child with an old woman.  Trust me this is an unselfish act for the child.  Why she left and where she is - is not the issue.  I want to do what is best in the long run for a little boy.  Again, my husband cheated - I am a big girl I understand that I am not 100% myself.  But I understand that this little boy would be in the street without the kindness of my sister-in-law who is too old to take care of a small boy.  My husband to date does not claim this child but we help because it is the right thing to do.  He is an innocent child in all this and deserves to be safe.  I want to make sure in the worse case scenario he has an option if we can give it to him. 

Wow, I am just trying to be a good person.  The girl left the child, we are not sure if she id dead or alive.  She just left the child with an old woman.  Trust me this is an unselfish act for the child.  Why she left and where she is - is not the issue.  I want to do what is best in the long run for a little boy.  Again, my husband cheated - I am a big girl I understand that I am not 100% myself.  But I understand that this little boy would be in the street without the kindness of my sister-in-law who is too old to take care of a small boy.  My husband to date does not claim this child but we help because it is the right thing to do.  He is an innocent child in all this and deserves to be safe.  I want to make sure in the worse case scenario he has an option if we can give it to him. 

Wow, I am just trying to be a good person.  The girl left the child, we are not sure if she id dead or alive.  She just left the child with an old woman.  Trust me this is an unselfish act for the child.  Why she left and where she is - is not the issue.  I want to do what is best in the long run for a little boy.  Again, my husband cheated - I am a big girl I understand that I am not 100% myself.  But I understand that this little boy would be in the street without the kindness of my sister-in-law who is too old to take care of a small boy.  My husband to date does not claim this child but we help because it is the right thing to do.  He is an innocent child in all this and deserves to be safe.  I want to make sure in the worse case scenario he has an option if we can give it to him. 

This is exactly what I was thinking. I mean it just does not make sense to insist that "my daughter boyfriend comes or I am leaving"? Who says that!

This is exactly what I was thinking. I mean it just does not make sense to insist that "my daughter boyfriend comes or I am leaving"? Who says that!

This is exactly what I said, who decides for me who I can marry. Please woman to woman: Do whatever you can to go to Ghana. Make sure this man is legit. This is a high fraud country. I went to Ghana two times before deciding to marry my husband. The new scam out of Ghana is to get married to an American, come to the US and then join the military and get citizenship from the military. I know another woman's whose husband came right after mine. She is living in hell because she did not do her due diligence. Less than a year with him in the US she was working on a divorce she has stuck it out but she has no intentions of filing for his 10 year and they are heading for divorce. Prior to this man came, she came on visa journey questioning his intent, and did not follow her mind. If she could talk to you she would tell you the same. Go to Ghana, pay attention and make sure you know the real situation. Even if you do not understand the language, you can see and know who and what your man is really about. My situation was different, and my husband is great. While in Ghana I spent time at the cafe's where they do there "business". I have talked to the guys and many speak to different women to see who can get them in the US. Just saying, watch this video, stay safe. http://www.bing.com/videos/search?q=+ghana+fraud+video&FORM=VIRE1#view=detail&mid=170F7B75C80057268578170F7B75C80057268578

This is exactly what I said, who decides for me who I can marry. Please woman to woman: Do whatever you can to go to Ghana. Make sure this man is legit. This is a high fraud country. I went to Ghana two times before deciding to marry my husband. The new scam out of Ghana is to get married to an American, come to the US and then join the military and get citizenship from the military. I know another woman's whose husband came right after mine. She is living in hell because she did not do her due diligence. Less than a year with him in the US she was working on a divorce she has stuck it out but she has no intentions of filing for his 10 year and they are heading for divorce. Prior to this man came, she came on visa journey questioning his intent, and did not follow her mind. If she could talk to you she would tell you the same. Go to Ghana, pay attention and make sure you know the real situation. Even if you do not understand the language, you can see and know who and what your man is really about. My situation was different, and my husband is great. While in Ghana I spent time at the cafe's where they do there "business". I have talked to the guys and many speak to different women to see who can get them in the US. Just saying, watch this video, stay safe. http://www.bing.com/videos/search?q=+ghana+fraud+video&FORM=VIRE1#view=detail&mid=170F7B75C80057268578170F7B75C80057268578

This is exactly what I said, who decides for me who I can marry. Please woman to woman: Do whatever you can to go to Ghana. Make sure this man is legit. This is a high fraud country. I went to Ghana two times before deciding to marry my husband. The new scam out of Ghana is to get married to an American, come to the US and then join the military and get citizenship from the military. I know another woman's whose husband came right after mine. She is living in hell because she did not do her due diligence. Less than a year with him in the US she was working on a divorce she has stuck it out but she has no intentions of filing for his 10 year and they are heading for divorce. Prior to this man came, she came on visa journey questioning his intent, and did not follow her mind. If she could talk to you she would tell you the same. Go to Ghana, pay attention and make sure you know the real situation. Even if you do not understand the language, you can see and know who and what your man is really about. My situation was different, and my husband is great. While in Ghana I spent time at the cafe's where they do there "business". I have talked to the guys and many speak to different women to see who can get them in the US. Just saying, watch this video, stay safe. http://www.bing.com/videos/search?q=+ghana+fraud+video&FORM=VIRE1#view=detail&mid=170F7B75C80057268578170F7B75C80057268578

you seem to me you are full of s*&^ to be honest, it seems like you had no problems with his "illegal" activities while things were good between the two of you but now that hes found another solution to his legal matters you basically want revenge. and yes you probably knew all along about the laptop and other things bought with stolen cc. you know i hate people like you, my wife tends to use this kind of logic with me, if i dont do as she wants or put up with her bs she uses the oh i will divorce you and stuff knowing damn well i need her, its like a power trip. if hes in the army then he will get his citizenship with or without you, get ur divorce and move on.

Congratulations! I met my husband in 2008, through one of my staff who went home to Ghana and came back and said , "I met your future husband in Ghana". I remember walking out my front door one morning on the way to work and I heard God's voice say "trust and believe". Fast forward to 2013, I am married with two daughters.
This is a unique and difficult journey we are on, but no less satisfying. To others, do not give up on this journey, because it gets hard or USCIS and NVC add obstacles. It is worth it in the long run. My husband is the most supportive, understanding and loving man I have ever met. I thank God every day, that even when I had given up he did not.

Congratulations! I met my husband in 2008, through one of my staff who went home to Ghana and came back and said , "I met your future husband in Ghana". I remember walking out my front door one morning on the way to work and I heard God's voice say "trust and believe". Fast forward to 2013, I am married with two daughters.
This is a unique and difficult journey we are on, but no less satisfying. To others, do not give up on this journey, because it gets hard or USCIS and NVC add obstacles. It is worth it in the long run. My husband is the most supportive, understanding and loving man I have ever met. I thank God every day, that even when I had given up he did not.

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August Cases Waiting on Interview:
NAME................COMPLETE....RECEIVED....INTERVIEW...VISA TYPE....EMBASSY
missing you babe....08/14/12....04/01/13....05/21/13....IR-1.........Yemen

December Cases Waiting on Interview:
NAME................COMPLETE....RECEIVED....INTERVIEW...VISA TYPE....EMBASSY
Gringa Chapina......12/11/12....04/19/13....05/22/13....IR-1.........Guatemala

March Cases Waiting on Interview:
NAME................COMPLETE....RECEIVED....INTERVIEW...VISA TYPE....EMBASSY
meltemapo...........03/01/13....05/01/13....06/03/13....IR-1/CR-1....Turkey
John & Jeni.........03/01/13....03/29/13....05/14/13....IR-1/CR-1....Greece
oohpartiv...........03/05/13....04/24/13....05/29/13....IR-1.........Ecuador
K n E...............03/08/13....04/02/13....05/17/13....IR-1/CR-1....Pakistan
Highyella72.........03/11/13....04/02/13....05/06/13....IR-1/CR-1....Nigeria
FeFrSaKa............03/12/13....04/30/13....06/11/13....IR-1.........Ecuador
Aladlhassan.........03/13/13....04/02/13....05/20/13....IR-1/CR-1....Morocco
Judy2Rock...........03/13/13....04/02/13....05/21/13....IR-1/CR-1....Jamaica
wellensky/denise....03/15/13....04/02/13....05/21/13....IR-1/CR-1....Nigeria
God's mercy.........02/25/13....04/02/13....05/23/13....IR-1.........Nigeria
TeamMcGregor........03/15/13....03/29/13....05/15/13....IR-1/CR-1....Dominican Rep.
Mina90..............03/15/13....04/01/13....05/05/13....IR-1/CR-1....Bangladesh
martha brown03......03/18/13....05/03/13....06/24/13....IR-1/CR-1....Kenya
MeredythB...........03/20/13....04/01/13....05/07/13....IR-1/CR-1....Ireland
Vicki&Nanuka........03/20/13....04/30/13....06/17/13....IR-1/CR-1....Nigeria
Mar_Wil.............03/20/13....03/30/13....05/02/13....IR-1.........Philippines
Sunflower123........03/20/13....03/29/13....05/13/13....IR-1/CR-1....Mexico
gamm3...............03/20/13....04/10/13....05/20/13....IR-1/CR-1....Colombia
Roosha..............03/22/13....03/29/13....05/19/13....IR-1/CR-1....Qatar
kwakuoj.............03/22/13....04/01/13....05/15/13....IR-1/CR-1....Ghana
Oriz................03/22/13....04/01/13....05/06/13....IR-1.........Israel
babyjk .............03/26/13....04/01/13....05/08/13....IR-1/CR-1....Barbados
elle13 .............03/26/13....04/01/13....05/02/13....IR-1/CR-1....Malaysia
Bongnhanna..........03/26/13....04/02/13....05/28/13....IR-1/CR-1....Phnom Penh
Toff................03/26/13....04/10/13....05/07/13....IR-1/CR-1....Australia
MikeJill............03/27/13....04/01/13....05/14/13....IR-1/CR-1....UK
Mrs&Mr..............03/27/13....03/29/13....05/24/13....IR-1/CR-1....Greece
RajNav..............03/29/13....04/01/13....05/10/13....IR-1/CR-1....India
Aleigh36............03/29/13....04/01/13....05/15/13....IR-1/CR-1....UK
watergirl76.........03/29/13....04/03/13....05/08/13....IR-1/CR-1....Canada
lonelyboy2003.......03/29/13....04/30/13....06/11/13....IR-1/CR-1....Vietnam (HCM)


April Cases Waiting on Interview:
NAME................COMPLETE....RECEIVED....INTERVIEW...VISA TYPE....EMBASSY
s$susauk............04/01/13....04/01/13....05/28/13....IR-1/CR-1....UK
floyd...............04/01/13....04/01/13....05/09/13....IR-1/CR-1....India
Chetsky.............04/02/13....05/01/13....06/03/13....IR-1.........Philippines
NYCBound............04/02/13....04/12/13....05/15/13....IR-1.........Canada
valprime............04/03/13....04/12/13....05/30/13....IR-1/CR-1....Canada
romanticminds.......04/03/13....xx/xx/xx....xx/xx/13....IR-1.........Cambodia
Aprice138...........04/04/13....04/10/13....05/21/13....IR-1/CR-1....New Zealand
YA 1127.............04/04/13....05/01/13....06/21/13....IR-1/CR-1....Dominican Rep.
lyra................04/05/13....04/11/13....05/16/13....IR-1/CR-1....Malaysia
dopeyzn.............04/06/13....04/10/13....05/02/13....IR-1/CR-1....Switzerland
SMANNE..............04/08/13....04/30/13....06/21/13....IR-1/CR-1....Nigeria
srloring13..........04/09/13....04/30/13....06/13/13....IR-1/CR-1....Nigeria
Zara1124............04/09/13....04/10/13....05/29/13....IR-1/CR-1....Pakistan
sai.mi28............04/09/13....05/01/13....06/04/13....CR-1.........Philippines
Panda Sky3..........04/10/13....04/11/13....05/13/13....IR-1/CR-1....Myanmar
arriyan.............04/10/13....04/29/13....06/21/13....IR-1/CR-1....Singapore
Bishara123..........04/10/13....xx/xx/13....xx/xx/13....IR-1/CR-1....Kenya
EmilyMary...........04/11/13....05/17/13....05/21/13....IR-1/CR-1....Bermuda
teysha..............04/12/13....04/30/13....06/27/13....IR-1/CR-1....Haiti
SundayBelinda.......04/12/13....04/30/13....06/06/13....IR-1/CR-1....Nigeria
vanessa27...........04/14/13....xx/xx/13....xx/xx/13....CR-1/IR-1....Ecuador
NikiR...............04/15/13....05/01/13....06/03/13....CR-1.........Canada
ErinBeth............04/15/13....04/30/13....06/11/13....CR-1.........Morocco
JandRP..............04/15/13....05/01/13....Got IT!!....IR-1/CR-1....Jamaica
fav13259............04/15/13....04/30/13....06/24/13....IR-1/CR-1....Mexico
Pluis...............04/15/13....04/29/13....06/25/13....IR-1/CR-1....The Netherlands
Jbda................04/16/13....05/01/13....06/24/13....IR-1/CR-1....Turkey
champi..............04/16/13....05/01/13....06/03/13....IR-5.........India
Avram...............04/17/13....04/29/13....06/26/13....IR-1/CR-1....Macedonia
Jonelo..............04/18/13....04/30/13....06/12/13....IR-1/CR-1....Romania
A & C...............04/18/13....05/02/13....06/03/13....CR-1.........Canada
MGRD................04/19/13....04/29/13....06/24/13....IR-1/CR-1....Haiti
Ess.................04/19/13....05/01/13....06/13/13....IR-1/CR-1....Pakistan
shefe...............04/22/13....04/30/13....06/20/13....CR-1/IR-1....Nigeria
Mady................04/22/13....04/29/13....06/04/13....IR-1/CR-1....Egypt
Icede...............04/22/13....05/01/13....06/04/13....IR-1/CR-1....Lithuania
Ludakrishna.........04/23/13....05/01/13....06/12/13....IR-1/CR-1....India
T & P...............04/23/13....05/01/13....06/12/13....IR-1/CR-1....India
Sarsoor............ 04/24/13....04/29/13....06/17/13....IR-1/CR-1....Egypt
coltoasty.......... 04/24/13....05/01/13....06/17/13....CR-1.........Pakistan
hikergirl...........04/25/13....05/01/13....06/19/13....CR-1.........Canada
SerenityNOW.........04/26/13....05/14/13....06/05/13....IR-2.........Bulgaria
Dr. H and Mrs. H....04/29/13....04/30/13....05/28/13....IR-1/CR-1....Malaysia
lucy................04/29/13....05/10/13....06/05/13....IR-2.........Barbados
daphoknee...........04/30/13....05/01/13....06/17/13....IR-1.........Canada
oldblighty..........04/30/13....05/01/13....06/10/13....IR1/CR-1.....UK
squirrelisan........04/30/13....05/10/13....06/03/13....CR-1.........South Korea
Aball...............04/30/13....05/10/13....06/10/13....IR-1/CR-1....Ireland
LunarStar...........04/30/13....05/13/13....06/10/13....CR-1.........Japan
Endo................04/30/13....xx/xx/13....xx/xx/13....IR-1/CR-1....Nigeria
E-A.................04/30/13....xx/xx/13....xx/xx/13....CR-1.........Vietnam (HCM)
Ash & Tiffany.......04/30/13....05/01/13....06/18/13....CR-1.........Australia



May cases waiting on interview:
NAME COMPLETE RECEIVED INTERVIEW VISA TYPE EMBASSY
Tanithw.............05/01/13....05/04/13....06/03/13....CR-1.........UK
W&H.................05/01/13....xx/xx/13....xx/xx/13....CR-1/IR-1....Egypt
Zamar...............05/01/13....05/13/13....06/06/13....IR-1/CR-1....India
Esele...............05/01/13....05/31/13....07/23/13....CR-1/IR-1....Nigeria
Eliano..............05/02/13....05/13/13....06/26/13....IR-1/IR-2....Georgia
Ixsa................05/03/13....xx/xx/13....xx/xx/13....CR-1/IR-1....Dominican Republic
ronzkie.............05/03/13....xx/xx/13....xx/xx/13....CR-1/IR-1....Philippines
Speedwell...........05/06/13....05/13/13....06/14/13....CR-1.........UK
ppihtr123...........05/06/13....xx/xx/13....xx/xx/13....CR-2/IR-2....Philippines
raosaab0202.........05/06/13....05/13/13....06/20/13....CR-1/IR-1....India
Haksar..............05/06/13....05/13/13....06/28/13....IR-1/CR-1....India
dyno305.............05/06/13....05/10/13....06/06/13....IR-1/CR-1....Cuba
Amado...............05/07/13....xx/xx/13....xx/xx/13....CR-1/IR-1....Dominican Republic
visao...............05/08/13....xx/xx/13....xx/xx/13....IR-1/CR-1....Vietnam (HCM)
civilservant........05/10/13....05/13/13....06/12/13....CR-1.........UK
Zandrao.............05/10/13....05/13/13....06/14/13....IR-1/CR-1....UK
Joel&Michelle.......05/10/13....xx/xx/13....xx/xx/13....CR-1.........Philippines
ainsn...............05/10/13....xx/xx/13....xx/xx/13....IR-1.........Bangladesh
mrsaloto............05/10/13....xx/xx/13....xx/xx/13....IR-1/CR-1....Kenya
dsanchez16..........05/13/13....05/14/13....06/04/13....IR-1/CR-1....Mexico
ingrid_rachel.......05/xx/13....05/14/13....06/11/13....IR-1/CR-1....Mexico
Angeljay............05/13/13....xx/xx/13....xx/xx/13....CR-1/IR-1....Philippines
Acherugo............05/13/13....xx/xx/13....xx/xx/13....CR-1/IR-1....Nigeria
MrsWhite&family.....05/13/13....05/13/13....06/27/13....CR-1.........Jamaica
Mathies_dane....... 05/13/13....xx/xx/13....xx/xx/13....CR-1/IR-1....Sweden
David & Zoila.......05/15/13....xx/xx/13....xx/xx/13....CR-1.........Philippines
odus blessing.......05/15/13....xx/xx/13....xx/xx/13....CR-1/IR-1....Nigeria
LuvStruk............05/15/13....05/31/13....07/16/13....CR-1/IR-1....Nigeria
kcck................05/15/13....xx/xx/13....xx/xx/13....CR-1/IR-1....UK
Rivea1979...........05/16/13....xx/xx/13....xx/xx/13....CR-1.........Nicaragua
applicantctg........05/16/13....xx/xx/13....xx/xx/13....CR-1.........Bangladesh
Lucidsofia..........05/16/13....05/29/13....06/14/13....CR-1.........Spain [Expedited]
KDH.................05/17/13....xx/xx/13....xx/xx/13....IR-1.........Canada
Aqid................05/17/13....06/05/13....07/23/13....CR-1.........Netherlands
HG&TG...............05/20/13....xx/xx/13....xx/xx/13....CR-1/IR-1....Netherlands
Tllanos.............05/20/13....xx/xx/13....xx/xx/13....CR-1/IR-1....Brazil
Noahsmama...........05/21/13....xx/xx/13....xx/xx/13....IR-5.........China
Imara Stringham.....05/21/13....xx/xx/13....xx/xx/13....IR-1/CR-1....Nicaragua
NCChina.............05/22/13....xx/xx/13....xx/xx/13....IR-1.........China
J Zhang.............05/22/13....xx/xx/13....xx/xx/13....CR-1.........China
preetygirl..........05/22/13....xx/xx/13....xx/xx/13....CR-1/IR-1....UK
smrowe..............05/22/13....xx/xx/13....xx/xx/13....CR-1.........Canada
louiep..............05/23/13....xx/xx/13....xx/xx/13....CR-1/CR-2....Philippines
Lucas&Lucas.........05/23/13....xx/xx/13....xx/xx/13....CR-1/IR-1....Brazil
Clemjam.............05/24/13....xx/xx/13....xx/xx/13....IR-1.........France
Apalis..............05/24/13....xx/xx/13....xx/xx/13....CR-1/IR-1....Singapore
kne1................05/24/13....05/31/13....07/16/13....CR-1/IR-1....Ghana
iamasking...........05/28/13....xx/xx/13....xx/xx/13....CR-1/IR-1....Saudi Arabia
americanrizvi.......05/29/13....xx/xx/13....xx/xx/13....CR-1/IR-1....Pakistan
DemRa...............05/29/13....xx/xx/13....xx/xx/13....CR-1/IR-1....Nepal
Nick1980............05/29/13....xx/xx/13....xx/xx/13....CR-1/IR-1....Serbia
NewportWest.........05/30/13....xx/xx/13....xx/xx/13....CR-1/IR-1....Canada
Robert&Denia........05/30/13....xx/xx/13....xx/xx/13....CR-1/IR-1....El Salvador

N-400, Part 3, box A shows your SS number, that is all they need to learn if you sent in a valid IRS form or not, one simple phone call.
My ex's crooked attorney got a court order for my tax transcripts and charged me an extra 300 bucks for that simple phone call with a court order where I could have gave them that for free. Tell me about privacy.
When my good wife hurt her knee, took her into emergency, stayed with her, but when the bill came in due to the privacy act, wasn't suppose to see that. When I was hit by that idiot kid, his insurance went back to the day I was born looking for per-conditions, have no idea how they knew I sprained my ankle playing football in high school, didn't even see a doctor about that. All of my medical records are now open to the public at the court house, so tell me about privacy again.
Living in a country loaded with hypocrites. Congress passed these laws, didn't want their wife's to learn they picked up some form of VD by playing around. We don't need leaders like this.

Beleive it or not, all these years on visa journey this is the first time I am hearing anything about CEAC. Thanks for the link. That is why I love this place and the information you can obtain here.

You might want to check with others, I have read that some people have said that money transfers can cause problems. You might want to leave those out, they say they can cause more harm than good with Ghana. Good Luck.

You have missed the entire point. I guess it's because THIS FORUM HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH YOU! Thank you for recognizing that and going away.

I can not believe the US Government feels these are appropriate questions. Come on what do these questions prove. Like she said who knows the exact date they started dating? If they had answered with synchronized answers that would have been more of a red flag to me. It would have been rehearsed, and who knows the answers to these questions. When you meet someone, do you think I better write down this date, because one day we will want to be married, apply for a fiancé visa, sit in an interview and they will ask me, so I better write this day down. No you don't.