Adriene H

This is a public forum, if you air your dirty laundry be prepared for getting judgemental comments. As far as what you can and can not do, you can withdrawl the application, but if you go and file again you will need to request a waiver, this is just a letter from you, listing both previous k visa attempts, and put in the letter the reason the relationships did not work out. There is the advise, now here comes the jedgemental comment. You are acting like you are already thinking about a third k visa attempt, and you still have your second one pending, and you say that you want a foreign bride (this I dont blame you on) but to me you seem to be going about it like it does not really matter you go from one to another and now are looking for a third, I know this is not your case (at least I hope not) but what I would say is for you to take your time next time, how long did you know the woman before you went to see her? I have filed for 2 k visa's the first did not work out, 1 week before the interview she said like yours did (also from the Ukraine by the way) that she could not leave Ukraine and she just never went to the interview, and the second ended in a denial, so I moved to Vietnam to be with my second one, but the point I am trying to make is get to know them, take 6 or 8 months before you go and visit one, consider getting married there instead of in America, the Cr1 is cheaper, and you also have to make the commitment. Remember moving to a different country is hard, there are some people that cant do it. One thing I do not know if you did but did you have any of your family writing her? any of your friends? Things like this make the other feel more comfortable, how many trips did you make? Do you see where this is going? Many people here will give you h#ll over multiple k visa's with multiple women, you have to admit you asking about a third before the second was canceled or denied looks bad. Just something for you to consider, and remember you are not "shopping" for any bride, so treat it like that. Jerome

I believe you opened the forum up to comments you deem "judgemental" by this part of your post:
Sachinky merely told you the answer to your "what the "#&$%^%%#??" question and why she changed her mind - two weeks after meeting was not good enough for this particular women.
You have your other answers above.

I think there is more to the Story. What is the Beneficiaries side. She cannot defend herself against this Post. What was the reason for her leaving? I'm sure she is aware of The rules. Previous Posts indicate this is not the first time the OP has encountered problems with women.
Maybe she seen a chance to get out and RAN.
We don't know what went on under that roof. Just because the OP said: She Left me with no reason does not mean there was'nt a reason.
The advice to the OP was good from Members but, I still think there is more to this story. A Woman does not leave for No reason when she is aware anyway she will be deported and maybe would rather be deported than stay another day in that house.
JUST A DIFFERENT WAY OF LOOKING AT IT.

If this were me, I'd be on the phone right now with every one of my credit-card issuers (they have 24-hour lines for "lost or stolen cards" via which you can talk to a human being). Explain the situation; tell them not to authorize ANY out-of-town or out-of-pattern (meaning your usual purchasing pattern) charges, and certainly no cash advances. No card-issuer is to process any change of address for any account unless they speak with you personally. Start with the Visa, MasterCard, AmEx, & Discover, and proceed through the gasoline-company cards. It's NOT necessary to cancel every card that you have; just put fraud alerts on your accounts.
My next call would be to ICE. Even though her I-94 (not "visa," as was stated above in an otherwise excellent post) won't expire for 90 days since her POE, you want to start a file NOW so that ICE and USCIS can be aware. If the ICE agent with whom you speak is reluctant to start a file now because the 90 days isn't up, politely ask for a supervisor -- and persist until you're connected to one. Your goal is to have this entered into the system even if no action can be taken yet. Get a case-file number and the names and locations of each ICE agent with whom you speak. When you call, have her A# ready, and her Colombian passport number if you can find it.
On Saturday morning, expend any price to have a locksmith rekey ALL of your locks as top priority. If she had a mailbox key or the chance to copy yours, consider having your mail held at the Post Office for you to pick up, for a while at least. This would keep your credit-card statements and bank statements safe from outside hands.
Follow all of the advice from others. At all costs, do NOT (do NOT! do NOT!) allow yourself to be sweet-talked or suckered.
Before I met Mrs. T-B., I was nearly suckered by a very clever Colombiana. Wiser friends told me that although there are many sincere Colombianas, there's also an incredible amount of fraud, at a very sophisticated level of operation. I'm glad that I listened to the warnings.
As shocking and painful as this is, you've gotten off very cheaply (in comparison to worst-case) and unharmed so far, presuming that you act per above. Thank your lucky stars for that, si man.
When you've healed from this, I can get you fixed up with 100% sincere Ecuatorianas who would never sucker you like this, no man.
Keep the faith, si man.

Wait ? Good grief!!
1) Huge phone bills
2) All her clothes & bags are gone
3) No note or message
4) messages are blocked
5).... heck don't need 5

I am so very sorry that this happened to you, not just that she left you and treated you like this, but also for the loss of your dream of a happy life together, the life for which you have worked so hard and waited so long.
Please do follow AZ and hikergirl's advice. Her visa is only good for 90 days. If she discovers she was premature in her actions of leaving you since she has no legal grounds to remain in the US legally nor get a green card except through marriage to you, she may come 'repentantly back' saying she was overwrought or 'needed time because things were happening too quickly' and try to convince you that this was all innocent, hoping to win your trust enough so you will marry her and apply for a green card. Then, when she gets the green card she would again disappear. Others have been taken in by such pleas, wanting to keep that dream intact, wanting to believe in the promises of love, wanting to trust again . . . but it almost always leads to a second desertion and this time with the US partner on the hook for an enforceable affidavit of support.
Take care of yourself. Let your friends and family know so they can be there to support you right now and do provide USCIS with an 'update'. You may also wish to provide 'ICE' with the copies of the telephone addresses and a statement of what has happened so she is on their radar as well.
Good luck to you.

You probably didn't get any RFEs because everything was missing. It's one thing for them to send you an RFE for a missing copy of a birth certificate, it's an entirely different matter for them to tell you "dude, everything is missing, resubmit".
OP, frankly, if you missed that you needed a whole bunch of supporting documents, I suspect you would best be served by hiring a professional to do this for you. Everyone can miss a particular nuance or individual item, but if you're not able to read the instructions and even come close to what they are asking for, I don't think you're going to be successful trying again.
If that's too harsh for some people, too bad. Do you want delicate half truths that don't hurt your feelings, or do you want sound advice? My advice, hire a good lawyer.

Tip: Don't hold your breath

Tip: Don't hold your breath

Sometimes hormones can make you crazy. I would give it a little time until after you have the baby to make a decision like that.

Don't be ridiculous. This is a PUBLIC OPNION FORUM as well as a place to gather info! I answered her question. She's free to leave before the baby is born. If you ask a loaded question ofcourse people will respond with their thoughts as well as the facts. Especially on a topic that would touch close to home for so many people.
If all she wanted was a legal remedy she could have asked her question without including details of her relationship that would lead us to believe that she is indeed conflicted. Or she could have just talked to a lawyer in PRIVATE and got a 3 word answer..
I'd just like to add that no one has a right to judge her and I hope she does not take it that way. Her story is HEARTBREAKING... I'm sure many of us feel for her - I certainly do because I personally have felt like just running away and leaving when things went badly during my marriage at the beginning of my pregnancy.. I'm GLAD I got advice from people. I'm glad I opened up. I'm glad I listened to people even when I had my mind made up. If I made a decision in a vacuum I may have missed out on what actually turned out to be an amazing pregancy and an even stronger marriage than I could have ever imagined. I would have never known that things can be so very different when you are pregnant and emotions are sometimes powerful enough to lead you astray..
Pregnancy and love it HARD.. If you've been through a rough time as early as she is in her's, it does no harm to have her hear peoples opinions no matter what she chooses to do in the end.
I wont apologize for empathizing with this poor woman enough to add my two cents. I meant no direspect or judgement but this is not a question about some silly mistake on an immigration form or 'why have I not gotten my biometrics appointment?.....'

Ridiculous

If her early pregnancy is causing sickness resulting in her having to miss work,
she should speak with her employer about applying for FMLA (Family Medical Leave Act).
It's very much frowned upon for a woman to be fired for pregnancy related illness.

If your girl has to take time off work after the baby is born, and you're not there ...
maybe you could prove severe financial hardship?

What about Greyhound bus?
Or buying a cheap car and selling it when you get to the US?
Just pulling ideas off the top of my head

Taking your personal fx with you would be a lot better.
UPS can take forever, or your stuff could sit in a customs warehouse
for weeks before you see it again. Also, it was years ago but UPS
didn't handle a computer very gently that I had shipped. It did finally
arrive but the RAM was missing and the monitor was cracked in the
corner. When I tried to file a claim, they said it wasn't valid since
my father had packed it instead of letting an agent pack it. (USA to Canada)

Do you have a Triple A membership? I would totally ask them, they might know
of an international car rental ...